Pee Question: Using Incontinence as a Cover for "Accidents"?

Anyone ever LIED about having an incontinence condition (OAB, latchkey incontinence, bed wetting etc) to get away with the occasional deliberate wetting?  I assume this has happened and know for a fact that Omo lovers insert themselves into online incontinence discussions (not cool), but I rarely hear of anyone having the guts to do this in their real lives.  Granted, it'd be harder to convince certain people like your parents and siblings who grew up with you and KNOW you're not a bedwetter for instance, but you may not want to wet in front of them anyway.  I wouldn't.  But new friends, coworkers, partners and others would be less difficult to influence if you told them at the start of your relationship.  Might be something you mention offhandedly early on "just in case" even if you never end up doing it.

This is a hot fantasy of mine as well as the inverse: the incontinent person who develops a pee fetish because they eventually accept their condition and learn to enjoy it, which I suspect is even less common.  I've listed realistic scenarios where a person could believably get away with wetting and blaming the situation, such as while running a marathon or while having a "pee dream".  No need to be incontinent for that; it happens to the best of us.  All that's required is too much liquid + lack of bathroom access for too long.  (I love thinking up scenarios where a person might be forced to wet, or to pretend to have an "accident" in public).  

I know this borders on unethical wetting, but if nobody ever finds out you're faking, what's the harm?  As long as you don't do it in front of minors and always clean up after yourself, it's just "one of those things" you do occasionally because of your "condition".   

Bladder Training for Overactive Bladder: A Quick How-To

 

It's estimated that 33 million Americans and 20% of the world's population struggles with Overactive Bladder (OAB), with older adults & obese people being disproportionately affected.  Unlike some other incontinence conditions, OAB tends to affect men and women at relatively similar rates (men 16%; women 21%) and is thought to be majorly under-diagnosed.  While not life-threatening, OAB can cause distress by requiring frequent bathroom breaks and causing close calls and accidents when a bathroom isn't available. 

Doctors encourage people with OAB to extend the time between bathroom breaks gradually on a timed schedule, which as we all know can put one at risk for little accidents.  This lends itself well to Omorashi for obvious reasons:  the hyperfocus on one's bladder, the increased desperation and longer holding, the possibility of accidents.  Bonus:  It can really help with OAB as well when done properly & consistently.  Here's what they recommend:

"Bladder training" tips via Google AI summary

Obviously you'll want to start this process on a weekend or when you have a week or more at home to be close to a toilet "just in case".  Then when you transition to in-public you can wear an incontinence pad or similar if you like, but it's generally pretty safe as long as you're only dealing with OAB.  Just don't over-hydrate yourself or do anything you wouldn't normally do--the goal is to go about your day as you normally would, just with increasingly long intervals between bathroom breaks.  Eventually this becomes your new normal.  Set a timer on your cell phone or watch if you need a gentle reminder when it's time to hit the loo.

Surfing the "urge wave"

This is not to say that excessively long holds are good or safe for everyone, but some people get into the opposite habit of using a bathroom every time they pass it "just in case," This shrinks the bladder and makes urgency worse over time.  This is advice for those folks, not you all-day holders.  This process is essentially the opposite of "unpotty training" which I discussed in some detail here.  (Reminder:  I offer full customized instruction guides on unpotty training for $15 via email with pictures, links to secondary sources and easy step-by-step directions for anyone interested).  

Regarding unpotty training, just wetting every time you have the slightest urge is one way diaper wearers lose control of their bladders permanently, which is like an extreme version of what many OAB sufferers do by using a toilet too often.  So hopefully you can see how this habit taken to its extreme can cause problems.  If you consider it a "problem" that is.  😉

My Pee Adventures: Wetting My Bedding

Today was one of those glorious days.  It was laundry day & I decided to try something new & naughty.  My piss mat was already wet so I bunched my (insert top part of my bed:  bedspread?  Comforter?  IDK, the top blanket part that's not a sheet) and began to play while chatting and watching vids... my usual fare.  My need was growing and I decided to be bold and let go all over my unprotected bedding.  I was wearing panties and pajama pants, and it felt great to let go in spurts on my soft bed blankie! 

The thing held soooo much pee without leaking on my mattress; I was kinda surprised.  I popped it in the wash immediately & it was fresh as a daisy after a regular 30 minute run through the machine.  (Though I would've done 60 minutes if I'd waited any longer to wash it).  No stains or other issues either.  I def plan to do that again next time I'm washing my bedding.  It actually holds more piss than my mat.  Everyone's bedding needs a good watering now and again.

Short Creative Fiction Stories w/ Photos

I'm not into performative wetting:  people who wet just for the revenue or reactions.  And believe me, true Omo fans CAN tell the difference.   They all have the exact same sequence:  "Turn camera on, back up, wet your pants silently, turn camera off."  Usually not even a hiss sound is audible from that distance.  

