Tuesday, July 29, 2025

Find Me, Friend Me, Follow Me!






Hey Peefam!  Just spreading the word about my new Youtube channel, which is mostly just piss video playlists at the moment.  But some of the vids are incredibly 🔥🚨, so if you have an account give me a "Subscribe" & have a look around.   📺

If you haven't checked out my Redgifs, now's the time.  Lots of close-up vids/pics of me doing my thang. 18+ only.  🔞

And of course my Wattpad if you prefer to read your porn.  (Look at those hashtag rankings!).  📚

Oh, and if you'd like to hire me as your very own virtual ABDL Mommy or Omorashi Coach, message me on X/Twitter @Floodgaytes.  More info on that can be found here.

Finally, if you're here from a search engine or other redirect, check me out on Twitter/X.com  @Floodgaytes

Omo lovers taking over the WWW in 2025!  💦


Sunday, July 27, 2025

If People Got One Thing, It's the NERVE






As stated in my OP on the topic, I take client privacy very seriously.  Even after parting ways, I take great care to dispose of all files & chat logs tied to the person & never contact them or have any further dealings with them virtually or otherwise.  I do not accept payment methods that require real names or photos & never require clients to show their face, share their phone number or other personally identifying info, nor would I share the content of our conversations anywhere for ANY reason.  

The key word here is "client".  All bets are off when it comes to scammers & predators.  If you have the cojones to step to me with your hands out looking for free shit, expect to be exposed for that.  I make it clear upfront in all my ads and posts that the ABDL Mommy and Omo Coach thing are PAID services, what my 'hard nos' are and that you must be 18+ to participate.  Therefore if you disregard that disclaimer or fail to read my TOS and skip right to "I'm not paying" like the shameless gentleman shown below, you'll be blasted for it.  Publicly.  And if I'm able to log your IP or other real info, that'll come out in the wash too.




Why do this?



Don't be like DWLayla_Elllie.  If you take issue with the idea of paid Mommy/Dom/Omo Coach services, that's your prerogative.  You have the whole internet on which to complain about it, but don't step to ME, a for-hire ABDL Mommy/Dom/Omo guide & do your complaining.  More importantly, don't play me for a fool.  Don't nobody believe that half-baked "robbed by Mommy" story ANYWAY!  And in the off-off chance there's even a grain of truth to it, you should be hiring a financial planner & internet security firm right now, not looking for a replacement orgasm aide.  In other words: whether your sob story is true or a whole-cloth lie, you have a problem sir.  Time for a reality check.  

If you wouldn't go in the grocery store & beg the cashier to give you free shit, don't do it to me.  I provide services rather than goods, but the fact remains:  it's completely inappropriate to ask for, demand or even hint at wanting a paid service for free or reduced cost.  Even if you don't actually respect me, have some dignity & respect YOURSELF because this is a bad look.  I put a lot of effort in BETWEEN sessions to find activities & chat topics for my clients based on their unique interests & do other little "extra" off-the-clock things for them... don't go this pathetic route.  There's no sob story you can tell that will get me to bend or break my rules, but there's a good chance you will get blasted publicly, blocked or perma-banned if you pull a DWLayla_Elllie.  

Oh, and I already provide this blog, my Redgifs channel, Youtube channel & more for free so save the "you're only in it for money" spiel for one of the countless glorified pimps LARPing as an amateur "porn producer" or the girls posting misleading 20-sec. clips on Pornhub labeled "Visit my Onlyfans for full version!!!!1!!1!"  THAT shit is deceptive, misleading & done solely for financial gain.  My terms are clear as a bell--take 'em or leave 'em.    😒

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Q&A: Why Can't I Wet My Diaper in Certain Situations?





 


Because we're trained not to wet ourselves from a very early age, with the potential consequences including social exclusion, being mocked, bullied and other terrible things.  This is no small thing as the humiliation of getting caught could be truly devastating.

Even if you have no trouble using your diaper in some situations, others can be tricky.  Some commonly cited "problem" settings include peeing while sitting in bed, riding in/driving a car, talking to someone IRL or in busy public settings like stores or a classroom.  You likely have a subconscious fear of the diaper leaking and being caught wetting your pants, which can be a legit fear if you choose the wrong diaper.  You may also find that mechanical factors play a role, such as which way your urethral opening is pointed.  (Men often find it harder to wet while sitting down, likely because they're used to peeing while standing in everyday life).  

