R.I.P. Internet Freedom

VK.com was the best thing since Xtube and now it's practically useless for finding pee/wetting content.  As I type this, Motherless.com--a website online since 2005--is no more.  ThisVid has vowed to remove "scat" content, which may or may not include pee and wetting content as well.  (They've also asked users not to contact them no matter how upset they may be about this policy as they refuse to answer any questions they may have).  Pisshamster is almost never updated with new content anymore.  ADISC forums shut down abruptly and many adult X.com accounts recently dealt with unexpected bans including my own (it's back, thankfully, but for how long nobody knows).  And Tumblr, once among the greatest sites for original Omo content of all kinds, from written fictional stories to photos to videos and games, banned porn in one fell swoop back in late 2018, leaving devoted users with few alternatives.  Reddit, which once branded itself as a bastion of free speech, did a 180 in the wake of its IPO, banning thousands of subreddits and nuking their content without warning.  Even a Google Video or Image search doesn't return the same quality of accurate results for wetting porn as it once did, raising the question:  what the fuck is going on with the internet?

Who is threatening web hosts and site creators to remove content or drop pornography, and what are they threatening them WITH?  Is it all financial, or are legal threats involved?  Last time I checked, adult content was 100% legal to produce and view in the United States for adults 18 years and up.  If you click on that button that says you're 18+, that's a legally-binding contract.  It's not the website's fault if some brat in Iowa lies about their age... that's on their legal guardians.  It's also not the website's fault if some sex trafficking creep uploads content without consent.  That's what DMCA takedown requests exist for.  Creators already have to prove their identity on most of these sites to prove they're not someone else uploading revenge porn or other peoples' vids.  If they somehow beat that system and lie, THEY'RE in violation of the law, not the website.  

This guy looks like he's been on a few private 🏝s... We know the other one has.

We've already seen this tactic play out with drug discussion boards like Silk Road, AlphaBay, Legal High Guides and Topix.  Instead of going after the drug dealers on these sites, the Feds and DEA would entrap the site's creators and moderators, whose only real crimes were creating a space for people to discuss a much-maligned topic.  They're turning the internet into a wasteland and stomping on the rights of consenting adults in the meantime.  Pretty soon, Omo lovers will have to use a Tor browser or other dark web portal just to view our chosen form of content.  We're talking about a form of pornography involving clothed people who aren't even engaging in sexual intercourse most of the time, mind you.  If you think that's okay, maybe you'd do better in North Korea or Afghanistan.  

Better Alternatives... for Now

If you're like me and still want to access the "old good stuff," check out Biguz.net and Tumbex.  Use Yandex or Bing as your search engine for pics and videos, and have a gander at Sexpissing.com as an alternative to Pisshamster for aggregated wetting vids.  /r/urinewords on Reddit has some hot pee fetish discussion and Daily Diapers is a suitable replacement for ADISC if you're into the ABDL thing.  Omorashi.org is still good for Omo talk and related topics, but it's not as busy as it once was.  

If you appreciate what a website, app or creator does, let them know.  And when a company announces bullshit changes you DON'T like, let them know that too.  Your voice does matter and your dollars do count.  Without us, none of these porn sites would exist because there would be no one to pay the bills.  Vote with your dollars and your voice.  

Documenting ThisVid's shady policy changes for future reference.

Thanks for literally propping up our business for free, but do not inquire.  Fuckyouverymuch.

With so much of the pee and wetting content being for-profit OnlyFans-style shit, it's already hard enough to find genuine for-pleasure vids by amateurs like in the days of Wetpantsboy, Wetlinda, Swishersweetie and all the rest.  Now our favorite websites are being heavily censored or memoryholed en masse.  How long will we continue to let literal pεdophiles and corrupt politicians decide what consenting, taxpaying adult citizens are allowed to view in our own homes?  

Omorashi Signs: VIRGO

Virgo (August 23-September 22) is a mutable Earth sign ruled by Mercury and represented by the Virgin aka Maiden.  She represents purity and perfection, and most Virgos are definitely of the Type A persuasion.  In the positive sense, this can make them highly organized, great at planning and delegating or completing tasks on their own.  Virgos are responsible and humble and generally kind to those in need.  In the negative, it can make them anxious, high-strung & irritable with an extra side of judgment.

