Pee: It's a Private Thing for Me

 

Here's the deal:  I love wetting and have ever since I was really, really young.  It predates my understanding of sex or even a proper sexual orientation by a good decade.  But when in a relationship or dating, I have ZERO requirement for my partner to explore that with me and the desire to engage in it diminishes to almost zero compared to where it is now.  (I certainly don't maintain a fucking piss blog, Twitter, etc when in an active committed relationship).  It's a private time activity--at least for ME.

I've never been one of those "you compromise with me and try something I like in bed and I'll do something YOU like" people.  If my partner isn't as excited by a thing as I am (or, god forbid, is disgusted/turned off), there is no point in continuing.  And I'm VERY good at picking up on stuff like that.  I fully understand that most people aren't into fetishes like this.  That's why they're fetishes & not "vanilla" or mainstream!  And guess what?  That's perfectly fine!  Expected, even.

As much as I love Omo, by no means is it the ONLY thing I'm into--it just lends itself better to solo play than watching lezzie porn (which, in the off-chance it's passably believable, usually ends up making me sad I don't have a woman, or halfway bitter that pretty girls don't act like that IRL unless it's w/ a guy lol ugh).  All that disappointment & longing that gets stirred up, and for what?  When I could just watch a solo girl wetting herself & not have to think at ALL?   C'mon now.  Easy choice.  😏

Please tell me I'm not speaking jibberish here?  Do ALL my Omo peeps want/need/require their partners to participate even if they're not 100% enthused?  IMO the HOTTEST thing a potential partner can do is be 100% herself--no secrets, no shame, no phony personas--like I'm doing here on this incredibly specific kink blog.  Yes, it requires a certain amount of vulnerability & calculated risk, but it really is the only possible path to the heart of a girl whose heart & trust have already been shattered so bad by past loves.  (Well, really just the 1 but it was a doozy).

And just for fun, here's a list of things that are far more important to me in a partner than sharing my fetish:

- Honesty
- Loyalty/not fucking cheating
- Patience
- Mental stability (not taking bad moods out on me)
- Good communication - not passive-aggressive
- Healthy attitudes toward sex generally--no purity/prude shit or promiscuity confused as "empowerment"
- Doesn't try to change me or play mind games/manipulate 
- No small kids or doesn't want kids
- Trusting; has own identity & hobbies and lets me have mine
- Good boundaries at work/can say 'no' to ppl besides me
- Controls self, not others.  


...and sorry, guys.  I bat exclusively for the 🌈 Team.  Please respect that & don't come at me with the bullshit.  I'm down to talk shop on a platonic level all day but save your efforts for someone who likes the D.  I am not her & she is not me.