#PissyArt: Barada

 

Their Bandcamp page bills their music as "Songs about pee for people who like pee".  Hey, that's us!  "Barada" translates roughly to "streaming with gold" in Greek or some shit according to Wikipedia.  See?

"The word "Barada" is thought to be derived from the word barid, which means "cold" in Semitic languages.  The ancient Greek name (Greek: Χρυσορρόας, romanized: Chrysorrhoas), means "streaming with gold".  ^{--- Wikipedia}

Bandcamp page



Bitchin'.  Their October 2024 album Wet is a full LP-length offering with 17 pissy tracks, some of which sport titles like "Euphoria in the Pouring Rain," "Golden Rivers" and "Wet Denim".  I'd describe the sound on Wet as 3 cups of Indie Rock + 1 cup Rockabilly +  a pinch of Pop, but I'm no music critic.  The lead singer appears to be female based on the vocals I'm hearing--it's a shame the band doesn't show their face or list their members anywhere that I can find.  The songs are actually quality and not some GG Allin-esque Raperock nonsense.  (No offense to those who enjoy that sort of grotesque performance art).  It's a lot more polished & subtle, plus it actually sounds good to the ear. 




Album cover


Barada dropped a new track in May 2025 called "Piss Urinal Bitch"--a title I don't care much for due to the pre-existing association of piss kinks with the degradation of women ("piss slut", "pee whore," etc).  The song is more Techno/Dance inspired than the Wet album by a long stretch, and its lyrics come off as sort of silly, especially with the uptempo production. But it's got a nice beat.

Barada mainly uses AI art for their song and album covers, another check in the negative column for me.  There's a different group/artist that goes by the same name & has been putting out music since '94, and yet another person/group of the same name who put out an album way back in 1975.  Pretty sure those are 2 separate "Baradas" despite being lumped under the same Spotify band page.  So in total we've got 3 Baradas.  Will the real Barada please stand up?

I think this group or artist has potential based on their vocal quality, if only they'd stick to a sound that's more cohesive and not go for the low-hanging fruit with puns, misogyny & the like.  I'd also like to see or read more about the people behind the music.  Who's on bass?  Vocals?  Drums?  Or is it all AI-generated?  Is that even a thing?  

This mysterious band leaves me with more questions than answers.  It's understandable that any serious musician (or anybody else, really) wouldn't want their real name/face associated with lyrics like "Pull over/I gotta take a piss" sung in the most dead serious manner imaginable, but for my own curiosity I NEED to know who's writing and performing this material.  Do they do concerts or tour at all?  What are their live shows like?  Again, too many questions for this old piss blogger.  I do appreciate anyone who puts effort into normalizing and spreading the golden love of our fetish via vehicles other than just porn, so hats off to this band or solo artist (still not sure which).  

NOT the same Barada

The Pudendal Nerve: Secret Hot Button That Triggers Urination

Here's a topic I haven't seen discussed in wetting circles:  the "secret button" that triggers urination, at least in the female population based on the preponderance of women who claim it works.  I am among them.  The Pudendal nerve's influence on urinary urgency is a bit of a mystery, at least in this instance.  How does rubbing the top of your butt crack make you need to PEE? 

I learned about this nerve with the funny name when I saw a photo of a pissy-panted woman rubbing her ass crack (shown above) and it triggered my memories of doing exactly this when I was younger to encourage urination, usually while trying to "hurry up" & wet myself and avoid getting caught.  I'd rub the little area where the crack comes together at the top and viola!  I'd be wetting in no time.  

See?  I didn't dream this up!

Another internet person has discovered this trick!

"Official" nurse shares the trick.  

I guess the only real question is, how did my little ass learn about this when I was under 12 years old?  I have no memory of that, all I know is it works. There's a slight ticklish sensation that radiates deep within, and before you know it you're peeing. What happens in between is anyone's guess.

Rub where the red arrow points.