I only get turned on thinking about REAL LIFE wetting scenarios, be they desperate accidents or intentional casual wetting or wetting while masturbating/having sex.  The when/where/who/what/why of it all.  I even enjoy thinking up my own realistic scenarios.  Point being I need context, not just silent content.  And I know I'm not alone.  So I'll be writing my own short fictional stories based on real photos I find around the internet.  If your picture is posted here and you'd like me to edit it or take it down, just let me know.  This is just a fun little creative exercise I heard about on another forum--nothing serious.  🙂

*All names & other details in these stories are FICTIONAL & do not actually describe the individuals in the photos.

First up:  "Debbie Montez"

Age:  44

Location:  Bossier City, LA

Backstory:  Kids are out playing at the creek; her husband is at work.  Deb was doing daily chores when the urge hit her fast and hard, as it often does.  She turned the sink faucet off and was able to regain control by crossing her legs super tight, which gave her false confidence to keep cleaning for just a little longer.  She knew she'd never get these filthy plates washed if she didn't do it all now... she'd been putting it off all weekend. 

Debby had a pretty severe case of OAB since entering peri-menopause and was well aware she shouldn't tempt fate like that, but her brain was so foggy lately she genuinely couldn't remember from one minute to the next and had to force herself to complete tasks in one sitting or they didn't get done. As she whirled around to put the last of the plates in the overly full washer, she felt her bladder spasm and a leak jetted down her thigh.  Shit!  She grabbed her crotch and thought quick about what to do.  She saw a Tupperware container sitting at the back of the counter behind the dish rack and grabbed it, knowing she'd never make it up the stairs in time.  Without even checking to see if the coast was clear she ripped her pants down, squatted over it & unleashed a flood right through her white panties.  She felt a million emotions at once: embarrassed, panicked, scared it would overflow... but most of all, relieved.  Her heart was pounding and her face was flushed.

No time to remove the panties.

The second she finished, she emptied the container in the sink, washed it down and ran upstairs to change her besotted panties.  This was her first full wetting accident since childhood and she wasn't sure how to feel.  Disgusted, surely.  But why was her heart pounding so hard?  Her husband came home just as she got out of the bath tub and she was all over him without fully realizing why until she had some time to reflect.  This might be the start of a new secret pastime for Debbie.

Omorashi Signs: LEO 🦁

Leos (July 23-August 22) are fixed fire signs ruled by the sun.  This makes them bold, dramatic, charismatic and fiercely loyal.  On the downside, Leos can sometimes be a bit prideful if they fail to keep their egos in check, and they may have a hard time letting others take the spotlight if they feel they're not getting enough attention.  

When it comes to all things Omorashi, Leos are quite extroverted and often want to share this side of themselves with others.  Finding ways to do that safely and respectfully are key.  If you're single or your partner isn't into it, the online community is always welcoming to new members.  If you choose to share content, great!  Just make sure to take the proper safety/privacy precautions first.   Avoid showing your face or identifying background decor/landmarks, and remove metadata before uploading photos or videos.  You never know how you'll feel about sexual content being "out there" 10-20 years from now, and once it's public you have 0 control over how it's used.  

If your partner is into it, make sure to give them lots of warm, receptive feedback to encourage further participation.  A few kind words go a long way.  Start slow and save the "big" stuff for later even if your natural instinct is to be bold and daring.  If you put enthusiastic consent first you can't go wrong.  


* Note that your sun sign is only one aspect of your astrological chart so all readings may not be exactly accurate for all Leos.  For a fuller view, you need your date, time and location of birth to determine where all the other planets were when you entered the world.    

Weekend Peecation Ideas

Looking to getaway on a short and sweet Omo-friendly trip solo or with your sweetheart, but don't know where to start?  You've come to the right place!  No matter where in the 50 states you live or what kind of activities you enjoy, this guide has something for you.  Pack up your travel gear and let's hit the hissy highway and get wet!




Weekend and 3-Day Trip Ideas


🦓   Nature reserves & National Parks - There are 63 National Parks in 31 states and over 560 wildlife reserves in the U.S, so you should have no trouble locating one of these naturally gorgeous spots no matter which region you're from.  A few breathtaking options include Denali in Alaska, the Everglades in Florida, Haleakala in Hawaii and the Hot Springs in Arkansas. Not only is the land naturally majestic, it's sparsely populated for the most part, creating the perfect opportunity for some good old Omo fun. Wear stealthy pants and you can't go wrong.

 🍇  Vineyards & breweries. Did you know there’s at least 1 vineyard in all 50 states? If wine is your thing, these gorgeous outdoor settings provide the perfect place to let some out while you take some in. California, Oregon, Washington, Texas Hill Country & New York all have extremely high quality vino.  