Whatever the reasons for your urinary reluctance, it can be overcome with enough time and effort.




Some Things to Try




Try spreading your legs for a more "open" urethra.


The best remedy for this is practice.  First, make sure you really need to urinate.  You can achieve this by filling your bladder with plain water or water plus a diuretic like caffeine.  In the beginning it's okay to give a little "push" or bear down slightly to get your stream started.  You shouldn't do this often as it's bad for your urinary tract, but once or twice won't hurt.  As you get more comfortable wetting in your challenging setting, replace this tactic with deep rhythmic breathing and/or closing your eyes and envisioning a babbling brook/stream.  (If your setting is in private, put on an actual audio recording of water running, someone peeing or similar.  Or listen through headphones if possible).  Spread your legs if possible as this tends to help mechanically, and if you're a male, make sure your penis is not squished under your body or in a too-tight diaper.

As I've stated before, the pudendal nerve can help trigger urinary release for some people.  To stimulate it, gently run your fingernails or fingers over that indented spot at the top of your butt crack.  If it works, you'll find yourself needing to pee much more urgently.  If you're at home and have the privacy, watching Omorashi or wetting videos can greatly help you get in that headspace.

Quietly giving yourself "permission" to wet your diaper can also help.  If you had an overbearing parent or teacher, pretend to be that person & tell yourself from their POV that "It's okay, just let go.  That's what diapers are for" or similar.  You may also find diaper-wetting hypnotism recordings helpful.  Listen to these in your chosen setting or while falling asleep at night to gradually help your mind relax.



Some Things to Avoid



Oops!  The fear of THIS happening is a big mental barrier for many diaper wearers.



Try not to get frustrated, as this only makes it harder to achieve the necessary relaxation level.  Instead, turn it into a game or a fun challenge.  (Like, yay!  Another excuse to wet my diaper).  Rather than focusing on what's going on in your pants, try distracting yourself with other things like mentally singing "100 Bottles of Beer" or playing "I Spy".  Or maybe try & think of as many yellow objects as possible.  Scroll around on your phone, do some homework or whatever will help you take your mind off the goal of pissing yourself.  Eventually if you don't go to the toilet you'll have to let go in your diaper, so resolve not to get up to go to the bathroom to pee.

No matter where your challenging setting is located, practice wetting your chosen diaper brand & design at home in private before venturing out in public.  Wear it all day and see how much pee it'll hold by using it over and over until it leaks.  (For those worried about diaper rash:  You only have to do this once if you take good notes).  This will either expose flaws with your diaper choice or give you the extra confidence to let go in any scenario.  Trying on different pants/bottoms with your diaper can also increase confidence, as it will let you know whether it's visible from the outside or causes a noticeable "pooch." 

The goal should be getting totally comfortable wearing & using a diaper, which means you'll need to do it as often as possible--preferably 24/7 for a while--so it doesn't feel as alien.   After you've achieved your goal, don't stop there--plan to try & wet in that setting again soon or somewhere even more challenging.  This will ensure you don't lose the "skills" you've acquired. 

Above all, just know that it's perfectly normal not to be able to wet your diaper everywhere right away.  Potty training took a long time, and so will undoing the mental & physical conditioning that came with it.

Thursday, July 17, 2025

Dear Content Creators: Please Be More Vocal in Your Wetting Vids




Hello, content creators of the Omo world.  Welcome.  First I'd like to thank you for your "service" to this community.  Without you we'd have nothing to fap to so please keep in mind that I'm grateful overall.  I just have this ONE nitpick, something that costs no money, requires no effort & is extremely low-risk.  I need you to be more vocal in your videos. 

Short, silent wetting clips are all too common these days--the market's saturated (pun intended?) with them.  While they have their place, they just don't hit the spot like those old vocal desperation/accident vids used to.  The ones where the man or woman would announce that they're about to wet or are having an accident.  Or, if your video involves intentional wetting, the moaning & other "pleasure" sounds as you relax and let go.

No faux-panic or yelling required.  No complicated script.  You don't even have to use your "real" voice--just whisper if you're more comfy doing that.  Hell, give us some genuine moans/gasps as you start leaking, but whatever you do, make sure to include audio with your delicious HQ videos!  I'm not the only one to notice this sad lack of sound in today's wetting vids: serious Omo lovers frequently request videos where the subject is talking, making sounds or otherwise verbalizing their bladder struggle.  That's likely because wetting is a full sensory experience that engages most of the 5 senses IRL:  at least touch, sight, smell & sound. 