This super stealthy nerve plays a role in regulating urinary frequency and can cause incontinence or chronic pain (interstitial cystitis) when damaged.  It also plays a role in genital control and control of the perineum and anal sphincter.  But we're just focusing on that little bit at the top of the crack.  To stimulate urination, gently tickle, press or run your fingernails over the area--back and forth, up and down--experiment until you find the most sensitive spot.  Hell, use a feather or other super light, ticklish item to touch it.  You'll know when you hit it because your need to pee will increase.

This can come in handy when you're faced with medical pressure to pee (drug test, urodynamic testing, etc) or when you're trying to let go for recreational purposes.  Many folks report having a difficulty wetting their pants or diaper the first few times; this is a no-risk way of potentially overcoming that.  Just be gentle and wash your hands well afterward since you're playing around the backside.     

Had you heard of this "trick" before?  If so, does it work for you?

Q&A: How Can I Pee My Pants Without My Parents Knowing?

Ahh, one of the trickiest Omo questions of all time.  And one I know all too well.  Let me give you the bad news first:

The Bad News:  As long as you live at home... with your parents... under their roof, you will not be able to indulge with the same freedom and abandon as those of us with our own living spaces.  It's just that simple.  There will always be the chance they could walk in (or barge in with entitlement) on you in your most vulnerable moments, exposing your deepest darkest secret.  Or find your stash of wet clothes, diapers, etc while cleaning your room.  Or whatever.  Therefore you must take certain precautions if you want to enjoy this pastime in a discreet & dignified manner.  

The Good News:  With some careful planning and observation, you CAN enjoy pants wetting while living with your parents or any other roommate provided you're willing to consistently take the right precautions to protect your privacy.   

If stealth isn't an issue or you WANT to get caught , then skip this article.  It's written specifically for people with little privacy who can't afford to get busted.



Disclaimer

First things first, you must put your safety and best interests ahead of this fetish.  That means if you're likely to get kicked out and become homeless or incur violent attacks, damage to your reputation or other serious consequences if caught, you should abstain & wait until you're out of your current living situation.  In the meantime, work toward getting out of whatever Hell you're living in because you don't deserve to live with people who would do that to you regardless of the reason (let alone for the way you choose to express your sexuality which is a private matter).  Only you know whether your roommates are prone to wild temper tantrums/outbursts of anger and are likely to ruin your life over this.  Most of us would be mortified to be "found out" but that's not the same as being actively endangered by tyrannical parents, etc.

But if your parents or roommates are more laid back and you're prepared to handle any humiliation or awkwardness that comes your way in a worst-case scenario, it's probably safe to proceed cautiously.  Not necessarily good judgment, but safe nonetheless.  

ALWAYS think in terms of worst-case scenarios when engaging in this "hobby".  Ask yourself questions like:  "What if I'm caught?  What will I say I'm doing?  Why could my pants be wet other than peeing them for pleasure?"  That kind of thing.  Have a Plan A, B and Z lined up just in case.  We'll get into the logistics of it all in a minute but it's vital to consider where you could go in the event you get caught and it became too contentious at your house for a while.  I say this as someone who got in serious trouble and endured verbal abuse when I was caught as a teen.

Don't let this be you.

Timing

While the urge to wet your pants and engage in other forms of pee play can wax & wane at random times, you'll have to schedule your actual playtimes carefully while living with roommates and especially parents/family.  Pay attention to their schedules:  what days are they usually gone the most?  Do they ever go out of town for vacations, holidays, etc?  Check their calendar and try to plan so it matches up with your planned wettings as much as possible if you're going to wet in the house, that way you won't have to worry about them barging in on you which takes away all the fun even if they don't.  Make sure your phone notification sounds are on so they can call you if plans change & they decide to come home early, and encourage them to inform you of plan changes as much as possible, as they'd want you to do the same.  (However don't harp on this or you risk sounding suspicious).  

Always leave time after your fun for proper cleanup.  This includes things like doing laundry, mopping the floor, washing/hiding your pee mats, hiding diapers & clearing the search history on any shared devices.  Speaking of laundry, you should be doing your own whether you live alone or with your parents, as this will be an important life skill at some point AND it allows you much more privacy when it comes to pant-pissing.  Plus, the more you clean your own room, the less your mom will be making unnannounced swoops through it to clean it while you're not there.  If she still doesn't get the message, tell her (or your dad) that you have trouble finding your essential items after they clean your room & request permission to do it yourself. And then DO it.




