Omo Coach? What's THAT?

Since offering my services as an ABDL Mommy and Omorashi Coach, I've gotten many inquiries about the former while continuously getting the same question regarding the latter:  what the heck IS an "Omo Coach?"  

Like a Life Coach, an Omo Coach is not an accredited mental health position, though I do take it very seriously.  Omorashi fetishists may face a number of hurdles in their everyday or personal lives, from the silly/lighthearted to the life-altering.  For instance, some simply come to me seeking advice on how to wet themselves more easily in a given situation while others are looking to cut back on their use of Omorashi porn before it reaches the level of addiction or takes over their lives.  Some are in fetish-discordant relationships, that is, relationships where one partner has this fetish and the other does not.  They may be seeking advice on how to bridge the gap or find satisfaction in other ways that don't violate their relationship boundaries.  

Other issues clients may seek help from an Omorashi Coach for:

- Unearthing the true origins of their piss kink
- Deciding whether to come out of the Omo closet and, if so, to whom (and how!)
- Help finding the best incontinence supplies for their needs
- Unpotty training advice/going "24/7" in diapers
- Overcoming deep-seated shame due to religion, strict parents or bullying in relation to their kink
- Tips for working wetting into a low-privacy lifestyle
- Understanding the difference between ethical and unethical Omo
- Website, literature, video or other recommendations based on your unique tastes
- Creative ways to introduce a willing partner to pee play
- Parents found out!  Now what?

In the case of serious issues affecting mental health or safety, I always encourage clients to reach out to a qualified mental health professonal.  However, due to the highly personal nature of this fetish, not everyone feels comfortable disclosing this level of info to a therapist, counselor or psychologist in person.   In such instances, an Omo Coach can serve as an intermediate sounding board & source of support until the individual feels more secure reaching out.  In less serious cases, an Omo Coach can provide all the motivation, guidance & info needed to achieve your goals!

Other Benefits:

Anonymity/privacy:  Your real name, face or other identifying info will never be requested.  Privacy & digital security are a top priority.

Convenience - Chat with an Omo Coach from the comfort of your home on your phone, laptop, tablet or other device.  On YOUR schedule.  

Like-minded / No Stigma - Know you're in good company talking with a lifelong Omo enthusiast who's helped others for 2 years in this space.  No judgment, no shame.

Individually-tailored advice - After accepting my Terms of Service, you'll receive a questionnaire specially designed to help me get to know you on a deeper level & set you apart from other clients.  This questionnaire is totally optional but allows me to tailor my services to meet YOUR individual needs.

Affordable rates - $30 for a 30-minute Live Chat session or $20 for a Forum-Style (non-live) Discussion.  No hidden fees or downpayments; no minimum session requirement.  Quit anytime.  

Convenient/Private payment options - Pay at the time of each session using Bitcoin or Cashapp, both of which allow for optimal client privacy.  I never see or process your card or bank info.  Payment is instant & easy.  No games.

No Pressure Environment - I offer 3 chat options: Twitter DM, Reddit DM & email.  Live Chat is more fast-paced while Forum-Style Discussion is great for socially anxious types who prefer to put more thought into their replies.  I will NEVER seek out or message clients to inquire about setting up future sessions--I leave that entirely up to you. 

To determine whether a session with me (Floodgaytes) might be right for you, check out my Terms of Service here.  And send any questions or comments to me at @Floodgaytes on Twitter/X or SantaMadreTara on Reddit. 

So if you're in the market for a more playful & child-like fantasy experience, go with the ABDL Mommy.  But if you're seeking the kind of no-nonsense, fact-based guidance & support you'd get from a (sex) therapist, an Omo Coach is what you want.  

MUST BE 18+; absolutely no minors! 

Quickie Porn Review: Uniform Wetting

 

Uh-oh!  This uniform's gonna be soaked soon.

O fuck!  I'm wetting!

Such a relief though.

Floor is a mess.



This is by far the hottest vid I've seen in a while as far as newer vids go.  It belongs to a VK.com account called Lover Huge Bladder & the star is clearly Asian.  The full title is "school uniform girl desperate holding and wetting" & the duration is 14:05 which means lots of desperation.  While you can't see much of her pants because they're dark, she appears truly desperate & clearly leaks in the pants a few times.

But the amazing part comes when she rips her pants down, does a half-squat & begins soaking her panties for damn near a minute.  No weird babylike whining or fake crying, just a great backside angle as she completely floods her panties with nothing underneath to catch it.  This is Omorashi!