The other aspect is that, regardless of whether you're doing a desperation/holding vid or an intentional wetting, a person would likely say SOMETHING if such a thing happened in real life.  Not only is it hotter, it makes it more believable... that you're turned on, that you really couldn't hold it, whatever. 

See here:




Requests from Omorashi.org users for more vocal vids.



Again, I'm not asking you to show your face or even use your "real" voice: use a phony accent or whisper if necessary.  Run your voice through a vocal changer of some sort--just please give us something to work with in the auditory department.  Too few vids featured ASMR/"hissy" pees, but that's not really in your control.  None of us controls how our pee sounds coming out, but we do control what comes out of our mouths when we pee, or in this case, what doesn't come out nearly enough.  And that is sexy words, phrases, sounds & exclamations as you piss yourself.  Even three little whispered words like Alice says in the vid below make the whole thing soooo much hotter!  



Alice whisper-yells:  "God, I'm pissin'!"






This British baddie right before squatting & letting loose.




The idea of a woman (or anyone, really) audibly losing control of their bladder & letting viewers know that it's happening is indescribably hot.  Here's a long list of potential phrases to work into your script if you need ideas.  This kind of battle between your bladder and reality is what makes desperation/accidental wetting vids so amazing & distinguishes them from the hundreds of 40-second faceless silent doggystyle crotch shots of girls in panties pissing in the bath tub.  Anyone can do that--even someone without an Omo kink or pee fetish.  (Or God forbid, someone who's actively turned off by wetting).  If you don't feel comfortable hearing your own voice, at least give us moaning, heavy breathing... something

Clipchamp.com is a great free video editing website that allows you to add captions & play with things like the color/length of your videos.  You can even crop out unwanted stuff in the background if you're worried about being identified.  The "add captions" feature is new & really brilliant.  This could be a potential avenue if you absolutely don't feel comfortable being vocal.  I've always found StillAVirginSara's captioned vids incredibly hot.




Yes, let us know what you were thinking when the vid was made.




Here are some of my favorite examples of creators using their voice in their vids.  Some of them get very vocal and use full sentences to let us know they're peeing their pants; others simply moan, sigh or gasp.  One only squeaks.  All are beyond hot!   🔥




Great long male wetting vid with tons of talking! 





Notice that several of those videos are extremely poor quality & don't feature any audible spurting, public humiliation or other things--yet because of the narration, it's a quality vid.  Even in those truly "vintage" vids with terrible quality to the point you can't see a drop of pee, the narration makes it better than any short, silent HQ vid produced today.  See:  Girl Wets Cinderella Diaper.  🔥!            

In only one of these vids is the star's face visible, and it's a professional video (the Patches girl).  Not a single one of these women can be identified IRL by their voice alone.  NOT ONE.  If you're truly worried about being identified, make sure to remove your metadata and blur out background objects that might also appear in your social media photos, as a reverse image search can potentially tie your wetting vids to your REAL identity that way.  But a moan, whisper or even a few words are not going to give your identity up.  

Think you get the picture.  In case you don't, check out the old vids of SwisherSweetie, PeePeeDee or Wetlinda.   In addition to vocalizations, these videos tended to be much longer than those made today; they featured full wettings with desperation at the beginning, gradual leaking, etc.  Not just the money shot!  (And for anyone asking why don't I throw my hat in the video production ring if I think I can do "better":  I've made plenty of vids, but it'll never be as hot watching yourself do porn things as it is watching somebody else.  It's kinda like a massage or tickling:  It has to come from somebody else.   😁




A genuine wetting vid.  Wish I knew this lady's name.



I often have to masturbate after simply THINKING about some of the things creators said in their wetting videos, sometimes decades ago.  Natalee comes to mind ("Oh, I'm peein'") and SwisherSweetie's "I'm too tired to get up to go pee" from her classic bedpissing vid.  And then there's Alyssa Reece telling the driver "[Don't pull over] We're just gonna pee in our pants".  One of my faves is SwisherSweetie's standing-in-jeans vid where she says "Oh, I can't stop it.  My panties are so wet & I still have to pee."  And THEN there's n0miiiii:  "Oh man, I'm gonna end up just peeing in my pants.  Oh fuck it's all coming out."