Place

If your parents are like mine and NEVER FUCKING LEAVE THE HOUSE, that doesn't mean you can't have a little fun now and then.  You just have to get a bit creative with the setting.  In general, the bathroom (tub/shower, sink, toilet) are safe places to wet yourself as most bathrooms have locks on the door and you can pretend to be in there bathing or doing some other private hygiene task for a while without it seeming odd.  Just don't stay in there for 5 hours or go to the bathroom 100 times a day.  You can sneak your wet clothes out under a bath towel or smuggle them out with your dry stuff.

After everyone goes to bed for the night, you can hide under your covers and let loose if you have your own bed or bedroom.  A quality incontinence mat will allow you to piss the bed without ruining your mattress, though it'll need to be laundered ASAP the following day to prevent the smell from setting in.  The PharMeDoc is a great and affordable choice, and I've seen rave reviews about the PeaPod brand as well.  This is also where diapers can come in REAL handy.

Use the toilet like this, except open the lid

If you don't have your own bed or bedroom, you can sneak back to the bathroom and spurt into the tub or toilet again through your jammies.  Just be extremely quiet & make sure to light your way properly.  The last thing you need is to trip and break a bone in service of your fetish. 

Got a big backyard or some open farmland/acreage to play with?  This makes for the perfect semi-private pissing locale in the warm and cool months.  Just slap on some dark Spandex/polyester pants or a nice short flowy skirt over some cotton panties and leak to your heart's content.  You can pretend to be tending to a garden, taking pics for social media, birdwatching, kicking a hackey sack around.... just make sure you change out of your wet pants ASAP once you re-enter the house and hide them somewhere good until you can wash them.  AND DON'T FORGET TO WASH THEM!  (I made that mistake and hoo boy did I ever regret it.  It's how I was ultimately busted).

If you have a car or live near scenic outdoor locations, you may even be able to work wetting into some away-from-home outings if you plan ahead.  Bike-riding, hunting or fishing, hiking in the woods, concerts & festivals, trips to bodies of water like lakes/ponds/oceans/pools & many other outdoor activities can all be done with wet patches on your pants.  You just have to wear the right stealthy clothing.  If you have a habit of getting too desperate or enjoy having a spurt in your car, always carry an extra towel in the backseat.  That way if you wet your car seat it will be somewhat protected.  A giant trash bag serves the same purpose.  Keeping a pair of dry pants in your trunk is just good practice for anyone who engages in bladder holding or has legit accidents for any reason. 




Clothing

Nothing is more stealthy than black Spandex!

I did a whole in-depth review of clothing materials, colors & fits so you can see for yourself which ones hide urine spots the best.  Thankfully some of the cheapest materials work best for hiding pee accidents, and there are other things you can do to minimize the (obvious) damage, such as hydrating yourself properly with plain water & peeing on the move to avoid making one big puddle in one place.  TL;DR - if you choose the right material, you can hide your wetness even AS you're peeing. 




What NOT to DO

Peeing on carpet = bad idea

There are some places you should never, ever pee whether you live alone or with others (but especially with others).  Any large or immovable item that can't fit in the washing machine such as couch cushions, carpet, car seats or floorboards, recliners, mattresses or pillows that say DO NOT WASH should stay far away from your pee hole.  Letting pissy clothes ferment longer than 12-24 hours is extremely ill-advised as the smell is both strong and instantly recognizable.  You can't blame it on "the dog" or cover it up with some air freshener.  I recently did an article about clean-up so definitely check that out.  Some products like Febreze or Ona Pro Gel can help neutralize odors, but don't rely solely on them or you'll likely get busted.  Human urine is one of those scents that's detectable to most at very low concentrations.

Yes, I know all this detailed planning kills the spontaneity to a degree but that's the price you pay to live under someone else's roof.  It just makes having your own space all the more amazing when you finally get it.  Being able to wet myself any time in any room of my apartment has been hands down the best part of living solo.  There's truly nothing like doing chores as hot urine drips down your thigh or hanging your ass off the sofa and wetting your panties onto the hardwood floor with abandon.   🫠

So to answer the original question: the best way to wet your pants without your parents knowing is to move out of their house.  The 2nd best way is through careful planning in regards to timing, setting, clothing fabric & cleanup.  