On the brewery front, NC, WI, New England and CO have some of the best in the nation. Alcohol is both a CNS depressant and a diuretic, giving it double pee-pee power. If you're alcohol-free, substitute a caffeinated beverage like tea or coffee for a similar effect on the bladder.  

📜   Historical small towns - What obscure and enchanting small town gem is hiding in YOUR backyard?  Hop on Google and find out!  Just type in your state followed by "historical small towns" and see what pops up.  It can be anything from an old gold mining town to a former president's stomping grounds.  Or perhaps a "haunted hotel".  Some offer guided tours while others have more of a museum set-up, and accommodations range from quaint rustic bed-and-breakfasts to modern AirBnB's.  These trips are often quite memorable and wholesome; just don't go into it expecting the Hilton.  This sort of thing is usually more fun with a buddy and you can most likely find plenty of time to work in Omo fun if you do your research first.  


 🏛   Urban Hubs & Tourist Attractions - If you ARE expecting the Hilton, hit up the closest big city and book your favorite swanky hotel for the weekend.  Enjoy a day of sightseeing, shopping, spa treatments, dining out and other posh activities, and don't forget to stay hydrated!  Then you can race back to your room just in time to have an oopsie all over the floor.  Or stay holed up in your room all day and play


 🕤   Short Day Trips & Other Activities - Backyard camping, a long drive on a quiet country back road or a day by the lake/beach/river or other body of water are all great options if you don't have a whole weekend to spare.  Pitch a small tent inside your yard overnight and take some tasty snacks + Omo supplies for a backyard campout, or pee-proof your car seats and go for a long winding drive on a dirt road with a full bladder.  If the weather is warm, slap on a swimsuit and enjoy a day by the water as you quietly let go in your swimsuit all day.  Everybody does it!     😉






Things to Pack

Link to bags like this one.

Everyone has their own essential items they like to take on overnight stays, but we're talking Omo here so I'll stick to things in that category.  Even if you don't normally wear diapers, they can be a godsend for long car trips and really reduce the amount of cleaning and laundry you have to do later.  A double-diapered road trip can be one of life's great pleasures if you choose a high quality super absorbent brand like North Shore that fits well & can hold multiple wettings.  

Barring that, make sure to bring seat covers of some kind for your car, and skip the car wetting altogether if you have fabric seats.  Large 40-gallon trash bags, incontinence mats, thick beach towels, quilts or other absorbent materials will work in a pinch.  Incontinence mats can also be used on hotel chairs and beds as long as you aim carefully.  If you have fabric seats, consider a Car Loo or a makeshift version.  Even if peeing in the car isn't a turn-on, public bathrooms can be sparse and are often dirty and dangerous in the U.S.  

On the clothing front, don't forget your stealthy options like dark polyester/Spandex bottoms, frilly loose-fitting skirts and "outer" pants like rain or snow pants, or Realtree camo.  Bring plenty of underwear and extra bottoms just in case you get stuck in an unexpected situation and need them.  I like to keep an emergency kit in the trunk or under the front seat at all times.  Contents:  wet wipes, dry pants,  a small absorbent towel or incontinence chair-sized mat & Febreze.

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Things to remember:  If you engage in property destruction without cleaning it up, you'll likely be caught thanks to cameras and payment methods like debit cards that reveal your identity.  This can result in big fines tacked onto your bill if you're lucky.  If you're not?  Jail time.  Exposing yourself to pee in public is illegal in all 50 states, though wetting in public is usually just charged as the lesser crime of "littering".  But things like wetting a hotel bed will likely result in additional fees on top of your regular charges, even if you claim it was an accident.  To avoid this, take any protective gear you own like incontinence mats, diapers, mattress covers and such with you, or pee only in "safe" places like on cement (balcony), the uncarpeted bathroom floor, the tub/sink, outdoors or somewhere without cameras or witnesses.  

Question for Diuretic Drug Users

I'm not talking caffeine or alcohol here; I'm talking about REAL powerful diuretics like Lasix, Microzide or Bumex that are available by Rx only.  I have no interest in trying them myself as I know that can be dangerous if you don't need them, I'm just curious whether anyone has ever experienced a true uncontrolled wetting accident while taking them.  

Different types of diuretic

A while back I read the hottest story on Quora about a couple driving down the road.  The driver was taking diuretics and had to pee and they were stuck in traffic.  The wife/passenger said to just go in your pants to avoid bladder damage & they ended up having hot sex immediately afterward.  The hottest part is this was not an Omorash-loving couple but just a couple of "normies" dealing with the side effects of this medicine who got turned on after the driver lost control and peed everywhere, which sound utterly unstoppable due to the medication.  Gotta love a "making lemonade (literally) out of lemons" story.  🍋💦 

So has anyone out there in Bloggerland had any such experiences?  Or know anyone who has?  Several medications and over-the-counter substances irritate my bladder and make me pee more often (cola, stimulant meds, juice, coffee), but I get the feeling that's nothing compared to what these substances do.