I could do this all day.  Unfortunately these vids are all hella old because the ones today are sans audio.  Regrettably.  Interestingly, I've noticed that male creators tend to have an easier time being vocal in their videos compared to the ladies.  Regardless:  The silent film era is OVER, creators!  Leave it in the 1910s where it belongs.  We want audio in your vids (pretty please and thank you kindly).  🥰








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Sunday, July 13, 2025

Now Offering: ABDL Mommy & Omo Guide Services!






Hey piss kinksters!   🚽   Ever dreamed of (anonymously) exploring your deepest, dirtiest Omorashi fantasies with a caring professional who's into the same thing & understands on a soul level?  How about a doting ABDL Mommy who specializes in ageplay, diapers & wetting?  If so, keep reading because this is for you.  As a long-time wetting content creator & piss blogger with a minor background in psychology, I'm now expanding my offerings to include 1-on-1 virtual ABDL Mommy and Omo Guide sessions. Just what does this entail, how much does it cost and what's the catch?  

It's all laid out for you right here, in the not-so-fine print.  Read on and see for yourself.




S P E C I A L T I E S  ( EXAMPLES )


Explore advanced or highly-specific wetting topics & fantasies like:

- Learning to 'let go' & wet in a variety of progressively more challenging settings/positions.

- Unpotty training or going "24/7" in diapers

- Overcoming trauma & shame surrounding your Omo or ABDL kink

- Tips on "coming out" to loved ones about your fetish

- Unearthing the true origins of your ABDL/Omorashi interest

- Hygiene tips & incontinence product recommendations for your specific needs.

- Negotiating a relationship with someone who doesn't share your love of ABDL or Omo

- Working Omo or ABDL into a busy or low-privacy lifestyle

- Taming the beast: Reducing compulsive behavior & addiction with this fetish

- Roleplay/Maternal encouragement to go with the flow ("permission to wet")

  ... and more!  These are just guideposts--YOU decide the nature of our conversations.



I'm open to engaging in most fantasies & real life scenarios provided they're not illegal or dangerous. I can play many roles, from the stern but nurturing Mommy to the detached, fact-focused instructor/counselor to, well, you decide!  I don't mind pacifiers, bottles & other baby gear but it's not my specialty.  My main focus is holding, desperation, wetting, diapers & all things Omorashi!


 

  • YES  🫡

    Our relationship can consist of any of the following:


    Occasional 2-way pic & video exchange = ✅.

    Realtime live chat sessions (30 mins apiece via Reddit/Twitter DM or email)

    "Static" messaging (not live) for discounted cost = ✅.

    "Dares" or challenges for you to complete = ✅.

    Age regression/hypnosis-style chat sessions; guided wetting/holds = ✅.

    "Homework" assignments for you to work on between sessions such as drawing, collage art, simple writing assignments & other things a pre-k or kindergartner would do = ✅.

    Holding and wetting games designed for one or more players (board games, bingo, etc).  ✅

    Possibly open to accepting cash-in-mail soon if enough interest.  ✅




    NO  🚫

    Face pics/vids or other personally identifying info from me.  ❌

    Moves to 2nd locations (Telegram, Snapchat, etc).  ❌

    Alternate payment methods (Paypal, WU, etc).  ❌

    Poop, vomit, other bodily fluid discussion whatsoever.  ❌

    Unpaid sessions, late payments, etc.  ❌

    In-person meet-ups or "extra" clients in addition to primary paying client.  ❌


    Don't see your chosen service mentioned above?  Ask!





    F O R M A T

    ALL communication takes place via Twitter DM, Reddit DM or your email provider of choice.  




    P R I C E  P O I N T S


     LIVE CHAT: $30 per 30-minute session.  Each client is entitled to a maximum of FIVE (5) 30-minute live chats per week. This format is the default for anything requiring that I be present to participate in the moment WITH you:  trauma work, realtime holding/wetting games, roleplay that requires an immediate response. This is the chatroom format where people meet to talk in the moment, sending text, emojis, photos, videos & other communications & receive an instant reply.

