Can't Wet Yourself? Try This:

 I often see newbies, both to diapers and pants-wetting, complain that they canNOT manage to let go and wet themselves no matter what they do.  Or maybe they can in certain positions or settings but have a specific "way" they haven't been able to master.  Please understand this is completely normal.  Having a strong mental aversion to pissing your pants is what we're trained to do from potty-training on up.  Also keep in mind it takes a LOT of practice to overcome this aversion for most people & there is no fast-track or shortcut.

Even if you've been wetting for years, it's still possible to struggle with letting go in certain scenarios, such as in a car or (in your diaper) with lots of people around.  I've been an Omo enthusiast since toddler days & still have to use some of these 'training wheel' methods to get my flow started even in diapers I know won't leak.  My most challenging position is lying in bed:  I usually have to do something to get it going even after all these years.  However I know if I was determined I could eventually master it; I just haven't given it the required attention yet.


Here are a few tips and tricks to get the flow started in any position or setting:

Touch Yourself:  Rubbing your genitals gently can help stimulate the flow of urine for some people (me included).  Or you can try gently massaging that space at the top of your bum crack.  This is where the pudendal nerve resides and stimulating it can help relax your bladder sphincter muscles. 

Apply the Pressure:  You can also try putting some pressure on your bladder by setting a text book, laptop or other lightweight-but-solid item atop it, or just (again, gently) massaging your lower abdomen with your hands.

The sound of low-pressure water running can help you wet.

The Sound of Water:  Turn on a faucet, but only on a very low setting, letting it splash & drizzle gently, mimicking the way a pee stream would sound.  Or if you find that you need to pee instantly when getting in the bath/shower (I do), turn the shower on for moral support.  There are also apps like Rainymood.com, audio of babbling brooks and actual pee sounds on Youtube, some lasting up to 10 hours on a loop. 

This age-old party trick can work wonders for some!

Hand in Warm/Cool Water:  An extension of the previous point, putting your hand in water can sometimes stimulate bladder release.  This is a longstanding trick at sleepovers & definitely works for some.  Use water that's slightly warmer or cooler than room temperature for best effects.

Get More Desperate:  This never hurts.  Being extremely desperate and having a full bladder makes it much easier to let go and pee.  If you find that water just isn't doing the trick (or is taking too long), consider adding a small amount of a diuretic like some watermelon slices, dandelion tea, lemon water or caffeine. Just listen to your body & don't overdo it.

Give a Little Push:  While it's definitely not a good idea to get into the habit of straining to pee, doing so once or twice won't hurt most healthy people.  Just bear down like you're trying to poop & it should come flying out because as they say:  "All poo times are pee times but not all pee times are poo times".  (Just make sure you don't actually need to poop).

Interact with the toilet to trigger your need to pee.

Go to the Toilet:  Sit on it with pants on, stand there & look at it, give it a flush--many people find that simply seeing the toilet triggers their need to urinate while others can easily get there by sitting on an open toilet or acting as if they were going to pee (standing up, boy-style) in front of it.  Go as far as pulling your pants down and starting to pee and then pulling them back up if necessary.

Breathe Deeply:  Once you're already desperate to wee, take a deep breath and exhale about 75% of the air in your lungs, then hold your remaining breath for 30 seconds.  Allegedly this causes muscle relaxation and loss of control.  Be sure to time yourself so you don't hold your breath TOO long and faint.  

Watch vids of other people peeing their pants to get your own stream started.

Watch Others Wet:  Seeing vids of people flooding their pants in real-time can provide quite the encouragement, especially if the video features lots of pee sounds, moaning and other audio.

Rinse Your Perineum:  I'd never heard of this but it's recommended as a way to stimulate urine flow, especially after giving birth.  Your perineum = your "taint," or that piece of skin between your anus and genitals.  Use comfortably warm water & either spray your periuneum with a spray bottle or use your hands to apply the water directly.

Stand Up & Let Gravity Take Hold:  If you need to give a urine sample or hold for an ultrasound, the doctor or nurse will often instruct you to stand up and walk around to help the water hit your bladder faster.  You can also walk or do other standing tasks to allow gravity to do its thang.  

Bladder massage or light touch in this area can help you lose control.