In the bedroom, Virgos can be surprisingly open-minded to kinky things once they trust you and feel secure.  Because they're such neat-freaks in their daily lives, some Virgos like to experiment with "messy" sexual play, which Omorashi and watersports fit into perfectly.  They may enjoy roleplay that involves power dynamics such a master/slave or doggy/owner and might be open to marking territory or ordering their partner to do submissive tasks involving pee or wetting.  It's the taboo aspect which goes against their innate nature that makes this sort of thing so appealing.  

Because Virgos place such emphasis on cleanliness and order, you'd better not slack on helping them clean up afterward.  And if you ARE a Virgo, make sure you make your expectations clear beforehand so there's no misunderstanding.  Don't let yourself be conned into doing all the aftercare and cleanup just because you're passionate about cleanliness, which can definitely happen.  Strive to make it a 50/50 thing.

wHy ArE yOu InTo WeTtInG?

 



Sorry for the sarcasti-caps, but I just can't understand why so many people seem so baffled by this.

"Eww why would anyone LIKE that?" 

"You're kidding aren't you?  Stop.  Nobody pees themselves on purpose."  

"Sounds like another excuse for pure laziness to me."

Sure it's not for everyone, hence why it's a fetish/paraphilia, but that shouldn't preclude you from wrapping your brain around why someone else might enjoy it.  

The answer is simple:  BECAUSE IT FEELS GOOD!  Why does it feel good?  Because urine is warm, wet and comes from the genitals.  In women, a full bladder presses on the G-spot which can increase sensation & overall horniness.  (Not sure about male anatomy).  Sex therapists often encourage women who want to learn to "squirt" to practice in a safe place like the bath tub with a full bladder first because it feels so similar to peeing you have to get comfortable with the sensation if you want to learn to 'let go'.  Take something that physically feels amazing and combine that with the taboo aspect... the fact that urination is such a private thing and wetting a social faux pas.  So you get urgency, desperation, panic, the physical sensation, surrender, relief, release & the naughty afterglow.  Lot of possible reasons to find it pleasurable. 

But there's another side to this coin: the pure relaxation.  

While some wetters do it because it's sexually arousing or titillating; others do it to relax and unwind... to flip the bird at authority so to speak.  These are more often the nonchalant wetters who tend to be more high strung & anxious in everyday life.  The perfectionists and Type A's.  For them, wetting is the ultimate form of relaxing without the risks of drugs or alcohol.  What could be more chill than just GOING in your pants wherever you are? 




Casual vs. Urgent Wetting

Nothing to see here...

We're all trained from childhood that bathroom accidents have heavy consequences in the form of parental/caregiver scolding, social exclusion, bullying and general mocking or humiliation.  There's something comforting and even liberating about standing there and wetting yourself when you need to go.  Disabled actress Elana Binysh alludes to this in her "I think it was a feeling" piece, in which she says about public wetting (in all seriousness) about onlookers, "They're jealous.  They wish they were pissing too."  (Hot!)  She has learned to accept and even embrace her incontinence by admitting that wetting your pants feels good, and this is both sexy to read about and empowering for incontinent people, I'd imagine.

I see this question posed in so many different ways on sites like Quora, as if people are fishing for the obvious answer:  that we do it because it feels good & we enjoy it.  Same reason continent people wear diapers.  That's one of the perks of being an adult--you can do things like eating too many sweets, staying up too late or pissing your pants just because you want to.  Of course all actions come with consequences, however benign or small.

I divide wetting into two distinct types:  urgent and casual.  Urgent = the big potentially humiliating accidents that you fight during a bladder hold.  The ones where you either give in because you know you'll never make it to a bathroom in time or you lose control completely.  Casual wetting is much more relaxed and can even bring about physical relaxation itself.  No desperation necessary--just spurt or leak whenever you get the urge as you go about your normal activities.  The difference lies in the headspace, not the amount of urine released or any other factor.  One is exciting/accidental/embarrassing and the other is intentional/leisurely/"meh".

It seems that high strung people with lots of social anxiety and stress tend to prefer a more nonchalant or casual approach to wetting while others (Type B laid back folks) prefer the desperation subtype with the thrill/urgency, sometimes in riskier settings.  Obviously there are exceptions and crossovers and people who like both.  For me, it just depends on what mood I'm in but I def like to draw out the fun by trying to keep it casual and "spurting" as long as possible.  And public urgency does absolutely nothing for me because I can't truly let go and enjoy myself or get sexual with people around.