Do not attempt without a quality mattress cover or incontinence mat under you!

Summary:

Have a believable explanation for your wet pants at all times.

Plan ahead, check schedules & clean up after yourself immediately if possible.

Do your own laundry & keep your room clean so parents have less reason to enter.

Invest in a washable incontinence mat or mattress protector.   

Always keep a dry pair of pants, wet wipes & a thick towel or two in the car if you drive.

Choose your clothing materials carefully if you'll be wetting around roommates/family.

Only pee on things that can be laundered; no carpet, mattresses, furniture or car seats/flooring.

It's better to take these precautions & not need them than the opposite.  The old adage "better safe than sorry" applies so hard with anything fetish-related.  Once the cat's out of the bag, you can't put it back in or go back to the way things were "before."  

Summer Pee Challenges ("Mild" Version)

So this idea was borrowed from an Omorashi.org thread but I've gone & created my own list of challenges for you eager wetters to try this scorching summer.  Here are the guidelines:



RULES

Give it a spin & begin!

Using a random number generator online such as this one, set the range from 1-40 & spin or hit "pick".  Let the generator choose your number, then check back here & see what you got.  If for some reason you can't do that one (or simply don't want to), spin again.  Mark the completed challenges off as you go or keep a log of this info somewhere. Do one challenge daily or as often as you can safely get away with it, then cross it off the list.  If a position, clothing item or location is not specified in the instructions below, choose your own.

This first set of challenges is intended for beginners, shy folks or those who don't know what their favorite way to pee themselves is just yet.  It'll definitely help you get some experience under your belt (literally) and hopefully can spark other creative wetting ideas!  It's mostly comprised of things you can do solo or without alerting anyone/getting caught.  However, it's still on you to be discreet & clean up after yourself.  💛

Bonus points:  Keep a journal of all the challenges you complete so you can look back on your sexy summer fun later & relive it.   Or you can photograph/video record it.  Either way, having documentation adds to the hotness & helps you remember how many challenges you've completed.  Challenge is over at midnight the first day of Fall.

Without further Ado, I present:

  Summer Wetting Challenge (Mild!)

1.  Take your 1st pee of the day in your pajamas.  If you sleep in the nude, put on your chosen bottoms & let loose in the room of your choosing.  Ahh, refreshing!  

2.  Sit on a hard surface & let go in your pants.  Wooden chairs, linoleum floors, a closed toilet lid or while seated on a bench or at a picnic table are some possible options.  Sit still & see how long it takes to fill your seat & flow over the edge (if applicable).

3.  Using this random verb generator, plan a wetting around the first relevant verb that comes up.

4.  Tank up & hold on until you're desperate and then empty your entire bladder at all once in your clothes, accident style.  Can be alone or with an audience.  Position:  Standing with knees slightly bent.

5.  Spurt or leak gradually next time you need to wee.  See how many times you can spurt without losing control after breaking the seal.  Try it without holding yourself so you get a good read on how far you can go in public in the event of an emergency.  

6.  Put on a comfy pair of summer shorts & pee them.  Try to make it a true "casual wetting" by going slow & not masturbating until you're done.  

7.  Wet yourself in water.  Can be in the shower or bath if you're not up for outdoors, but swimming pools of all kinds, water parks, ponds, lakes, hot tubs, splash pads, sprinklers & oceans also count.

8.  Try rapid desperation alone or with a friend.  Follow all safety precautions & stop immediately if you begin to feel ill.  

9.  Wet in a leisurely setting indoors:  Playing video games, lying in bed, reading a book, doing a crossword puzzle or watching TV are good options.  (This is where having access to diapers or an incontinence mat comes in real handy!)

10.  FREE SPACE!  Wetter's choice of clothing.  Bonus points if you've never wet in those particular clothes before.  Position:  reclining or lying down.  Setting:  Anywhere.  