Tickle/Light Touch:  While it's kinda impossible to tickle yourself, you can pick a ticlklish area on your body and run your fingers or fingernails lightly over it for a similar effect.  Also try this on your inner thighs, lower abdomen or crotch area. 

Give Yourself Permission:  It sounds obvious but verbally saying to yourself "It's okay to wet your pants" can help you overcome that last bit of resistance, especially if your caregivers were strict or harsh about pee growing up.  Try roleplaying it a bit and pretend an authority figure is giving child-you permission to let go--perhaps the permission you always craved but never got IRL:  Something like "Hey buddy, need to pee?  I can see that you're doing your best to hold it but if you have to go, just go.  It's better than harming your kidneys & we can always clean it up later.  I won't tell anyone."  Literally say these things out loud or whisper them to yourself for best results. 

Additional Advice

Be specific about position, setting & other aspects of your goal.

It always helps to be clear and realistic about your goals going in.  Understanding that these times in which you use these "training wheel" methods are strictly intended to help you pee your pants easier builds patience for what might ultimately be a long process.  Repetition is key, and it may get a tad frustrating at times.  Therefore you shouldn't necessarily expect a super-sexy wetting that leads to orgasm every time.  (That can happen once you've got the ability to pee in your desired setting down pat--this, however, is all about training yourself to wet on command or in a specific position or setting).  It may not be glamorous or sexy right now is all I'm saying.  Regardless, keep soldiering on until you get it.  Trying these methods when you have total privacy will ensure best results too.  The mental fear of "getting caught" can be a real (and justified) roadblock for those with roommates.

This is definitely a case of practice making perfect.  The more often you can wet yourself in general, the easier it becomes to let go regardless of setting or other factors.  The more often you can practice wetting in your specific challenging position or setting, the better too.  Making sure your diaper or other protective mechanism (pee pad, incontinence mat) works well goes a long way toward giving you peace of mind to truly let go as well.  Practicing full body relaxation & being kind to yourself by acknowledging your tenacity & progress may also help put you in the proper mindset to piss your pants easily.  Once you start beating yourself up or taking it too seriously, the pressure is on.  And not the kind of pressure you want when trying to master something like this.

Q&A: Why Do People Without a Medical Need Wear Adult Diapers?

 

Is it laziness?  A sexual thing?  EVIL SPIRITS?  Ohh I don't know... Satan?   😈 🔥

While I can only speak for myself in the personal sense, it is a fact that people all over the world use adult diapers for a number of reasons, and they can improve quality of life for many users.  Here are just a few reasons someone might wear an adult diaper:

INCONTINENCE - Over 25 million American adults suffer from some degree of incontinence, a majority of them women.  They did not ask for this condition & in many cases can do nothing to correct it, as it's due to spinal injuries or serious underlying problems other than the usual pelvic floor dysfunction.  So they learn to live with it, adapting to messy/embarrassing wetting accidents by using protection like diapers & incontinence mats/pads.  This seems a much more reasonable and considerate option than just pissing on everyone's furniture & floors, but go off about how "filthy" diapers are.  Adult bedwetting, while not technically a type of incontinence, is another reason someone might use diapers.  Sure beats ruining your mattress.

OTHER HEALTH/SAFETY REASONS - Nocturia, or needing to urinate at night, is a big reason people wear adult diapers.  Getting up at night interrupts your sleep which ensures you don't reach that deep level of NREM needed for brain and immune repair, plus you risk falls or other injuries walking around in a darkened space while groggy.  Perhaps the person has mobility issues or simply doesn't want to have to worry about holding their urine or dehydrating themselves all day due to lack of bathroom access at their job or school, both of which put you at risk for actual incontinence later in life.  Not to mention a host of other problems ranging from kidney infection/stones to enlarged prostate or burst bladder that can result from holding too long.  Or they fear germ exposure in public bathrooms (not to mention safety hazards like addicts in public restrooms, hidden cameras, sex offenders & voyeurs).  The risk of running into these issues is higher when traveling to new locations by car or if you live in a high-crime area, but it can happen anywhere & is an especially big concern for women/mothers.