After she's done, she pans around the room, giving a close-up of her wet panties, floor & more.  Not gonna link it here due to possible copyright/DMCA issues but go make a VK account if you haven't yet because it's well worth it for all the amazing content there.

Q&A: Why Would Anyone Have a Piss Kink?

So you just found out your spouse, friend, partner or child has a "piss kink".  You may have learned this incidentally or against your will, but now there's no going back.  You know, and now you're looking for answers... support.... anything.  What causes a piss kink and is there any way to get rid of it?  How could someone be turned on by a bodily waste, and does it point to other possible mental issues?  

Everyone has things that turn them on and off.  These things are not a matter of choice but a complex interplay between nature & nurture, aka, genetics & experience.  Often those "experiences" happened before we had conscious memories so we may not know why we're into a given thing.  Fetishes or "kinks" are an abnormally strong attraction to a certain, highly-specific thing (feet, spanking, etc) that is persistent over time & unusually intense.  While everyone has turn-ons, not everyone has fetishes/kinks.  As far as kinks go, urolagnia (pee kink) is pretty mild.  Some people are necrophiliacs, others into bestiality, vampirism or coprophilia.  I'll let you look those up.  🧟 🐴 🧛 💩

A "piss kink" can refer to so many different activities it's nearly worthless alone as a descriptor.  Pants wetting, naked peeing in places other than the toilet, diaper pissing, pee drinking/being peed on... those are just SOME of the many variations.  Not all piss kinksters are into all of these; in fact, most aren't.  And their reasons for liking a specific pee-related activity are also varied.  Some are into the sensory aspect--the sound, warmth, smell, etc.  Others find the relief orgasmic.  Still others are into the total loss of control and taboo aspect and another subgroup find things like wearing or wetting diapers to be comforting or relaxing.  There are as many variations on the piss kink theme as there are people.  Urine drinking is undoubtedly among the most risky, and even that is unlikely to harm a healthy person when done in moderation. Extreme holding/desperation can also be bad for bladder/kidney health over time.  But in the grand scheme of fetishes and bodily fluids, this one is relatively benign. 

Attitudes Toward Pee: Not Always Logical

Fetishes--and aversions--are not always rational.

Why might someone be turned on by peeing?  Urination involves the genitals which means it's subject to creating fetishes because it feels good.  The urine of pregnant women contains the highest concentration of pheromones of any bodily fluid, so that may be one subconscious/evolutionary reason for straight men and lesbians to find it hot.  In women, the full bladder presses on the G-Spot, which can cause intense feelings of horniness or pleasure.  Lastly, the taboo/private nature of peeing can make it more appealing to those who like feeling "naughty" or transgressive.  It really isn't all that mysterious if you understand sexuality & fetishes.  It's not necessarily an attraction to the bodily fluid itself but the act of urinating/watching others & the associated feelings.

On the flip side, having a strong aversion to urine is not necessarily natural.  We all start out in this life wetting ourselves until potty training, and many return to this state as incontinence & old age set in.  Yet we all feign disgust or amusement at the topic of wetting/peeing in the intervening years.  Why?  While urine has a somewhat off-putting smell, it's not a disease carrier like feces, vomit, blood, semen, vaginal fluid or breast milk.  Therefore there's no biological basis for being disgusted by it.  The outsized disgust responses is largely a product of social conditioning.  Just look how popular porn containing anal sex, oral-anal contact, swallowing semen or other possibly unhealthy acts is.  All these are more "unhygienic" & risky in terms of disease transmission than ANY form of pee play!  

How To Handle Learning About Someone's Piss Kink

This can be humiliating.  Please be kind.

In light of all this, the real question might be "Why are so many people so grossed out by pee?"  The answer is simple:  we don't choose our aversions any more than we choose our turn-ons.  They're not logical & no amount of dry factual information is likely to change them.  You have every right to refuse to participate in someone's fetish or to find it disgusting... at least privately.  If someone discloses this highly personal info to you (or you find out on your own against THEIR will), do not chide or criticize them.  It won't change anything & will only drive a wedge between you or make them hate themselves.  Just as you didn't choose your turn-offs, they didn't choose this.

If a partner pressures you to participate after you've made it clear you aren't interested, they're being inconsiderate & thinking only of their desires.  Not good.  And if they waited until you were married or in love to disclose this "requirement," that's also manipulative.  Using it as an excuse to breech relationship boundaries (like not sexy-chatting with people online) is also a problem.  In that case, it's not the pee fetish that's the problem but the fact that your intimate partner doesn't care about your boundaries & is putting their sexual pleasure above your feelings/the relationship.  And those things ARE red flags.