11.  Piss yourself fully, emptying your bladder wherever you like.  Stay in your pissy pants until you've gotta go again, then re-wet them. 
  

12.  Choose an "Omo drawer" or closet corner & move your wetting clothes there.  If you pee in ALL your clothes, fill it with just your fave summer options.  Bonus if you get wet WHILE you're moving clothes. 🩳 

13.  Wet on the move:  while riding a bike, jogging, mowing the lawn, driving, skating, trail running, exercising indoors or doing another mobile activity.  Can wear stealthy bottoms if you don't wanna get caught.  Once you've successfully wet in these somewhat challenging conditions, others will become easier too.

14.  Get absolutely desperate and then, when you can't stand it anymore, go in the bathroom & let the real torture begin.  Set a timer for 5 minutes and then turn the sink or bathtub faucet on at a low drizzle.  While listening to the sound of the water dripping, spread your legs & stand facing the toilet.  No crotch-holding!  At 3 minutes, do 10 jumping jacks & flush the toilet once.  No leaking!  At 1 minute, squat down as low as you can possibly go & hold it for a few seconds. 
 If you make it til the buzzer without leaking or grabbing your crotch, you can choose how and where you wet... you've earned it.  If you do leak, just finish pissing where you leaked.  Only hard rule:  Must pee through your pants if you go in the toilet.   

15.  NO WIPE DAY!  Drip dry or just pull your pants up and go, letting the drips happen in your undies.  If you already do this (as many men do), try pissing just your underwear then wringing them out and putting them back on under your clothing to wear a while in secret.  Don't try this in public until you've tested at home to see whether your bottoms get visibly wet.

16.  Put something absorbent in your undies every time you wet yourself:  a menstrual pad, a rolled up wash cloth, a paper towel.  Pee only until you think it's fully soaked but stop before you get any on your underwear (hard).  Then finish where & how you like.  You may find yourself in a situation where you have to do this some day, so think of it as an experiment to test the absorbency of said item

17.  Leak gradually, spurt by spurt all day as you go on about your daily routine. Pants can be changed as many times as you like & any setting is fine, but try not to get super desperate or flood yourself all at once.  The goal is casual and somewhat discreet wetting.

18.  Piss into containers all day.  A cup, shoebox, trashcan, paper bowl, storage container, measuring cup or anything that'll hold your yellow gold.  Nude or clothed, your choice.

19.  Use your urine as fertilizer.  Just make sure to dilute it first.  If you don't have any plants, just use it on the grass or some wildflowers.  Don't store longer than a couple days (less in hot conditions) as it does go bad.  

20.  Piss yourself in front of a full-length mirror at home or somewhere you feel comfy.  Bonus if you take pics!  (If you don't have access to a full-length mirror, make a wetting video instead and then watch it back afterward).

21.  Starting on your stomach, empty half your bladder into your pants and then roll over onto your side & let the rest go in Oyster/Clamshell position.  Try to make it casual rather than super-desperate and try to pee while doing something 'normal' like reading or scrolling through your phone.

22.  Get desperate & then wet yourself in the squatting position.  Try to make as big a puddle as possible (bonus for audible hissing sounds).  

23.  Pee long pants or shorts while standing with your legs crossed.  Try to keep the puddle as SMALL & quiet as possible.

24.  Wet in a leisurely (dry) place outdoors.  Sitting on the porch swing, lounging in a lawn chair, relaxing by the edge of a pool, chilling at a picnic table, walking thru the woods.  Perhaps after dark at a 4th of July or Labor Day event in the backyard or by water.  Your choice.

25.  Make a playlist of Omo porn vids you haven't seen yet, or re-watch your faves as you leak on yourself.  Check out VK.com, XVideos, Peefans.com, Omorashi.org, Redgifs, Pisshamster, Motherless & Thisvid if you need new ideas.

26.  Pee while using a sex toy of your choosing.  If you don't have one, just go on your fingers/hand while playing.  Try to have a peegasm or hold it until you're done masturbating.   

27.  FREE SPACE!  Wetter's choice of position.  Clothing:  Something light & summery.  Location: at home or another safe place.  Try an adventurous or new position you've never done before.  Get creative.