CONVENIENCE - Let's face it, stopping your life to go to the bathroom--especially if you have to go many times a day or night--is not so convenient.  It's also a waste of water & toilet paper.  Maybe you have ADHD & can't navigate the disruptions to your focus, or perhaps you just prefer not to waste your life searching out & using public bathrooms or sitting on the toilet/standing in front of a urinal.  Pausing conversations, workflow, video games, online work, homework or other immersive tasks to pee is disruptive & diapers put a stop to that.  Also, shyness about about asking for a bathroom break when in a classroom setting or out with friends is a factor for some, which leads to more holding and/or dehydration to avoid bathrooms.  

PERSONAL CHOICE - Yes, some people get a sexual thrill out of wearing or using diapers.  Not all of these people are "Adult Babies" who like to dress up in full baby gear, nor are they mentally ill.  They just enjoy the sensation of wearing or peeing in a diaper.  To them it feels comforting, secure & warm.  Many started as Omorashi lovers who wet their pants for fun but found the cleanup too burdensome.  (I would fall into this group).  Others have loved wearing diapers since they were small children just for the way they look or feel.  Either way, the decision to wear adult diapers is a personal one and nobody owes an explanation for why they do it.  It's no different than choosing pads over tampons or boxers over briefs.  As long as the wearer exhibits good personal hygiene & keeps their sexual preferences/behavior to themselves, it affects no one.

ONE OR MORE OF THE ABOVE - A lot of diaper users have multiple reasons for wearing them.  Some people who started out wearing for incontinence now consider themselves "Diaper Lovers" as they enjoy the convenience & physical sensation of wearing diapers.  Others started just the opposite:  as Diaper Lovers who used diapers 24/7 by choice and are now essentially incontinent due to "Unpotty training".  And of course some people who use them are dealing with shame and do not enjoy it in any capacity.  That's why it's so important to use kind words when asking questions like the ones above:  actually incontinent people will undoubtedly see them & be made to feel worse about something totally out of their control.  The real question should be, why does anyone care one bit about what's underneath another consenting adult's clothing?

Normalize minding your business.

Peelows: The Pillows You Piss Into

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Quickie Porn Review: Blue Shorts Wetting

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Can't hold any longer.


After-shot of the chair...



Pt. 2 in shorts, wide squat.

Final shot, panties pulled to the side.  

This... this is the hottest vid I've seen in ages.  It's around 8 minutes long and contains multiple angles, pants & a whole LOTTA PISS.  The star appears to be in her bedroom just letting go all over the floor with maybe a tiny towel beneath her which is incredibly hot.  In the midst of this wetting extravaganza, she only utters 4 words the whole time "I can't hold anymore".  She starts off sitting on a hard chair (one of my faves) and moves to a squatting position with her shorts still on (another fave), then removes the shorts and wets her panties, then moves her panties to the side & shows her pussy pissing near the end.  

It appears to be a video of two separate wettings on the same day:  one in the chair/shorts and one or more on the floor squatted with shorts/panties/nothing.  The thought of a girl just casually letting go in her bedroom all over the place makes me VERY hot.  Whew.  I found this on VK so no linkie, but search the title there & see what pops up.

Omo Creator Spotlight:

Just some of my fave pee creators & uploaders.  These are the people who give us free content to enjoy so it's always good to shout them out & show them love.  Each blurb includes a link to creator's page so check 'em out.  Enjoy!

Xmarika's tasty back-view accident

Xmarika - Big booty cutie from the Netherlands who loves to get oiled up, piss her pants and walk around with things in her butt.  While her channel has way too much hetero sex for my taste (not to mention the anal stuff), her wetting vids are incredibly hot and seem to go on for an impossible length of time, capturing the action from a super hot angle.  See for yourself.  

hensachi36 - Sorry to keep beating a dead horse, but as a lesbian who is not into dick, it's rare that I find a male wetting creator I can stomach, let alone enjoy on anything resembling a consistent basis.  I've noticed that Japanese (male) Omo stars like hensachi36 tend to focus on the desperation and wetting (rather than whipping it out and doing other things) so I can honestly say he's worth a watch even if this isn't your usual cup of tea.  He dresses in women's clothes & holds to bursting in a number of settings, though some of the titles are in Japanese so you'll need to set your screen to "translate" if you don't speak the language.  

