Where Did My Piss Kink Come From? (Pt. 2)

Continued from Part 1

The question of "where did your piss kink come from?" is an absolute constant on every Omorashi and Urolagnia forum on the 'net.  Despite that, I haven't seen very many quizzes or questionnaires that get down to the nitty gritty and ask the uncomfortable questions. 

The (unpleasant) truth is that, for those of us whose fetishes didn't start with a movie scene or same-aged peer (pee'r?) in school, OR with a personal wetting experience, they very likely stemmed from witnessing someone in our home life behave in a repetitive or abnormal* manner toward pee/wetting.   (*Abnormal not meaning malicious or intentionally bizarre, rather in a way that somehow deviated from the norm and made an impression on us at a critical developmental time).  They may have been legitimately incontinent, had a pee kink of their own or simply exhibited a number of coincidental behaviors at the "right" time--either way, the outcome was the same:  we now have a pee fetish entirely or largely because of them. 

This quiz is intended to help those who think their fetish might've originated in this manner zero in on the exact cause, so skip it if you belong to the "voyeur" cohort (i.e. you prefer watching others wet and developed your pee kink by watching a non-relative wet, or by wetting yourself.  That is to say, you already know it didn't involve family members/guardians).  😊

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This short quiz aims to tease out the origins of your piss kink.  Tally up the "yeses" & apply to the results at the end.  I've included my own answers as examples: 

How many times have your parents or guardians wet themselves in front of you in your life? (Best estimate).  
Too many to count (Mom), but one that stands out was 100% deliberate at family member's pool when I was around 7.

Were you ever given permission or allowed to wet your pants for any reason?
Yes, told outright to piss ourselves in pools or other bodies of water by parent.  

Did any of your parents/guardians urinate with the door open or outdoors in front of you?
Yes, both.

Were either of your parents incontinent or did they have accidents in front of you?
Yes, mother.

Do you recall your guardians talking excessively about their urination habits or seeming excited/aroused when discussing wetting?
Yes.  Mom talked in great detail about "accidents" or past pee experiences. 

Roughly how old were you when your first "arousing" pee experience happened, either alone or with someone else?  ("First" meaning the first one you can remember).
I was 2, alone in the bathtub.  

On a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being extremely closed/conservative and 10 being extremely liberal/open, how would you rate your guardians in terms of openness to discussing and engaging in all things urination?  
Eight. (Mom)  Six (Dad).

Do you have any arousing memories of seeing a family member pee themselves, accidentally or on purpose, when you were a child?  (You need not be attracted TO the family member, rather merely turned on by the act of wetting/urination itself).  Yes, when my mom pissed her shorts at the pool in the incident above.  I replayed it mentally many times after the fact.

Do either of your guardians know about your pee fetish? (To the best of your knowledge).  Yes, mother.  I didn't tell her but she caught me several times throughout my life.  🥲

Do you suspect either of your parents/guardians having a pee/wetting fetish themselves?  Yes, mother.

If you have siblings or cousins who were close to you growing up, are you aware of an intense interests/fetishes surrounding urination in them?   Yes, in one of them.  A sibling.  

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If you answered yes to 3 or more of these, it's quite likely your fetish stems from someone in your household or family, which is actually not uncommon.  Again, this doesn't mean you have an attraction to family members in any way or that they did anything intentionally bad/wrong in raising you, just that your attraction to urination/wetting began with something that happened in your childhood and was kicked off by a family member.  Knowing this information can be helpful to anyone looking to understand themselves on a deeper level as well as to current and future parents who are trying to avoid passing any sexual hangups on to their offspring, which is something all parents should try to do. 

The best way to do this is to avoid any excessive talk about urine or things having to do with it, and especially to avoid letting them see you wet yourself or be excited about it as much as humanly possible.  Treat it as just another topic with no additional anxiety, excitement or weirdness around it.  And despite what the creeps on Quora say, never forego potty training or encourage/allow your kids to revert to using diapers as a fetish.  When they're adults they can make that decision, but as a parent your job is to set limits and prepare them for the real world.  IMO what they're talking about borders on abuse/neglect.