28.  Standing at your closet or dresser drawer, close your eyes & pull out clothes until you get a pair of bottoms.  First pair you pull are your wetting pants for the day & you must pee in them a minimum of twice. 

29.  Fill your lap with piss while sitting, like the women in these pics.  

30.  Wet yourself outdoors on dry land.  Do it on a nature walk, while doing yardwork, mowing the lawn, sunning yourself by the pool or tilling the garden.  Or walk somewhere & do it on your way home.  Bonus points if you have an audience even of 1 extra person.

31.  While lying or reclining somewhere comfy, piss just your underwear and pull them tight to your skin like this:

32.  Sit on an elevated surface & scoot your butt forward, pissing off the edge of it.  Something like a hard chair, the curb, the bath tub, your bed or a cabinet works great.  
  Can wear pants or not but no touching your genitals while peeing.  Let the piss fall where it may.

33.  Enhance desperation & pee volume with (1) mild natural diuretic.  Examples:  lemonade with real lemon juice; a few watermelon slices, dandelion or hibiscus tea.  Most of these are weaker diuretics than caffeine or alcohol, which you may also use in moderation.  Some people find that different forms of these substances, such as soda vs. coffee, produce more marked deperation.  Count how many times you wet in the next 5 hours & see if your desperation is increased.  Don't forget to alternate with plain water or a sports drink like Body Armor or Gatorade for hydration, especially if you're active & it's hot out.  (Just be moderate & listen to your body.  Skip this one if you have heart or kidney disease).

34.  Put on some stealthy bottoms, tank up & go run some errands outside the house.  See if you can make it home dry.  Hard mode:  do rapid desperation before striking out.  

35.  Flip a coin: heads = hold + desperate wetting all at once; tails = casual slow spurting every time you get the urge.  Any clothes or location is fine.

36.  Wet yourself while desperate & exercising.  Can be aerobics, weightliting or yoga; in public or private.  

37.  FREE SPACE!  Wetter's choice of setting.  Pee your pants somewhere new or adventurous that you haven't tried before.  Just be mindful of things like time of day, temperature, etc if venturing away from home.

38.  Find an excuse to put on a swimsuit and wet it at least once.   Can be indoors or out.  

39.  Pee yourself desperately then take a shower/bath in your wet undies.  If you can hold a little back for the shower or bath, bonus.

40.   Straddle a pillow, folded towel or other soft absorbent object & wet yourself into it.  Try to save up enough pee to completely soak it all over.

As stated, this is the "mild" version.  Stay tuned for the daring & extremely naughty "wild" list coming soon!

Incontinent and Proud?

By Elisa Utili  💛

...or if not proud, just unashamed?

Anyone out there suffer with (or, I guess in this instance, make the best of) urinary incontinence of any kind and just simply not care whether you're caught in public with wet pants at times?  Maybe you wear protection some of the time but just can't be bothered, can't afford it or simply don't want to wear it ALL the time, so you have days, weeks or months where you just let the chips fall where they may in terms of accidents.  Perhaps on off-days you even fully wet yourself at times because you're so damn sick of the constant conscious holding?

Incontinence includes everything from mild OAB to full-on loss of bladder control.  Any type counts:  stress, urge, overflow, functional, mixed & reflex (caused by spinal cord injury). I know people can arrive at these diagnoses via a variety of routes ranging from athletic stress, pregnancy/childbirth & menopause to prostate enlargement in men, and it's not always known what caused the condition.  All of these must be extremely stressful in any case.  "The Big I" (incontinence) happens to so many of us eventually that it would be great to hear from some actual incontinence patients who didn't inflict it on themselves via a diaper fetish or enjoy it to begin with.  

Some other questions I have for the "incontinent & proud" demographic:

What tools/strategies do you use to manage hygiene on the go or clean up "oopsie" pee accidents in public?

Are you more or less open about wetting yourself now than when you were first diagnosed?

If there was a change in your attitude over time regarding this, what do you think was the main cause?  

Do you frequent any of the incontinence support forums online?  

How do the people closest to you react when you have a wetting accident?  How would you prefer for people to react?