BeeZeeX9 - This creator has been around for some time, though it looks like she's recently moved her content to a paysite (Fansly, ugh).  But her old stuff is definitely worth a watch, and she has lots of it.  Some of her themes include wetting a "triple stack" of panties, peeing through crotchless pants at a "restaurant" under the table, wetting in bed while reading a book & my fave:  "Could not hold it and pissed on the chair!"  

Uriah_Heep's (retired) username with one of their uploads.

Uriah_Heep - This retired Xhamster uploader appears to have a veritable treasure trove of vintage British wetting and pee vids, such as the British Extreme: "Piss Sisters" gem and numerous other full-length Omo vids like the one linked in the title here.  Shame that Xhamster makes it so hard to find retired users' content in one place because it would be nice to see his collection laid out on a single page rather than having to click on random vids to see if they're his (or hers).  (When someone "retires," Xhamster doesn't actually remove the videos or the username attached, they just disable the user page apparently.  The worst of all worlds for both the retired user (who probably wants to nuke their old username/content) and the audience who just wants to see all the things theyv've uploaded in one place).  Regardless, Uriah_Heep's old content keeps popping up in my urine-soaked searches so I'm grateful for his/her contributions as they're clearly high quality AND quantity.

wishfullguy - This is an account on Motherless.com that uploads tons of female wetting vids.  Contains some poop content but vids are clearly labeled so no surprises.  He's got a great mix of newer and vintage favorites that feature desperation/accidents, nude pissing, pleasure wetting and more so check him out if you're ever on that site!

Peedancer Pants - This is my 1st attempt linking to VK.com so don't be surprised if it gets taken down for DMCA or whatever.  I've heard of that happening.  Peedancer Pants is one of many AMAZING wetting-oriented accounts on Russian site VK.  They share their own uploads and repost those of others they like, most of which are in line with our interests.  Vids on their page include some from Snuppa, Tania & the always-lovely PeachyPoppy.  

Unknown Kiddo - Just another absolutely amazing Omo account on VK.  They've uploaded 190 unique vids, added 1,606 & were active on the site as recently as 8 days ago.  Among their uploads include Patches Place 09 & 10, the super long and hot vids of a girl who repeatedly pisses her jeans on a bus & several hot "gamer girl" wetters.

Journey To the Other Side: Male Omo

So as my devoted readers know, I'm 100% lesbian sexually, romantically & every other way that counts.  I also prefer female Omo when it comes to porn--I am actively turned off by the male anatomy down there and have no interest in seeing guys expose themselves, masturbate or anything of the sort.  However, lately I've run out of new/exciting female content to watch and have grown somewhat jaded by the performative element and the fact that so many female creators also do "other" niche genres of porn...many of them disturbing and degrading by most standards.  To me this calls into question whether they even have an Omo fetish, which then makes me question the sincerity of all their work...  

So I decided to cross over and give male wetting a try.  What was there to lose?  If things got icky I could simply exit the screen.  And they often did.  But occasionally there would be one that had the right idea.  I must say, there are elements of SOME male wetting vids I can appreciate, provided they keep it in their pants and keep their hands mostly to themselves  For instance, male wetting vids tend to feature the kind of vocal desperation I WISH female vids had (lots of panting, gasping and wetting warnings - "Oh god, I'm pissing!") as well as that magic ingredient of genuine enjoyment as opposed to feigned sexiness for the camera. 

Guys are far less likely to "mug" for the camera or put on an obvious show--their vids have that realistic amateur feel which is vital for a good Omo vid in my opinion.  No fake moaning, overacting or concern about how they look in general.  Just a total focus on the act of pissing themselves, which is what I so SO wish more modern female wetting contained.  

Abandoned couch wetting by Lapetus80

Also, while I'm quite specific about what I find attractive IRL, I couldn't care less what an Omo creator looks like.  It's the scenario that turns me on.  How realistic it feels, the when and the where... this far overshadows the actor's appearance and, unlike in other types of porn, the plotline does matter for me in desperation vids as intentional desperation is not as fun to watch (for me).  Like, a person pee dancing, holding and wetting in the middle of the living room on purpose when the toilet was available is not a vid worth watching for me unless there's some other standout quality like "loud hissy pee" or "revenge wetting to get back at mom".  I need to know WHY you're holding--is the bathroom occupied?  Are you locked out of the house?  Zipper stuck?  Waiting on someone/something?  When it comes to casual wetting or peeing while masturbating, no plot is needed but with desperation/true Omo vids, I need a little backstory as people don't tend to just piss their pants IRL.  