That said, not everyone with this fetish wants their partner to participate, and some are ashamed or don't even want them to know.  (I fall into this group, though I also don't hide my affinity for wetting/pee if the subject comes up).  In this case, they're under no obligation to disclose it because it doesn't involve you.  It's merely a variation of normal sexuality, provided they clean up after themselves & keep it private. Even in committed relationships we're all entitled to engage in masturbation or other private sexual activities without our partner or anyone else, so unless it's somehow hindering your sexual relationship, leave it be.  Let them bring it up if they feel the need rather than treating it as an "honesty" issue in the relationship.  NOT disclosing it is not a sign of deceit but self-preservation.

And no, a piss kink doesn't point to a psychological disorder or moral failing.  There's nothing dangerous about it from a health perspective, and it's not inherently illegal/criminal.  And if YOU yourself have this kink, don't think you can just turn it off or "get rid" of it.  At best you can abstain from watching pee porn or engaging in pee play yourself, but that won't change the underlying attraction to it.  Focus instead on moderation and self-acceptance.  If you require a partner who indulges in this with you, tell them upfront.  Yes it can be embarrassing but it beats wasting their time & yours in a sexually-incompatible relationship and "hoping" they'll be into it too, which is highly unlikely.  In order to achieve true acceptance, we've gotta dispense with the secrecy & selfish behavior.

Do You Pee in the Bathtub?

 


...while bathing, I mean.  

Now that shower peeing is becoming more mainstream (teehee), it begs the question:  Do you also pee in bathwater and, if yes, why?

Admittedly, bath & shower peeing aren't the same: shower piss gets washed down the drain while bath pee just... sits there, your body marinating in it while you try to get clean (hard emphasis on "try").  I get why one might find it off-putting so I'm not gonna try & covince you otherwise.  But I will say:  I am a lifelong bath pisser.  My hair is shiny, my skin is clear & I smell like vanilla beans & puffy clouds.  I always rinse my hair & wash my face under the faucet before getting out, and I often end my baths with a quick rinse-off under the shower, though not always.  

Think that's gross, unsanitary?  Let me remind you that urine is no more unclean than tears or saliva in terms of germs or disease transmission.  (I'm sure you've cried in the bath tub before), plus there's the dilution factor, and the soap/shampoo/body wash... 

Bottom line:  Yeah, I pee in the tub.  While bathing.  And what?

Why 2000s Pee Porn Was Hotter, Exhibit B

Exhibit B is by a little-known creator called "KevP".  Even if male wetting isn't your cup of pee, err, TEA, you can still observe some objectively "superior" things about this vid that make it more enticing than most of today's content, such as:

Gradual, building Desperation:  The vid is 3:55 in duration, which was typical back in the 2000s.  This allows for gradual increase in desperation & those first glorious spurts followed by the full flooding.  But there's no denying it's much hotter when some of the "fighting" is involved.

Vocalization:  You're gonna get tired of me pointing this out, but it's true.  The speaking makes this so much hotter.  It opens with the phrase: "Ugh, I REALLY gotta go to the bathroom" & ends with "I'm soaking my underwear.  I'm pissin' my pants so bad!"  Tell me how that's not preferable to silence?

Fighting back a flood.

Grabbing/Holding Crotch:  This goes back to the "building desperation" thing but it only adds to the amazingness.  Rocking back and forth, grabbing one's crotch... all these things signify true desperation & make it much more believable.

Location/Position:  You can't see exactly WHERE this is located, but it's clearly not on a toilet or in a bath tub.  The creator is sitting down--likely in front of his desktop computer camera based on the era it was made--and just GOING all over the place.  Hotness intensifies.

Biguz.net doesn't work for everyone and I can't even get it to work all the time, but here's the link for those who wanna try.  Turning off your adblockers & allowing popups tends to help.

"Even the back is wet".

No Man's Land - An Omorashi Board Game

 

🌊 🌱   No Man's Land!  ⚡ 🔥

Edit:  I updated the game with some minor fixes after troubleshooting a bit.  If you see any other obvious errors, hit me up @Floodgaytes on X.  


This is a single- or multi-player (up to 4 players!) board game for adults into holding & wetting.  The goal is making it from "Start" to "End" without losing control of your bladder.  You may leak only when the directions say so, and only for as long as you're instructed.  If you should fail, there are punishments that decrease in severity as you get closer to the end.  May the odds be ever in your favor.

