While ketamine has shown promise for treatment resistant depression, it does come with abuse/addiction potential and is toxic to the urinary tract with chronic use. Countless horror stories of bladder and kidney damage have emerged in recent years involving everything from incontinence to pissing blood clots to death from multi-organ failure.
In short-term users, ketamine acts as an anesthetic dissociative, alleviating pain and separating mind from body. This quality makes it popular for surgeries in children and veterinary medicine. It's in the same class of drugs as nitrous oxide, PCP and dextromethorphan (DXM), though it's unique in its ability to cause urinary tract damage. Ketamine causes this damage by producing toxic metabolites like norketamine that destroy the lining of the bladder wall over time. Using 3x per week or more for 2+ years leads to a cascade of symptoms including inflammation, fibrotic scarring and irreversible bladder shrinkage that leaves users in a state of chronic pain and disability.
But the horrors aren't limited to the bladder. Norketamine produces toxic acidic urine that can back up into the ureters (tubes leading from the kidneys to the bladder), causing them to scar and grow shut. These thin tubes are generally where kidney stones get stuck and cause so much pain, though that is a treatable problem. "Ketamine bladder" is not. In other words, if you want to become incontinent/diaper dependent, this is NOT the way. You still need to be responsible about it because your bladder is a vital organ.
Sadly, this drug can cause a vicious cycle in which users cause themselves so much pain abusing the drug they then resort to taking more of it to escape the horrific pain And again, this tends to be an irreversible/permanent condition so prevention is the best medicine here. If you've already started, quitting today is better than tomorrow.
Here is one woman's story of how ketamine abuse/addiction destroyed her bladder and left her life in ruins:
via LadBible
This bizarre trend serves as a reminder of how important it is to take care of your bladder, even if you're planning to become "unpotty trained" or similar. There's a right way and wrong way to go about it, and doing it wrong could leave you with a lot more than just incontinence. The organs of the urinary tract are all connected, and injuring one can easily lead to damage or failure of others.
For a personalized step-by-step guide to becoming fully unpotty trained in all settings, message me at x.com/floodgaytes ($15 via CashApp or Bitcoin). I always put health and safety above all other aspects by default without getting preachy.
Thanks to you, I can no longer link to porn vids on my blog. Now I'm on Google/Blogger's radar and risk having my whole blog pulled if I do. So everybody thank whoever decided to do that dumb shit.
If you have a problem with something I post, CONTACT ME about it and I'll either remove it or amend it to your liking, but jumping straight to tattling like an 8 year old goodie 2 shoes is not necessary. The last thing fetish content creators need is for others to get their work pulled from the web. I just had my entire Wattpad account nuked with no warning and no way to recover all my work, so to lose this blog would be too much. PLEASE don't be an asshole and ruin it for the rest of us. Contact me if you have an issue with anything I post and I'll correct, remove or amend it. (There was nothing unusual or special about the post that got removed; somebody just got their panties in a wad about it for some reason).
Now my porn reviews will have to be sans links to the video I'm reviewing, which isn't very useful at all. Sorry, my hands are tied. If you'd like a link to the video I'm reviewing, hit me up @Floodgaytes on Twitter/X. I can't link them here even though this blog is under an "adult content" wall.
We need to talk. I don't care how far away the public bathroom is. Or how dirty and full of germs all 3 stalls may be. Or whether the store you're in even HAS a bathroom.
It doesn't matter if you've been holding all morning. You know you shouldn't have had that extra tea or coffee, and you could've used the toilet before leaving the house. Should've-could've-would've.
Never mind that the ladies' dressing room is cleaner and more private than the loud, dirty woman's loo. No awful smells or weird janitors lurking either. Sure, you could just squat and quietly empty your bladder right there on the floor like the woman in the photos. You could even do it in your own panties and just trash them or leave them behind. No one would ever know it was you. Just walk out calmly and bring out the clothes you took in as if nothing is awry. Not like you're ruining the store's clothes, right? Pay at the counter with cash and walk out, or put the clothes back and leave if you haven't bought anything. You wouldn't be the first or last, right?
No, it's too risky. And wrong. You couldn't... could you? 🤔
(For the record, I couldn't do this nor am I encouraging it. Just curious if other women have tried it or thought about it seriously. Some of you clearly have). 😏
Bought my first pack of diapers for 2026, this time from Amazon instead of Wal-Mart! The brand is Pompom Life Postpartum Disposable Underwear. They're marketed for both incontinence and menstruation (and I assume, postpartum bleeding), so I didn't know how absorbent they'd actually be. But they were the only brand that didn't have a 30 dollar shipping charge so they looked great. (The Wal-Mart brand is okay but they always deliver them to the wrong address so I wanted to try something different).