"Pee fountain" by creator Reggimon

So yeah, it turns out watching a wet spot grow on a pair of pants is a somewhat gender-nonspecific activity for me.  That doesn't mean I'm down to dirty chat with men or would ever be interested in mixed-sex IRL Omo activities, but as far as video content goes it's a fun change of pace every now and then. 

To any female Omo creators looking for tips on improving or expanding their content, I'd suggest watching male wetting vids and taking some pointers from their performance, at least in the vocalization & creativity department.  Don't be afraid to try daring scenarios and TALK MORE in your vids--we're not gonna recognize you by your voice.  To male creators, I'd say touch your penis (a lot) less, keep it covered more and focus on the holding/wetting if the vids are labeled "Omo/desperation/wetting" or similar.  There are plenty of opportunities for masturbation/nudity in the porn world, but this fetish is specifically about wetting clothes so try and save the masturbation for AFTER the camera goes off.  I know it's not easy.  

And finally, a cache of good-quality photos I randomly found one night when not looking for male wetting.  

Look at that creative theme!

Got any fave male Omo creators you'd like to rave about?  Drop their names in the comments below!  I'm a fairweather fan of the genre at best, but it's always good to see what others are into.  

Omorashi & Diaper Lovers: Similar But NOT the Same

Definitions:   Omutsu--shorthand for "Omutsu Omorashi" (Japanese for "to wet oneself in a diaper")--is one of many sub-fetishes within the broad Piss Kink umbrella.  Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers (two separate but often overlapping communities) have fetishes that revolve around the wearing of diapers, age play and/or using said diapers to empty their bladder and/or bowels.  

I recently stumbled upon the incredibly detailed account of one lifelong Diaper Lover and find his (her?) life path with the fetish quite interesting.  (And a bit disturbing at times if I'm honest).  I can't for the life of me find the link but it goes like many other stories of its kind:  fetish sets in young, kid steals diapers from younger sibling, gets caught a few times, starts buying diapers at the store, continues into adulthood.  It shares many similarities with my own desperation/wetting fetish but also many differences, proving that no two piss kinks are alike.

If I'm being honest, I've been spending more time in diapers myself lately so I thought I'd see what that community had to offer and I just... no.  It's a whole other fetish centering around the diaper itself, being seen by others when "wearing" (this term reminds me of how gun owners use the term "carrying".  e.x. - "the guy stepped to me wrong.  He's luckily I wasn't carrying") & the concept of regressing to some idealized infant or toddler state ("infantilism").  I don't know much but I do know that my wetting fetish does not rely on, incorporate or otherwise interact with myself or others LARPing as infants.  Or worse.  More on that below.

There also appears to be a troubling "binge/purge" cycle with this particular fetish in which the participant will buy a bunch of baby-themed items or diapers, go through a phase of wearing them often and then freak out and throw the whole pack away.  Rinse, repeat.  I say "troubling" because this pattern is a lot like binge drinking or literal binging/purging in bulimia--an unhealthy excessive behavior indicative of one's life being controlled by a stimulus, not the other way around.  

Real book on Amazon.ca  🤮

Then there's the big one that really (excuse the pun) pisses me off:  exposing unwilling participants of potentially any age and background to THEIR fetish behavior for a sexual thrill.  These people can range from close friends and family to total strangers in stores like Walmart or Target.  As bad as the "drive-by diaper" exposures in random stores are, I really feel for the kids and teens trapped in homes with these proud fetishists who undoubtedly bloviate about their perverse interests & overshare things that have no business being shared outside a consenting adult relationship between close friends or sexual partners. 

The lack of concern some of these folks show toward the feelings of those who may witness their behavior against their will is most troubling and infuriating to me, as it is the same thinking a rapist has when he considers only his short-lived pleasure and not the victim's lifelong trauma afterward. Grown men bragging about how open they are about their diaper-wearing in front of their wife and daughter, for instance, while receiving asspats for "obtaining acceptance" via their "bravery".  Not a single person with the balls to stand up & say, "Hey man, that's kinda creepy."   




Where's the Line?

Consent is not negotiable, especially in fetish play.