The board itself is pretty self-explanatory:  Roll the dice (real or virtual) & move your man that many spaces.  The number & "land" you end up on determines your challenge (listed below).  Start with your bladder at a 5 or above so you can complete the challenges.

  If you land on a space with a warp arrow, follow the arrow to where it's pointing. Some move you forward & some send you back.  If your man lands on a space in his corresponding "land," (i.e. red man in Firelands, blue man in Waterlands, yellow man in Electriclands or green man in Grasslands), skip your numbered challenge this time around.

Set these out before the game starts




Wear comfy clothes you don't mind getting wet & have some towels or other absorbent materials handy in case of leaks.  Here are the rules & pieces.  You can print out the characters or pick something small in 1 of these 4 colors to use as your movable piece.  If you have Candyland, use those pieces!

Pick your Player!



Yellow & Green players = Easy Mode
Blue player = Normal Mode
Red player = Hard Mode

(Yellow and Green players have more potential "lands" in which to skip their challenges.  If playing with more than 1 player, draw straws or play Rock, Scissors, Paper to decide who picks their piece first).

List of natural or OTC diuretics.  Use in moderation!




Pick just a few of the diuretics listed above to use during the game. Below are the numbered challenges for each of the 4 Lands:





  🎲 CHALLENGES 🎲

[Click to enlarge]

Waterland challenges   🌊

Grassland challenges   🌱

Electricland challenges    ⚡

Fireland challenges   🔥





🔱   . 。・゜✭・ 🥵 ・✫゜・。.  🔱🔱   . 。・゜✭・ 🥶 ・✫゜・。.  🔱




 😈 PUNISHMENTS 😈


As stated, you will be punished if you fail to make it to the End before going pee-pee in your pants.  Here are the punishments for losing control on various parts of the board:

And finally, for those who held out until the bitter end:

That's it!  How far did YOU get?  While it'd be super fun to play with multiple players, I know most folks will be playing solo so I tried to create the challenges with that in mind.  Feel free to share far & wide, but I did put in lots of work designing it so please give credit to Floodgaytes if you share or repost it.  🎲 🃏
























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When Your Femdom & Omo Worlds Collide

Nothing's hotter than having a sub who's willing to engage in bladder control/bathroom play scenarios.  Or conversely, an Omo-loving buddy or ABDL client who's willing to play obedient sub.  Here are some of my fave "funishments" for boys & girls who've been oh-so-bad!    😈

 

Forced water detox: Drink til you drip.


Rules:  Person on punishment must sit on a towel & drink water, rapid desperation style, until it starts coming out the other end.  To speed things up, eat a couple slices of watermelon or add some real lemon juice to your ice cold water.  These are natural diuretics and will have you desperate in no time!  
 

Panty lockdown:  24 hours in this urethral prison


Rules:  Punished One must wear a panty lock for 12 hours, recording every time they go pee-pee in their pants.  Hydrate as usual--no need to change anything.  A well-hydrated pet should piss 3-6 times in a 12-hour period.

Forced to pee in the baby potty 

Rules:  Make them strip nude & use the training potty for #1.  Don't have a training potty?  Use a makeshift chamber pot instead.  A paper bowl, shoebox, measuring glass or any other similarly sized container that doesn't leak will work.

...then given a toy as a reward for doing it.

Rules:  After they go pee-pee in the baby potty, reward them by allowing them to use a toy.  Only stipulation: they must use it on the potty.

Drop down & wet your diaper in a public bathroom or changing room.

Rules:  While out in public and padded, pet must squat and use their diaper to piss, either in a public restroom or dressing room.  

Wet your pants in a public bathroom


Rules:  While out in public and NOT padded, pet must have an accident in their pants in a public bathroom.  Can be a small or large amount but must be enough to drip down legs and hit the floor.  

Piss or wet in a trash can while sitting


Rules:  Force your sub to sit on the trashcan girly style & piss through panties or naked.  Perhaps the trashcan will be their new toilet for a whole day?   🤔

Urinate into plastic bottle


Rules:  Make your subbie empty their bladder into a bottle.  If they get any on the floor or the chair, make them do it again (and again) until not a drop goes outside the container.  This is much harder for girls than boys!

My ABDL clients are more likely to be assigned this type of challenge/homework/funishment than my finsubs, but I have had a couple finslaves who were open to pee games and diapers.  There's something deliciously naughty about risking (or enduring) public humiliation in the process of wetting/peeing.  Not me, of course.  But I do love watching it unfold in realtime from the privacy of my sex room.