    Because my presence is required, Live Chats will need to be booked in advance, preferably a minimum of 24 hours ahead of the anticipated session.  (To "book" a session, simply shoot me a DM or email & I'll respond when I see it).  Payment is made at the time we connect for your session, not when you book it.  This makes it easier if we decide to cancel for some reason.

    STATIC MESSAGING:  $20 per day flat rate.  This includes a minimum of 1 reply from me per 24-hour period but may include more at no extra charge.  Clients are entitled to FIVE (5) Static Message days per week in addition to the 5 live chats. 

    Think of Static Messaging as forum or discussion board format (Reddit, Omorashi.org, ADISC, etc) where you send me a message and I reply later at my convenience, then you get back to me at yours and so on.  Example: If you message me at 3:00 p.m., I may reply at 3:01 p.m. or 2:59 p.m. the next day (but likely somewhere in between).  And I may reply only once or multiple times--either way, it's just $20.  1 day = 24 hours here.  Once the 24 hour period is up, another payment is required to continue the conversation via this format.  

    Static Messaging is a budget-friendly option for discussing anything you'd use Reddit or another discussion board for:  Non-urgent Q&A, proposing an activity for the next live chat session, sending pics or other files.  Also great for people with social anxiety or those who just prefer to "think out" their replies a bit longer.  
    Scheduling is looser on these--you can book them as we go (same day) since I don't have to respond right away. 

    * Pic/video exchange - No extra charge.

    * Complex 'How-To' Guides may be commissioned upon request.  Pricing varies. 

    No subscription or contract--book by the session & cancel anytime.  No hidden fees or charges, and there's no minimum session requirement per week.  Payment is by Cashapp or Bitcoin so I never see or access your card/bank info.  





    P R I V A C Y,  T E R M S  &  C O N D I T I O N S


    Privacy & security are of utmost importance, both mine and yours.  Your sensitive identifying info will NEVER be shared with anyone for any reason unless you're found to be a minor, in which case it will immediately be turned over to local authorities in your jurisdiction.  All clients must be 18 or older--absolutely no exceptions.  All payments are final but there will be no surprise fees or charges.  

    I reserve the right to terminate our relationship at any time for any reason, but you'll be notified if this should happen.  I don't believe in taking people's money & disappearing or going "ghost" (in fact, doing so is theft!) & would only do so if I felt my life or physical safety were being jeopardized.  Doxxing, IRL stalking, threats to expose me, etc are examples of reasons I'd terminate a relationship.  Thankfully this hasn't happened yet but safety & privacy always come first.  If I need to move or cancel a session I will inform you ASAP & ask that you give me the same courtesy.  

    I will not be on call to chat or give certain clients preferred treatment over others.  Sessions are booked on a first come, first served basis.  All payments are final unless you accidentally send too much or end up cancelling your appointment.  If you are a no-show for a live chat but fail to give me advance notice of any kind, you'll be charged for the session.  Any Bitcoin/Cashapp fees are covered by the client.

    Send all serious inquiries to @floodgaytes  



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    As more businesses move online, it's not uncommon to see surprising products & services springing up in the internet realm.  'Virtual Dominatrix' is a fast growing trade and the rates for retaining the services of a Dom online are often high:  $4-$30 per minute!  That's in addition to the subscription/retention fees, which may range from $50-$500.  🤯   The same applies to niches like ABDL Mommy, which fall under the same virtual fetish sex work umbrella.  Luckily you can retain this Mommy / Omo Guide for much more reasonable rates.  🧊😌

     My services have been sought on both Reddit & Quora but I only realized it was a paying gig recently, so I figured I'd go ahead & post this here... let my loyal readers get 1st dibs.  If you know anyone who might be interested, copy/paste the link from your browser into your social media status & share, share, share!. 

    Slots may fill up fast so it's first cum, first served!  😏


Pissy Wet Ads 💦

Here's a series of super hot (and sometimes weird) piss-related ads you Omo fans are sure to love.  They show just how far normie society has come in embracing all things urine but especially, pissing in pants.  Without further Ado:




Harvey Nichols 2012 "Pissing Your Pants With Excitement" Ads


Birddogs brand pants advertise that you can "Pee Hard" in 'em




Ikea encourages women to urinate on this ad, which doubles as a pregnancy test.




From the Rich Earth Institute



More from the Rich Earth Institute in Vermont.




Japanese ad for Kawasaki



Citroen ad for... I'm not sure what.




