Awakening an Omorashi Interest in a Friend

This is for those who may want to include a friend in their wet naughty fun but do NOT feel comfortable coming right out and confessing their Omorashi kink.  It's incredibly important to pay attention to the subject's social cues & comfort level at all times and take NO for an answer.  Actually, anything other than an open, inquisitive demeanor or enthusiastic interest should be taken as a 'no' as not everyone will know how to tell someone to knock it off.  Therefore if you're bad at reading body language, facial expressions or subtle, non-literal language you should avoid this exercise.  This is not a time for wishful thinking or seeing what you want to see.  Your friend's comfort level and your relationship are far more important than engaging in a fetish together. 

Do not ever attempt this with a subordinate at work, a younger sibling, a tenant who rents from you or anyone else who is below you in the social power structure or relies on you for vital basic needs (food, clothing, shelter).  That's exploitative due to the power imbalance.  This is intended to be used with close friends or romantic partners only.



1.)  Plant the Seed:  Say something bold about wetting that paints a vivid mental image in the target's mind but stops short of confessing your Omorashi kink.  You can dare them to piss their pants if they lose some bet between you two (I did this w/ great results);  recount a (fictional) story of an ex-partner or bestie who had a pee kink, play 'Truth or Dare' and ask if they've ever pissed themselves as an adult (Truth) or dare them to wet their pants now (Dare), etc.  Something that puts the idea out there for them to think about later.  (If they turn the tables and dare YOU to wet yourself, by all means DO IT!  Planting a mental image by actually doing it is even more effective, as actions are more impactful than words).

While some folks are genuinely not into Omo or are disgusted by urine, others simply have never thought about pants wetting in erotic terms before.  The first time it's suggested, it seems outlandish... ridiculous.  Gross, humiliating.  Whatever.  But the longer they think about it privately and maybe look into it on their own time, the more appealing it gets.  This initial seed-planting should be the boldest of all the things you ever say about the subject to really get the ball rolling.  Something unambiguous & lighthearted that is set in the present moment and/or paints a clear mental image of a past experience.  That's the only goal of "seed-planting," as hot Omo things rarely transpire this early.


2.)  Use pee-words whenever they'll fit naturally into your conversation.  Key word: naturally.  Repetition is an excellent way to subconsciously drive a point home, so find as many excuses to mention urination as you  can, such as:  Instead of saying "I've gotta use the restroom," say "I need to pee".  Instead of saying "poor," say "piss-poor".  Instead of "enthusiastic," say "full of piss and vinegar".  Look up pee euphemisms and jot them down, using them whenever you think of it in your normal everyday conversation.  It seems like a silly small thing but it does a lot to "water the seed," causing them to think about pee at random intervals & in non-sexually charged situations.  

Keep it light & fun 

3.)  Listen closely for an increase in urine-related words in the subject's vocabulary.  Mirroring (copying a behavior or habit) is a sign of flirting, and it should also be taken as a positive thing where fetishes are concerned.  If your friend never talked about pee before, are they now saying innocent things like "Woo, I need to pee" since you've planted the seed?  If they occasionally used pee-specific terms before, are they using them constantly now?  ANY increase in pee talk around you is a positive sign that points to an increased interest in the topic.  But give it time to make sure it's not just a coincidence.  Relevant words:  pee, piss, urinate, wetting, diaper, bladder, tinkle, potty, whizz, bursting, wee, piddle, take a leak, make water, desperate, go #1, etc.

Even someone who's incredibly turned on by wetting will often find it hard to broach the subject, so they'll drop mild hints in their everyday use of words--how often or explicitly they talk about urination or their reaction to how other people talk about it.  Using these words shows an increased level of comfort around the topic if nothing else.  

3b.)  Pee-related words are good, pee-related actions are even better.  Watch for your target to put themselves in desperation-inducing situations, look up info about wetting online, become more open about peeing in front of you, pee-dance around you or otherwise behave in a way that points to an interest in pee.  They'll likely couch all of this in an "isn't this so humorous?" attitude but that's expected.  Few people feel comfortable coming right out and seriously pissing themselves or letting others know they find it intriguing/hot so they'll use humor to soften the blow, so to speak.

Ultimate goal

4.)  Look for an opportunity to get "desperate" around them.  DO NOT WET YOURSELF OR PEE IN FRONT OF THEM UNLESS THEY TELL/DARE YOU TO.  And only do this if they've given positive feedback to the previous steps as it is an escalation from just talking about it. 

This is just to further tease & turn them on, making them crave the sight of you losing control or want to do it themselves.  You don't even really have to be desperate--merely pretend to be.  Don't do anything weird or over the top like fondling yourself or talking dirty, just let them know you've gotta pee BAD and crave release.  This is a normal thing that happens to everyone at times so it's believable that it "just happened" to you too as long as you're not overacting like a star in an Omo porn.  Choose a place where the bathroom is not easily accessible so you can keep the act up for a little while & watch their reaction.  You'll definitely need to plan this out in advance for best results (but make it look totally random/unplanned).

We all know how hot the anticipation can be when we know someone is desperate & can't get to the bathroom, so put your friend in this position to build tension.  See if they glance at your crotch or ask a bunch of questions about you leaking--any good-natured teasing or excitement in their voice is a good sign.  Be careful not to use too many pee-words here as that'll give away what you're up to. 


5.)  If they dare you to do anything pee related at any point in this journey, whether it's peeing in the toilet in front of them, wetting yourself or whatever, for God's sake DO IT!  I was too shy & stupid to take the two opportunities my friend offered up to pee in front of her, but it was clear my mention of wetting was effective in making her think of pee in a sexual light.  Mind you, this was someone who'd never even masturbated before--a very conservative person.  And suddenly she was asking me to drop my pants & piss in front of her.  I never confessed I was into wetting or pee, never dropped any big secrets about my fetish or secret life.  I just dared her to wet herself if she lost the bet we had going and agreed to do the same if I lost.  She flat-out refused and was apparently disgusted by the idea, but shortly thereafter changed her tune.  This tells me it just takes time for some people to begin seeing urine in a sexual/sensual light. 

That does not mean keep pushing after a clear "no".  When my friend shut down the wetting bet, I took no for an answer, changed the subject immediately and never brought the issue up again in any form.  It was merely a nice surprise that she turned out to be interested later.  If your friend acts outwardly disgusted/scared/uncomfortable at any point in this process, stop immediately.  You risk not only outing yourself and your Omo fetish by continuing but alienating them and possibly losing a good friend by making them massively uncomfortable. 

Nobody wants to be around someone who just keeps pushing an issue when they've made it clear they're not interested, so take no for an answer and STOP.  If they're interested whatsoever they will drop one of the hints listed above--otherwise find a new target or learn to enjoy this pastime solo.  You can't force someone to be into this--only awaken a latent interest in someone who may not have really given it thought before.  And you risk fucking even that up by being too pushy.  When in doubt, assume they're not feeling it & fall back.  I promise you, if they're even remotely interested they will broach the subject later at some point.