Individually wrapped
Ahh, these are thin. They were brought to the correct address within a couple days of ordering. They're individually wrapped like a Maxi pad and are not much more substantial. Size small fits, but just barely. The print is surprisingly baby-ish which is neither negative nor positive for me, just find it interesting since these aren't ABDL diapers lol.
As soon as I put it on, I had to go so I stepped into the bath tub, squatted and began filming... and peeing. Full vid on my Redgifs page. Here's the written version: Not a drop leaked out while I was squatted, which was interesting as that's usually the most leaky position, but as soon as I stood up, about half of it ran down my legs. Not very absorbent and just kinda sat there in the diaper in a puddle (felt good!) Thus I would say these are best for gradual/casual leaks or spurting rather than full bladder explosions--I just wanted to test one with a full-force pee to test its capacity.
Sexy (not)
I'd rate these as slightly less absorbent than a regular pull-up which is not great, but better than nothing. More like period panties than a true diaper of any kind. If you need them for little leaks and tinkles, they'd be ideal for that. Very thin and not noisy ("scrunchy") at all. The claims on Amazon that they're highly absorbent are a bit of a stretch, though they're good for what they are. Just don't expect them to hold a whole bladder of liquid or you'll be sporting wet pants.
So, your partner knows and accepts your kink. They're even willing to participate of their own free will! You lucky dog ;) While not yet the "norm," this is more common than you might think. But where do you start? What can you do to show them a good time in your "world" and increase the chances they'll wanna repeat the experience?
You may be looking for some creative ideas of where/how/when to wet with your sweetie. If so, you're in luck.
THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFOREHAND
- What turns you on most of all about this fetish? Is it watching your partner wet, "naughty pissing" outdoors together, golden showers? Something else? This is a great starting point, but you must temper it with their boundaries & what they feel comfy with. To know what those are, you have to ASK. So start there, then meet them in the middle. Treat the first time like something that's mostly for their benefit. Then if they want to do it again, you can indulge in more things you enjoy. The goal is to get them interested.
- Be willing to clean up after both of you and/or piss yourself too so they don't feel "on display" or pressured... even if you're strictly into watching. What's good for the goose...
- How public do you want to be? What about them? A very important consideration. Choose locations you both feel comfortable with and stay on the more cautious/conservative side. Getting busted would likely be the nail in the coffin for a first-timer.
- What's your ideal setting/scenario? Holding until the point of bursting in public... casual wetting at home. Spurting bit by bit in an outdoor setting. Be specific and ask what they'd be up for and what their hard boundaries are ahead of time.
- If in public, what steps will you take to avoid detection/getting in trouble? If at home, how will you protect your furniture, carpets and other surfaces?
STRUCTURED ACTIVITIES
No-Toilet Day. Pee anywhere but in the toilet for 12-24 hours.
Holding Contest. Tank up on the same amount of liquid & see who can hold the longest. Just don't overdo it!
Control Each Others' Bladders. Make them beg for permission to pee, but be careful: what goes around comes around!
Play a Wetting Board Game. Or dice game. Or video game. Either play with usual rules and the winner gets to tell the loser how to wet, or create new pee-themed rules (spurt every 10,000 points, take 1 drink for every dot on the dice, etc).
Full-Bladder Massage. Rub each other all over, focusing on the bladder area and genitals. Use warm oils to make it extra heavenly. Watch the True Desperation series if you need ideas. Those ladies are MASTERS of full bladder play.
Use Me as a Toilet. Sit on a bench, stoop or other 'stair-steppy' place and have them sit on you just like they would the toilet and piss in your lap. Bonus if they keep their pants on. You return the favor next time you have to go.
Diaper Day - Use pads, pull-ups, diapers... whatever. As long as you let each other know when you're going, it's all good. This really saves on cleanup and feels great!
Wet Games (Outdoors). Have a water balloon fight, play in the sprinkler, hose, a small plastic pool. Whatever. Being in a swimsuit makes people want to wet, and the cleanup will be non-existent if you rinse off afterward.
Hold & Measure. Tank up, hold for a couple hours and measure your pee in a measuring container of some sort. Winner gets ____ (you decide).
Full Bladder Masturbation/Sex. Get to a 7 on the desperation scale and then start fucking or masturbating. Put down a wetting mat or mattress protector & let the good times flow!
PRO-TIP:
Never pressure your partner to do things they aren't comfortable with. This defeats the purpose and could traumatize them or harm the relationship. While you should be free to engage in discreet solo pee play in your own living space, your partner should never feel obligated to join in. Let it be their idea and you're more likely to have a good outcome.