Do you feel like you were constantly fighting (physically & mentally) to hold your pee before, so you just "gave up" a little at some point?  Maybe equally for your convenience and your sanity? 

Do you ever dehydrate yourself or withhold fluids while out to help minimize accident potential?  Why or why not?   

What treatments have you tried for your particular type of incontinence?  Did any of them provide even modest improvement?

Do you feel that holding your bladder for prolonged periods on a frequent basis contributed to your current incontinence problems?  (I.e. waiting too long to pee).

If you could go back and do things over, would you have done anything differently in the course of your life in the name of hopefully changing the course of your condition?  (I.e. wearing diapers to work occasionally so you didn't hold your pee as much, holding longer between bathroom breaks to strengthen a weak bladder, drinking less alcohol, etc).  Or was your incontinence caused by something completely unexpected/unknown so none of that would've mattered?

Lastly, what advice would you give to anyone of any age or sex who's currently struggling with urinary incontinence?  

Serious answers only please.  Please include your age, how long you've had incontinence & the type (stress, urge, etc) for best results.  Your identity can & will remain anonymous.  Just copy/paste the questions and answer them in the comments below.  I and other women (and men!) would love to hear from you.  This super-common condition could happen to any of us someday, and is statistically likely to for many.  Maybe sooner than we think!     

(Personally, I have the urge to pee more often than is normal but I also have the ability to hold it longer than most if necessary, so I've never had an accident.  Certain foods/drinks really irritate my bladder as well (anything carbonated, acidic, caffeine, etc) & I get UTI's pretty easily, so I'd guess I probably have SOME kind of bladder/urinary condition though I haven't had it diagnosed formally.  But I know what it's like to need to pee often/urgently & have to alter your life based on bathroom availability & it does suck).

Bonus:  Cool page on celebrities with incontinence who are embracing it!    ✊🏽 ✊🏼 ✊🏿 ✊🏻

Salient point from Active Mum

Reality Checkpoint

 - Debating whether it's worth disclosing your diaper kink to your parents so you won't have to pay for them or hide it anymore?  😬

- Considering acting on that "Step"-Mom/Son dynamic you just KNOW is boiling beneath the surface in your house?   😬 😬

- Honest to God believe that women--straight, gay or otherwise--enjoy smearing shit on their faces or sticking their fingers down their throats on camera to induce vomiting for your pleasure?  ...That young virgins WANT to be strangled while making out with boys for the first time?  ...That gorgeous, educated young ladies enjoy being called cunts, whores, sluts and other sexed slurs?   😠 😡 🤬


If  you answered "yes" to any of the above, it's time to turn off the porn, go touch grass & spend some time in meatspace for a while.  Pornography is not reality, it's not a reflection of what women really want (or even what MEN really want sans the constant repetitive influence of free on demand porn that most boys view for the first time around age 7-8 and become regular consumers of by age 11).  It's meant to peddle an increasingly violent, degrading fantasy in which human bodies--especially female--are defaced, dehumanized & separated into pieces via objectification the way a serial killer chops up his victims.  Women are treated as not whole human beings but a series of holes to fuck. 

And unfortunately it does have a desensitizing effect like a drug, requiring increasingly extreme stimuli to produce the same effect over time.  So take a break every now and then, force yourself to have a porn and fetish holiday in which you do other things with your time for a given period, whether it's for a week 4 times a year (once every season), a couple days a month 12 times a year or even trying a 6 months on, 6 months off cycle. 

Whatever you do, make sure to replace the sex stuff with other engaging hobbies so you're not twiddling your... uhh, THUMBS and tempted to relapse ahead of your set date.  Too much of anything is not good for us and that def applies here.  (I know this might sound bizarre bordering on hypocritical coming from a piss kink blogger, but 1.) I'm more than that and, 2.) I've seen the dark(est) side of the porn industry up close and, while I watch porn online myself quite often, I have no illusions about its harms & will always do my part to expose the network of thinly-veiled "producers," "production companies" and lazy boyfriends who serve as little more than pimps and traffickers while bright women with promising futures are shat on for their amusement.  Literally and figuratively.  

Quickie Porn Review: No Time To Stop Cooking for a Piss

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