Posters in the /r/nonchalantwetting sub on Reddit piss themselves doing all kinds of things, from brushing their teeth to enjoying a good book to doing yoga.  The idea is "kill two birds with one stone" by peeing while doing something else, that way you don't have to interrupt your life to use the bathroom.  There's something very freeing about this too in a cheeky, rebellious sort of way.  My dream would be to have a house or island where I could casually wet without having to worry about cleanup, though I'm not sure how this could be achieved.  Just lounge around the house in a different outfit every time I had to pee and soak myself in various rooms and positions.  The hammock, the greenhouse, the sunroom, the gazebo, the gym, the bar, the infrared sauna... Oh if only I had the moolah.

So hopefully that answers this silly question.  There are so many reasons one could be into wetting:  for sexual arousal and excitement, as a drug-free way to unwind and relax, as a middle finger to the establishment, because it's convenient and lets them fully hyperfocus on their favorite things, the taboo aspect.  Take your pick.  The point is, there are many more dangerous and unhygienic things people do that you should be concerned about, though I won't get into that here.  Of course if you really want to know, trying it for yourself will show you better than any words could ever tell you!  

Summertime cooldown

  

Creative Fiction: Aubrey's Accident

 

Name:  Aubrey Gray

Age:  32

Location:  N. Carolina

Background:  Aubrey was on her way to Kroger when she decided to stop at Dutch Bros for a large coffee to perk her up.  It was the weekend and she was still slightly hung over from the big game celebration the night before.  She sat in her car listening to her favorite 2000s station while she downed the giant drink with an extra shot of espresso, finishing 3/4ths of it before heading inside the Walmart to pick up her groceries.  She would've had them delivered but last time they screwed up half her order.  The store layout was all wonky as they were doing some kind of renovation, throwing Aubrey off and making the whole saga take that much longer.  Thankfully the coffee was kicking in and the fog was lifting a bit.  She danced down the aisle to the upbeat '80s tune playing on the store's overhead speakers.

About halfway through her list, her bladder made its needs known.  Nope, not today Satan. Aubrey had always detested public bathrooms, and Walmart's were notoriously grody.  She picked up the pace but couldn't find the batteries or nasal spray which added an extra 10 minutes to her journey.  She located the nasal spray but could NOT find the batteries.  Should she track down someone and ask?  Maybe, but what if they were all the way across the store?  Her need wasn't urgent yet, maybe a 7 of 10, but the 5 p.m. lines were starting to form at the checkout counters.  Shit.  

She decided to forego the batteries and just check out now to beat the rush, but that coffee was creeping up faster than expected.  Maybe she would need to use the bathroom real fast.  She pulled her cart with her as far as she could, grabbed her purse and dashed toward the ladies' room only to see a big "Out of Order" sign on the door.  Fuck, seriously?  Was the whole store under construction at once?  She hoofed it back to the checkout line and danced in place the entire time as two ladies checked out before her.  By now it was obvious to others the state she was in but she didn't care.  She discreetly unbuttoned her top jeans button and did her best to focus on her breathing, clenching every muscle below the waist.  Finally her turn came.  She flung her items through the self-checkout at light speed and thankfully had no issues before rushing to the car, her legs clenched tightly together as she waddled toward the car.  

It was about 6 p.m.--dim but not dark by any means.  Aubrey unlocked the trunk of her SUV and began chucking her groceries in as fast as she could while openly holding her crotch.  Maybe letting a little leak go would relieve some pressure, she thought?  It wasn't so much a "thought" as an instinct at this point... a bladder reflex.  So she did.  The spurt lasted about 2 full seconds and boy, did it feel good.  So she squatted down low and let another go, this one longer.  She tried to spread her legs as wide as possible to minimize the damage, but it was harder to stop this time.  Now she was in a tough spot.  She didn't want to piss herself in the car, but there were people out here... 

She stood up and dumped the last of the groceries in the trunk and as she did, her bladder made the decision for her.  She let the cart roll away into the street and took cover behind her open car door, trying to make it look like she was searching for something inside the SUV as she absolutely flooded her light denim jeans.  She gasped as piss flooded down both legs with full force, splashing onto the pavement below.  "Shit-shit-shit!" she whispered to herself in a full panic, her stream nowhere near slowing.  

By the time she'd finished, her jeans were almost completely dark with piss.  She rifled through her console until she found an old jacket to sit on and quickly headed home, head hung in shame.  But boy, was the relief amazing.  
  

Pee Question: Using Incontinence as a Cover for "Accidents"?