While there is NOTHING whatsoever wrong with using diapers for convenience or fetish play (or even choosing to use them as part of a consensual no-toilet "lifestyle)," that only applies when you keep it to yourself & don't impose your fetish on others.  Nobody outside your fetish friends and MAYBE your spouse wants to know what you're wearing under your clothes, or whether you consider yourself an "adult baby" or "otherkin" or "furry" or "leather daddy."  This is not like coming out of the closet as gay; it's a paraphilia.  Random people in your life don't need to know.  In fact they have a right NOT to, especially if they're living/working in close quarters with you.  Believing otherwise means you've gotten too lost in the porn, fantasy & fetish world & can no longer tell reality from make believe.  And people that delusional can be dangerous.

I'm not painting all Diaper Lovers with this brush, mind you.  But after a very short time perusing one of the big DL forums I was very put off by the vibes.  There was a distinct lack of separation between fantasy & reality and a desire for "social acceptance" despite distinctly anti-social behaviors.  "Social acceptance" means co-existing with people unlike yourself while peacefully tolerating said differences, NOT demanding praise & validation from strangers or exposing loved ones to sexual shit against their will.  Your right to swing your fist ends where my nose begins, and my nose begins at the point where someone tries to impose their sexual will on me physically, mentally, emotionally or otherwise.  Some of y'all are either unknowingly or intentionally setting back any chance at acceptance with your creepy behavior & narcissistic expectations.   

Would you expect to see a boxer or brief wearing adult parading around the store with their undergarments out, HOPING that strangers of any potential age/background compliment them?  Or is that predatory behavior?  Because I saw one proud DL complaining about the lack of 'compliments' or acknowledgement from strangers of his diaper IN THE MIDDLE OF A POPULAR CLOTHING GOODS STORE.  The fact that using diapers is not immoral on its own doesn't give you license to tell and show everyone.  If you're requiring this kind of "feedback" from others, it's crossed over into voyeurism/exhibitionism and is no longer just about wetting, diapers, or anything of the kind.  It's predatory.  Consent is not optional.  Those people didn't consent to seeing that in a totally non-sexual environment & you have no right to expose them to it.

And about that "or worse" comment in the 1st paragraph:  there are those in the DL community who either fantasize openly about OR actually expose real children to this highly-inappropriate conduct (and plenty more who cheer them on).  They brag openly about exposing kids in their care to THEIR sexual fetish/way of life--kids who have 0 power to escape or control their environment  Case in point:  

Fantasy or all too real?  Either way, this is NOT OK.  (Click photo to enlarge).

Now, whether you believe this extreme story or not really is beside the point.  The issue is with how comfortable this creep felt expressing these sentiments openly and the numerous onlookers who gave it positive feedback.  I've never seen anything like this in the Omorashi/pants wetting community.  I'm sure it exists but it's nowhere near as prevalent as in the AB/DL world.  This wasn't even almost the only horrifying post I saw in my short time there on this clearnet forum.  Yet y'all want "acceptance" and tolerance?  

Again, this isn't intended to paint everyone with the same brush--I know not all AB/DL's are okay with this.  But it's a bit like the "bad apples" argument made by corrupt police:  at a certain point, if the good apples don't call out the bad ones, that makes them bad by default.  As they say, 'one rotten apple spoils the bunch' & that appears to be true in this case.  Folks are either so desensitized by porn, fetish material or what have you that they've lost their grip on mortality and REality.  No matter your fetish, don't let yourself get to this point.  It gives us all a terrible name & creates real victims.    

On that note, shout out to all the forum moderators & admins who work hard to keep this kind of filth off our Omorashi platforms.  Methinks some of these bold exploitative fools need their hard drives checked by authorities.





 

Thoughts?  

All About: Rapid Desperation! ⏲💦

The rapid desperation technique is a method of causing intense urgency to the point of hopefully losing control & wetting your pants.  It's done by drinking small amounts of water frequently & voiding in the toilet like usual a few times, then continuing to drink that same amount but NOT going to the toilet.  It should not be performed by people with kidney, bladder or heart disease due to the large volume of water consumed.  If you're concerned about electrolyte imbalances, substitute a sports drink like Gatorade or Powerade for water some of the time & stop immediately if you feel nauseated, headachy or otherwise unwell at any point.  Also, this is one of those things that shouldn't be done daily due to the large amounts of water ingested.  Probably no more than 1x per week at most. 

