"Am I..."Normal?"

I see so many people asking if the fact that they enjoy peeing themselves is "normal" it makes my heart hurt.  I've even seen a self-identified Christian asking how they could make it right with God that they watched omorashi videos and enjoyed them.  😔

First, let's define "normal"   According to the definition provided by Google:

nor·mal

/ˈnôrm(ə)l/

adjective

conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.

"it's quite normal for puppies to bolt their food"

IDK what "bolt their food" means but apparently it's pretty typical.  Anyway, by that definition, omorashi (aka wetting one's pants on purpose for sexual pleasure) is not normal because the majority of people don't do it or consider it a typical/expected part of sexual behavior.  But the underlying question people are really getting at with this seems to be:  Is Omorashi harmful or indicative of a serious mental defect?  Like, is this some Jeffrey Dahmer level shit?  And the answer to that would be a resounding NO.  In fact, there are some things that point in the opposite direction.   

First of all, the way people react to all things urine is far out of proportion to its actual health & hygiene risks.  While urine is a waste product that shouldn't be consumed or applied to open wounds or the eyes (yes, there are people who do this for "health" reasons), it is not a disease vector like blood, semen, vaginal fluid, feces or vomit.  In health terms, urine is more comparable to saliva or tears than those other fluids/waste products.  While it smells a bit repugnant, it's not going to hurt or sicken you simply by getting on your body, in your bath water, etc.  Just don't drink it.  

Secondly, there's some basis for pee as a sexual stimulant as it contains the highest concentration of female pheromones of any substance in the human body.  Well, pregnant women's urine anyway.  The fact that it comes from the exact same place (urethra) as both semen and female ejaculate is something a lot of people conveniently overlook when happily ingesting or bathing in those other substances or watching porn featuring those behaviors.  And remember:  pee is technically safer than semen or vaginal fluid so the disgust is irrational.

We're socially conditioned to use the toilet instead of our pants from a very young age, and this toilet training often comes with some pretty harsh reinforcement by moms who are sick to death of cleaning up our messes & just want us to hurry up and master this skill.  Most of our poor attitudes toward pee/wetting are acquired during this pivotal developmental period & reinforced during our daycare & early elementary school days, when having an accident can be grounds for bullying and social exclusion.  But those attitudes, as stated, are not based in reality.  

Now those are the cold, hard scientific facts.  They do little to change how people FEEL about the practice of wetting one's pants for pleasure.  There's a proper time and place for everything, and if you go around exposing unwilling people to your sexual fetish or making messes for others to clean up you're definitely going to draw some criticism & harsh judgment... rightfully so.  Not because of the fetish itself but because you're being self-centered, inconsiderate & downright creepy.   Exhibitionism is a separate thing and can be illegal in certain instances.  Getting your rocks off, however you do that, in public or in front of unwitting people is immoral and potentially illegal.  As with other sexual fetishes & hangups, there's absolutely no reason to disclose your participation in the omorashi world to family, friends or non-partners unless you're caught in the act.  Most people don't want to know what we get up to for sexual pleasure and we should honor that.   BOUNDARIES.  

My goal with this blog is to help normalize pants wetting for pleasure by adults in the privacy of their homes, and I have seen movement toward that direction in recent years.  From celebrities sharing photos & stories about their pants wetting experiences to the exploding number of Omo content creators to the peed jeans fashion trend to the TikTok "Wet Your Pants" challenge during COVID, the world is opening its mind to all things Omorashi.  And that warms my heart as well as my pants.  While I doubt it'll ever be "mainstream" normal, I don't see it being this stigmatized forever.  The type and amount of on-demand, free porn available in general has desensitized people to some pretty bizarre and often disturbing things.  Wetting your own pants is pretty tame in the grand scheme of things.  It's not violent, harms no one & doesn't even involve nudity.  

At the end of the day, "normal" is subjective & too many folks are concerned about fitting into that boring category anyway.  A lot of things are normalized that shouldn't be:  greed, violence, narcissism, racism, misogyny, alcohol abuse, bullying... the list goes on.  That doesn't make them RIGHT or good.  Focus on being genuine & true to yourself while treating people with kindness & respect and you can't lose.  



* I would add that if your interest in pants peeing begins to become a compulsion, makes it impossible to date or have other relationships, maintain gainful employment or otherwise interferes with your everyday life, it might have crossed the line into abnormal and harmful.  If you start losing interest in sexual or romantic relationships and can only get off if this fetish is involved, it might be time to pull back.  Moderation is important with all things.  Porn addiction is real & can desensitize you to extreme content, requiring increasingly disturbing or bizarre stimuli to achieve the desired effect.  The same goes with fetishes & paraphilias:  do it constantly & it loses its magic.  Just as you set boundaries with others, you should set them with yourself & limit when, where & how often you indulge in this little slice of heaven.