Couples' Wetting Ideas! 💧

So, your partner knows and accepts your kink.  They're even willing to participate of their own free will!  You lucky dog ;)  While not yet the "norm," this is more common than you might think. But where do you start?  What can you do to show them a good time in your "world" and increase the chances they'll wanna repeat the experience?  

You may be looking for some creative ideas of where/how/when to wet with your sweetie.  If so, you're in luck.  

THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFOREHAND

- What turns you on most of all about this fetish?  Is it watching your partner wet, "naughty pissing" outdoors together, golden showers?  Something else?  This is a great starting point, but you must temper it with their boundaries & what they feel comfy with.  To know what those are, you have to ASK.  So start there, then meet them in the middle. Treat the first time like something that's mostly for their benefit.  Then if they want to do it again, you can indulge in more things you enjoy.  The goal is to get them interested.

- Be willing to clean up after both of you and/or piss yourself too so they don't feel "on display" or pressured... even if you're strictly into watching.  What's good for the goose...

- How public do you want to be?  What about them?  A very important consideration. Choose locations you both feel comfortable with and stay on the more cautious/conservative side.  Getting busted would likely be the nail in the coffin for a first-timer. 

- What's your ideal setting/scenario?  Holding until the point of bursting in public... casual wetting at home.  Spurting bit by bit in an outdoor setting.  Be specific and ask what they'd be up for and what their hard boundaries are ahead of time.

- If in public, what steps will you take to avoid detection/getting in trouble?  If at home, how will you protect your furniture, carpets and other surfaces?  

STRUCTURED ACTIVITIES

No-Toilet Day.  Pee anywhere but in the toilet for 12-24 hours.  

Holding Contest.  Tank up on the same amount of liquid & see who can hold the longest.  Just don't overdo it!

Control Each Others' Bladders.  Make them beg for permission to pee, but be careful: what goes around comes around!

Play a Wetting Board Game.  Or dice game.  Or video game.  Either play with usual rules and the winner gets to tell the loser how to wet, or create new pee-themed rules (spurt every 10,000 points, take 1 drink for every dot on the dice, etc).  

Full-Bladder Massage.  Rub each other all over, focusing on the bladder area and genitals.  Use warm oils to make it extra heavenly.  Watch the True Desperation series if you need ideas.  Those ladies are MASTERS of full bladder play.  

Use Me as a Toilet.  Sit on a bench, stoop or other 'stair-steppy' place and have them sit on you just like they would the toilet and piss in your lap.  Bonus if they keep their pants on.  You return the favor next time you have to go.

Diaper Day - Use pads, pull-ups, diapers... whatever.  As long as you let each other know when you're going, it's all good.  This really saves on cleanup and feels great!

Wet Games (Outdoors).  Have a water balloon fight, play in the sprinkler, hose, a small plastic pool.  Whatever.  Being in a swimsuit makes people want to wet, and the cleanup will be non-existent if you rinse off afterward.  

Hold & Measure.  Tank up, hold for a couple hours and measure your pee in a measuring container of some sort.  Winner gets ____ (you decide).   

Full Bladder Masturbation/Sex.  Get to a 7 on the desperation scale and then start fucking or masturbating. Put down a wetting mat or mattress protector & let the good times flow!

PRO-TIP:

Never pressure your partner to do things they aren't comfortable with.  This defeats the purpose and could traumatize them or harm the relationship.  While you should be free to engage in discreet solo pee play in your own living space, your partner should never feel obligated to join in.  Let it be their idea and you're more likely to have a good outcome.