You'll want to start drinking at least 1 hour (up to one DAY) before you intend to start holding/wetting.  If you usually need to poop while desperate to pee (and like me do NOT find that hot), try a suppository before getting started.  Don't hold your pee when you need to go: just go to the toilet like usual.  All you'll need is a timer/clock and lots of water (and electrolyte drinks: optional). 

Reddit has a Rapid Desperation sub that can be found here.  There aren't many posts but no reason there can't be in the future if more people participate.

And a very in-depth How-To guide on Pastebin here.

Here's a simplified Tumblr guide for those who don't feel like reading the Pastebin novel.  Excerpt:

"you drink a large amount of water (about 350ml) every 15 minutes for an hour and pee just as normal, when the hour is up empty your bladder a final time and continue drinking every 15 minutes..."

There's also the Breath Technique if you wanna increase your need further.  To do it, simply wait until you're extremely desperate, take a deep breath and exhale about 75% of the air in your lungs, then hold your remaining breath for 45 seconds.  Allegedly this causes muscle relaxation and loss of control.  However don't hold your breath any longer as oxygen deprivation can be dangerous.

Have you ever tried Rapid Desperation?  Did you have a "true" accident? 

I did a modified version once but started to feel crummy/waterlogged relatively quickly so I decided to stop.  However I DID have a massive wetting later when all that water started hitting my bladder.  Almost made it worth it.  I could see how this would be fun for people who've never been able to achieve a true accidental wetting via loss of control or those who just enjoy being SUPER desperate.  I'm more into the wetting part & prefer to spurt rather than have one big dramatic wetting so it's not my fave thing, but some people love it.

4 Main Types of Wetting

This is for all my (non-creepy, consensual) voyeurs who get off on watching others wet themselves.  Below is a brief description of the different types of wetting you might encounter in the wild or while watching smutty vids.  Some people find intentional wetting hotter while others are into genuine accidents.  Either way, there's room for everybody at the Omo table so gather round & pull up a chair!

Total loss = involuntary bladder spasms leading to wetting accident

Total Loss of Control:  When the bladder reaches max capacity and starts pushing pee out of the urethra against the person's will, causing a total wetting accident that was not intentional & they couldn't have stopped no matter how hard they tried.  May happen after ingesting a diuretic like alcohol or caffeine, undergoing "unpotty training" or simply over-hydrating & waiting too long to use the restroom.  Not everyone has experienced this degree of lost control & a small minority never would no matter how long they held their urine, but those who have claim it feels very good.  (It's not recommended to hold your urine this long frequently due to the health risks of urinary retention, but once in a blue moon shouldn't hurt most healthy people).

Squatting to minimize damage

Desperate, But Semi-Intentional:  This is a sudden, full emptying of the bladder all at once into one's clothes.  While it may appear accidental to onlookers (and to a great extent it is), the wetter has chosen to release their bladder in their pants now rather than keep enduring discomfort or face inevitable loss of control later so there is some degree of choice.  You're more likely to see this in places where bathrooms are scarce, lines are long or in outdoor settings where restrooms are too remote to reach in time such as marathon runs & bicycle races.  May also happen while trapped in a bathroom-less space like a car, elevator or bus.  It's sort of a compromise with nature, a type of harm reduction or bargaining by surrendering to nature's call by choice now so you can forego additional suffering (and involuntary lose of control) later.  A "picking your battles" strategy. 

Personally, I find this to be one of the most dignified types of wetting in that the person is accepting reality as it is, not choosing to literally dance around it or draw further attention to themselves by whining, holding their crotch, etc.  The reluctance & humiliation are there just as in the first type of wetting but they take a backseat to the acknowledgement of reality that "this train's comin' and there ain't no stopping it."  Hot.  🔥

Spurt in a skirt

Desperate, Gradual Release:  This is the "just gonna let a few spurts go to relieve pressure" tactic.  The wetter is desperate for relief & sees disaster approaching but decides to sloooowly let some leaks out in their pants in the hopes of avoiding a full wetting by holding it all in.  Think of it as an offering to the Desperation Gods--something to tide them over until the main course.  Works much better if wearing stealthy clothes like dark polyester tights, a rain- or snowsuit, short loose skirt, swimwear or a diaper than, say, faded denim jeans or a white form-fitting dress. 