Anyone ever LIED about having an incontinence condition (OAB, latchkey incontinence, bed wetting etc) to get away with the occasional deliberate wetting?  I assume this has happened and know for a fact that Omo lovers insert themselves into online incontinence discussions (not cool), but I rarely hear of anyone having the guts to do this in their real lives.  Granted, it'd be harder to convince certain people like your parents and siblings who grew up with you and KNOW you're not a bedwetter for instance, but you may not want to wet in front of them anyway.  I wouldn't.  But new friends, coworkers, partners and others would be less difficult to influence if you told them at the start of your relationship.  Might be something you mention offhandedly early on "just in case" even if you never end up doing it.

This is a hot fantasy of mine as well as the inverse: the incontinent person who develops a pee fetish because they eventually accept their condition and learn to enjoy it, which I suspect is even less common.  I've listed realistic scenarios where a person could believably get away with wetting and blaming the situation, such as while running a marathon or while having a "pee dream".  No need to be incontinent for that; it happens to the best of us.  All that's required is too much liquid + lack of bathroom access for too long.  (I love thinking up scenarios where a person might be forced to wet, or to pretend to have an "accident" in public).  

I know this borders on unethical wetting, but if nobody ever finds out you're faking, what's the harm?  As long as you don't do it in front of minors and always clean up after yourself, it's just "one of those things" you do occasionally because of your "condition".   

Bladder Training for Overactive Bladder: A Quick How-To

 

It's estimated that 33 million Americans and 20% of the world's population struggles with Overactive Bladder (OAB), with older adults & obese people being disproportionately affected.  Unlike some other incontinence conditions, OAB tends to affect men and women at relatively similar rates (men 16%; women 21%) and is thought to be majorly under-diagnosed.  While not life-threatening, OAB can cause distress by requiring frequent bathroom breaks and causing close calls and accidents when a bathroom isn't available. 

Doctors encourage people with OAB to extend the time between bathroom breaks gradually on a timed schedule, which as we all know can put one at risk for little accidents.  This lends itself well to Omorashi for obvious reasons:  the hyperfocus on one's bladder, the increased desperation and longer holding, the possibility of accidents.  Bonus:  It can really help with OAB as well when done properly & consistently.  Here's what they recommend:

"Bladder training" tips via Google AI summary

Obviously you'll want to start this process on a weekend or when you have a week or more at home to be close to a toilet "just in case".  Then when you transition to in-public you can wear an incontinence pad or similar if you like, but it's generally pretty safe as long as you're only dealing with OAB.  Just don't over-hydrate yourself or do anything you wouldn't normally do--the goal is to go about your day as you normally would, just with increasingly long intervals between bathroom breaks.  Eventually this becomes your new normal.  Set a timer on your cell phone or watch if you need a gentle reminder when it's time to hit the loo.

Surfing the "urge wave"

This is not to say that excessively long holds are good or safe for everyone, but some people get into the opposite habit of using a bathroom every time they pass it "just in case," This shrinks the bladder and makes urgency worse over time.  This is advice for those folks, not you all-day holders.  This process is essentially the opposite of "unpotty training" which I discussed in some detail here.  (Reminder:  I offer full customized instruction guides on unpotty training for $15 via email with pictures, links to secondary sources and easy step-by-step directions for anyone interested).  

Regarding unpotty training, just wetting every time you have the slightest urge is one way diaper wearers lose control of their bladders permanently, which is like an extreme version of what many OAB sufferers do by using a toilet too often.  So hopefully you can see how this habit taken to its extreme can cause problems.  If you consider it a "problem" that is.  😉

My Pee Adventures: Wetting My Bedding

Today was one of those glorious days.  It was laundry day & I decided to try something new & naughty.  My piss mat was already wet so I bunched my (insert top part of my bed:  bedspread?  Comforter?  IDK, the top blanket part that's not a sheet) and began to play while chatting and watching vids... my usual fare.  My need was growing and I decided to be bold and let go all over my unprotected bedding.  I was wearing panties and pajama pants, and it felt great to let go in spurts on my soft bed blankie! 

The thing held soooo much pee without leaking on my mattress; I was kinda surprised.  I popped it in the wash immediately & it was fresh as a daisy after a regular 30 minute run through the machine.  (Though I would've done 60 minutes if I'd waited any longer to wash it).  No stains or other issues either.  I def plan to do that again next time I'm washing my bedding.  It actually holds more piss than my mat.  Everyone's bedding needs a good watering now and again.