Urologist ad





Manley Underwear ad




Ad for hockey.



Comedy pee!



More comedy pee!




Ad for iconundies




Depends diaper ad for younger adults




Pampers ad for girls who are "almost nineteen"






What's the boldest or craziest pee ad you've seen?

Thursday, July 10, 2025

Does Leaking a Little "to Relieve Pressure" Really Work?

 




People tend to agonize over the decision of whether to leak or hold when wearing clothes likely to show pee stains or in situations where visible wetting would not be accepted.  The whole point being to only let enough go to relieve pressure until you can reach a bathroom or other safe voiding place without leaving majorly noticeable dark spots on your pants/bottoms.  So does it really work?  You'll get varying answers on this, and it depends almost entirely on how easily you can leak/spurt without losing control of your entire bladder.  I break this down into three separate "types".


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Type 1:  For people like me, spurting is easy.  We can do it for hours without losing control of the flow & having a true accident.  Over and over, start & stop, pee on command.  It buys time until we can get to a restroom by letting pressure off the bladder, plus our extreme control guarantees we won't "accidentally" let too much go and leave a mess on our pants.  Win-win.

Type 2:  For others it's the exact opposite: "breaking the seal" at all is playing with fire & almost guarantees they'll fully wet themselves shortly after.  Once a little comes out, the floodgates (not gaytes) will soon burst open & release the rest with or without their consent.

Type 3:  Then there are those who have the ability to stop with effort but choose not to because it feels too good to stop after one or two leaks.  This usually involves some arousal & a good degree of self-deception.  They may be mentally resolved to just spurt once or twice but as soon as those first glorious drops come out, they consciously choose to let more and more go until they've gone so much they think, "Ugh, might as well finish.  I'm already soaked".  I call these the Slippery Slopers.   
      Only when they've fully pissed their pants do they awaken from their horny trance & realize, fuck, it's very obvious what happened here.  They may or may not regret it at this point.  IME this is more common in relaxed settings like in one's home while roommates/parents are around as opposed to true high-stakes public settings, but everyone's different.



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Definitely NOT a spurter.



(Un)fortunately, the only way to know which "type" you are is to experiment with spurting/leaking and see how easily you can or can't stop.  To do this, choose a day where you don't have any pressing responsibilities and will have sufficient privacy.  Tank up on water & perhaps a touch of a diuretic like caffeine or alcohol--water with real lemon juice added, hibiscus tea, cilantro.  All are good options in moderation.  🫖🧃 ☕

Don't let yourself leak until you're past a 7 on the desperation scale.  This is where your real test of control will come in.  Stand on an easily washable rug, incontinence mat or outside on the concrete so you get a "clean" read that's not tainted by seeing a toilet or running water, both of which can worsen the need to empty your bladder.  Mentally note your symptoms & how badly you have to go, then let yourself piss for a count of "one-one thousand" and stop.  Just pee briefly, no longer than 1 second. 

After leaking, try to continue on with whatever chore or other casual activity you were doing and note where on the desperation scale you are AFTER leaking.  Is your need to pee slightly better, slightly worse or a LOT worse?  Did you have to grab your crotch, cross your legs forcefully or do other extreme things to avoid a full on flood? 

If you fully wet yourself or feel a much more severe need to release your bladder after leaking, there's your answer.  You're a Type 2.  However, if you feel like it might've alleviated some pressure, continue on with the experiment by waiting about 5-7 minutes and then leaking again for the same amount of time.  Better or worse afterward?  See how long you can do this successfully without flooding yourself, but more importantly, note whether it improves or worsens the need to empty your bladder.  Also be sure to look at your pants/bottoms and see whether this would be an acceptable level of wetness in a public situation for  you.





Noticeable, but not as bad as a full flood.  Damage control > everything.




What's the point of this exercise?  Well, if you're one to get desperate in public a lot, it can give you useful data about what to do in a true emergency--whether it's wiser to hold it all or release pressure gradually to buy time.  Practicing at home prevents a potentially embarrassing public wetting so you have a plan of action in case this happens in your real life.  Believe me, you don't wanna find out you're a Type 2 after losing control in the middle of a busy public situation if you can help it.  