This strategy has mixed results, with some people reporting that it bought them time while others said "breaking the seal" just made it harder not to fully piss themselves.  Interestingly, some folks are completely incapable of spurting/stopping & will instead have a full-on accident if they release ANY urine.  (This is my preferred method of wetting so I find it intriguing that some folks can't do it but they probably find it odd that I've never lost control or had a true public accident, so).  

The not-so-accidental "accident".

Intentional Wetting:  Not an accident at all, the bladder is full and the wetter needs to urinate but has already planned to use their pants ahead of time & has no reservations about when or where they do this.  They may choose to hold until the point of genuine desperation but this is all part of a planned, for-pleasure scenario rather than a humiliating act like those mentioned above.  Their method may be to release it all at once or in gradual spurts but either way, both the holding and wetting are done on purpose.

The "drunkccidental" wetting

Some Combination of the Above:  The hybrids.  These may be the most common type of all, that part is not known.  Perhaps a person has planned the desperation/holding aspect ahead of time but did NOT plan to wet themselves in public, simply overshooting their bladder's ability to hold or miscalculating some other factor, like when the bus would arrive.  Or maybe they had intended only to spurt to relieve pressure and had an entire loss of control.  Woopsie.  Unless you know the wetter personally, the best--and only--way to tell which kind of wetting they're having is by their own reaction--how embarrassed and/or shocked they seem by what they're doing.  Or not.

So my fellow peeverts, which is your favorite type of wetting to witness?  

Holding My Pee In (Literally): A Real Handful

Our toilet went caput around 7 p.m. and I was told NOT to use it until the plumber got a chance to work on it.  ETA:  Early tomorrow morning.  FML.  The shower drain is also mucked up and smelling a bit like sewage, so I wasn't about to get in there to relieve myself.  Yet I was running out of options as I had to pee NOW.  It had been about 5-6 hours since my last wizz & I was growing desperate.  Sometimes if I just kept waiting the need would subside--maybe about 50% of the time I can get away with this.  Did I have any diapers left under the sink as a Plan B?  No?  Fuck ME. 

Ehh, may as well set up my camera and document the experience so I can remember later what worked & what didn't.  The presence of a camera might encourage me to try harder to avoid embarrassing myself...  Or something.   

Mum had been in bed about 25 minutes & I was locked in the out-of-commission bathroom alone standing on my thick bath towel, genuinely trying to either stop or delay/reduce my need to go so I could go to bed myself.  In hindsight, standing by the toilet while trying to hold probably wasn't the smartest move but I didn't wanna risk pissing on my bedroom carpet.  At least the bathroom floors were wood.

After spurting in my pants (woops), I pulled them down in a panic & reverted to an old childhood trick:  holding my pee in manually with my hands.  Not exactly elegant but sometimes it worked.  I was all out of ideas & an afternoon's worth of fluids were itching to come out. 

Leak in progress.

While the peehole pressure & desperate dancing helped for a time, the dam eventually burst:  I ended up filling my hands with hot piss over and over as I struggled to stem the tide manually.  (As stated, mother was already in bed and there was a towel under me, but I was still terrified of getting busted in this vulnerable state as 2 other family members were still semi-conscious in the living room down the hall watching tele between snores & nods).  Bathrooms were scarce in this old house & I was currently pissing myself into my lounge pants in one of them.  I'd be in huge trouble if any of them caught me.  Adults my age really should be able to hold their urine, I was often told.

Couldn't contain myself

I ended up emptying my entire bladder into my pants, which were pulled halfway down my legs along with my panties.  This part of the story is real (see video below), with the backstory about the broken toilet being fiction, of course.  Just thought I'd make that clear for anyone who couldn't tell.  

I often dream up creative little "scenes" & backstories like these to liven up my wettings, but I h a t e when people try to pass creative fiction/fantasies off as real events... something that's all too common in the Omo world.  And yes, we can tell when you're exaggerating or straight up lying, we just may not call you on it because of the awkwardness.  Keep fiction in the fiction section, please.  Creative writing is a talent but nobody likes a liar.

Rant over.  😁

Video of the disaster

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