If you're a Type 3 striving to be more of a Type 1 (more self-control, ability to do this purely for practical reasons), try to mentally put yourself in a serious or stressful situation when you do the spurting exercise--say, a busy exam room if you're in school or a boardroom if you have a career.  Keep in mind the purpose of this exercise:  to see where you fall on the spurtability scale & then, if you're capable of it physically, to gauge how much you can let go without looking like you wet yourself.  Remind yourself you might really need this data one day and try to stay focused on the practical side rather than the "feels good" side.  You can always plan a full "pleasure" wetting for later if this feels anti-climactic.

Another benefit of being able to leak a little without fully flooding is that it extends the fun when engaged in said pleasure-wettings.  Giant losses of control in which you empty your bladder all at once feel GREAT, but they also end as fast as they started.  I'm glad I have the ability to choose.  Some of my spurting sessions have exceeded 2 hours!

(I can almost hear my diaper lovers shaking their heads at this unnecessarily complicated exercise.  And they're not wrong--a pull-up, diaper or incontinence pad would REALLY help in this situation if you're truly stressing about accidents.  But for me this is more of a mental exercise as I have no problem holding.  Plus I can't afford diapers all the time & have never worn one in public.  But you should def look into it if sudden urgency is interrupting your life.  And using them does feel GREAT). 


Where do YOU fall on the Spurtability Scale?  

Monday, July 7, 2025

Summer Pee Challenges: ("Wild" Version)







The last set of challenges was geared toward Beginner Level wetters, people who lack the freedom to do crazier challenges & those who just prefer a more private/safe experience.  This list is NOT LIKE THAT.  It contains activities that could potentially get you in trouble if you're caught & might result in cleanup for others if you fail to sop it up yourself.  You've been warned. 

The rules are simple: pull up a random number generator online, number it 1-20, and give 'er a spin or click at the start of each new day.  Whatever number you land on is your challenge for that day.  Game is over once you've finished all the challenges or reached the last day of Summer (Sept 22, 2025).  Keep a private journal or diary for bonus points so you can look back at your adventures in the future or share them with like-minded friends.  Again, the author of Open My Floodgaytes does not condone these activities & bears no responsibility for the reader's actions or their consequences.  It's all for entertainment purposes, baby!  

Without further Ado, I present: 



Summer Wetting Challenge (Wild!)



1. Stage an "accidental" wetting somewhere in public.  Scout out a location where a bathroom will not be accessible due to being out of order, under construction, closed for the season or other reasons.  Put on some light colored pants, tank up and get really desperate, then make a beeline for said bathroom during daylight hours, wetting your pants the second you "discover" it's not accessible.  

2.  Have a stealthy wetting accident while sitting down somewhere in public--a movie theater seat, public park bench, the ledge in a dressing room, a padded stool in a dark corner of the bar.  Wear clothes that hide wetness, as you don't wanna get caught by the owners.  Bonus points if you record it or take pics!  





Slowly wet yourself sitting down in public.



3.  Have an "accident' while on the move:  in a public bus/train, while driving down the freeway, riding a bike/motorcycle, skating, in a fishing boat, hiking/jogging... Make sure to sit at the BACK of the bus or train if you wet there so the people behind you don't notice.

4.)  Leak/spurt secretly around a friend or loved one who doesn't know about your kink in stealthy clothes.  Maybe you're lounging in lawn chairs in your yard, on a walk/jog or somewhere near water.  Wherever you are, the goal should be NOT getting caught!  Don't lose all control at once & if you do, choose somewhere like in the water or on the move so they don't see. 

5.)  Wet yourself in a public gym bathroom or locker room after a hard workout.  (Or a regular public bathroom if you don't have a gym membership).  Can be a "waited too long" or "zipper stuck" situation if you get caught, but try to exercise some first as your bladder fills.  If someone is in the room with you, proceed with the wetting anyway, pretending you were just too desperate to control it.

6.)  Put on a swimsuit & go somewhere with water--a lake, pool, pond, beach, water park or hot tub, anywhere kids aren't prevalent.  Fill the tank then wet yourself while standing near or in the water.  Only rule: your bottom half cannot be submerged in water when you let go!






Challenge #6:  Wet like this in water.  




7.) NO TOILET DAY!  Every time you wet, take a naughty video or photo and upload to the porn site of your choice at the end of the day.  Many sites like VK, Erome, Redgifs & Thisvid allow you to keep the content private or only share with friends if you prefer.  Then you can go back & relive the fun later or share it with online friends.

8.)  Google "pee fetish toys gear" and treat yourself to 1 piss kink item of your choosing!  (Safe search 'off').




Challenge #8:  Buy a pee-specific sex toy.




9.)   Test your bladder strength for real.  You'll need a timer for these.  Do rapid desperation or get EXTREMELY desperate & then try the following series of progressively harder challenges (no crotch-holding at any time!):

 - Stand with legs apart for 1 minute.
 - Do 10 jumping jacks or run in place for 15 seconds.
 - Now squat low to the ground & hold the pose for 10 seconds.
 - Go in the bathroom & turn the sink faucet on low.  Watch & listen to the flowing water for 1 minute.
 - With the faucet still running, stand directly in front of the toilet like you're gonna pee with your legs apart. Hands on your head for 2 minutes as you look at the toilet & listen to the water, imagining you're in a public bathroom listening to someone pee beside you.
 - Sit on the open toilet with your legs spread wide.  2 minutes, no touching or leaking.
 - If still dry, turn off the faucet & go into another room.  Drink 1 small glass of water & lie on the floor flat on your back, massaging your bladder with your hands or a large vibrating object for 30 seconds.   
 - Stand with legs spread & spurt for 1 second ("one-one thousand") in your pants and stop.  Remember, no manual holding!
 - If you're still dry and passed all these tests, piss in the place of your choosing.  You earned it.  (If not, start over from the first challenge in this list).


10.)  Make some random bet with a friend with the stipulation that the loser has to wet themselves.  Winner gets to pick where/how they wet (they're more likely to agree if it's in PRIVATE).  Sports team bets, horse races, weather, world events...all things you can potentially place these wet bets on.  

11.)  Get desperate & ask a stranger if they know where the bathroom is, wetting yourself "accidentally" as they tell you.  Should go without saying, but make sure the person you ask is OF AGE & not some fragile looking elder.  If you're not down with 'punishing' a random person like this, you can go in a gas station/corner store without public bathrooms for paying customers & wet in front of the clerk when they say 'no'.  Choose locations that aren't near where you live or work.

12.)  Go to a store that sells clothes and has a dressing room.  Try on a pair of bottoms & flood them, hanging them up gingerly inside the dressing room before drying off & exiting.  Bonus points for recording it!

13.)  Try a crazy new position.  Headstand, butt and legs propped up against the wall, the splits, a complicated yoga pose, straddling a sex toy, playing Twister solo.  Get creative.  🃏

14.)  Do rapid desperation and then run errands (in public) while wearing tell-tale clothes that hide nothing.  Don't wet unless it's a genuine uncontrollable accident.

15.)  Have a standing indoor public wetting somewhere on dry land.  Possible locations:  parking garage, elevator, in a gazebo or shed, public bathroom, greenhouse section of store w/ plants or an abandoned building.  

16.)  Have a standing outdoor public accident in the location of your choosing.  Sidewalks, parking lots, balconies, patios or on a walk thru the woods... On a ladder, while doing yardwork or gardening, carrying things to the car after shopping.  Just some ideas.

17.)  Play Truth or Dare or Never Have I Ever with a friend or partner who doesn't know about your fetish.  Include 1 wetting/pee topic.  For instance:  "I dare you to pee your pants" or "Never have I ever known someone with a piss kink."  

18.  Wet yourself while lying down/reclining in public.  Can be while "laying out" in the sun by the pool, reading a book on your belly, getting an ultrasound/massage or swinging in a hammock (for instance).  Must be on dry land.  

19.)  FREE SPACE!  Wetter's choice.  Indoor, outdoor, any clothing, public, private, "stealthy" and any position.  




Go where you sit while gaming or doing other 'techie' tasks.



20.)  Pee your pants while gaming, talking on the phone, texting, chatting on a Zoom call or otherwise remotely connected/technologically engaged.  

BONUS:  Wear a diaper somewhere public:  A Labor Day celebration, concert, festival, pub crawl, night club, road trip, family reunion.  See how many times you can re-wet it before it starts to leak.  (Wearing dark pants + a long, baggy top can help conceal wetness, as can loose flowy skirts or even baggy shorts with super wide leg holes).  Keep a full bottle of water with you to "accidentally" spill in your lap if need be and some dry pants + wet wipes in your trunk for the ride home.  Stealthy!  🥷








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