Friday, January 17, 2025

Quickie Porn Review: 2 Friends Try Diapers

 


Nice fit!



Waiting for the flood...



Check out Blondie's not-so-sneaky pussy touch




Final thoughts


This vid is hot for its nonchalant nature.  Two friends casually try on clothes and diapers, testing to see whether the diapers show through the clothes.  Presumably they're doing this to see if they could wear the diapers clubbing or on other drunken outings.  While this is not a typical "porn" video--these appear to be real life friends testing these diapers for real & there's no sexual contact--there are moments of real sexual arousal & nudity.  At the end they both wet the diapers to see if they leak.  You can tell the blonde girl enjoys the feeling of her wet diaper by the way she rubs it into her pussy shortly after peeing it, biting her lip all the while.  Relatable for anyone who's ever wet a diaper.  She makes sure to show the camera a close-up shot of the wrecked diaper full of pee at the end, stating that it's "yellow". 

Meanwhile her thicker friend spreads her legs on the floor and lets us all know when she's peeing & states that these could be "game-changers" for when they go out drinking.  After feeling around to make sure there are no leaks, the girls remove the diapers & get naked in front of the camera & giving us their final verdict.  I definitely see more wet diapers in their futures.  🔮
  
What starts off as a silly, cutesy vid ends with two friends possibly becoming fans of wearing diapers publicly.  The thought is quite hot indeed.  This just backs up my theory that more women need to try wetting because most would definitely like it.

Tuesday, January 14, 2025

First Public Spurting






Picture it:  It's 3:00 a.m. and the winter wind outside is screaming.  A girl stumbles into her apartment complex with two armfuls of bags & makes a beeline to the elevator.  Her stomach and bladder are full, she's exhausted from the holiday festivities & wants nothing more than to be alone in her private playground.  The lobby and halls are desolate--not a creature is stirring, not even a mouse.  As soon as the elevator doors close, Girl decides to fulfill a New Year's resolution and dribble a little in her black pants--her first public wetting ever.  It feels great so she lets a little more go.  Why not?  This is the perfect opportunity:  stealthy pants, late night, empty abode.  The button "dings" and she steps off the elevator, practically trotting to her room in the eerie late night/early morning glow of her old apartment building to blog about her experience with piss dripping down her legs.

That girl is me, and I'm typing this with a wet crotch, thighs & left calf.  As stated, this was my first time attempting to piss myself publicly to any degree outside of an aquatic setting and I just thought I'd share it with someone(s).  Bucket list item:  ✅'ed off my list.  2025 is off to a good start!  

Sunday, January 12, 2025

Assurance Women's Overnight Underwear Review





Just bought my 1st pack of diapers.  In the past I've only reviewed a free sample here or there, but after a recommendation from an online friend I decided to pick these up from Walmart (well, Walmart shipping).  Sixteen diapers for $9.99 was too good to pass up so I pulled the trigger.  Unfortunately delivery was delayed 1 day for weather, another day due to the driver getting lost & finally delivered on a Sunday... to the wrong apartment.  Luckily I have honest neighbors & the package was discreet with no clue as to what was inside.  How embarrassing that would've been.  I was not impressed with Walmart/FedEx's service.

But on to the product review:  I promptly put one on as soon as they were delivered and released my "morning" pee (it wasn't morning but I'd just slept a long time) in them.  Ahh, so warm & lovely.  Not a single leak, and the wetness eventually wicked away from my naughty bits so it felt dry again.  (I'm not used to just emptying my bladder all at once so this was luxurious.  I usually spurt bit by bit but wanted to test the strength of these bad boys).  I did some house chores while wearing the diaper before eventually having to pee again--I waited a while until my bladder was actually full so I could get a good read on how much they'd really hold. 



Dry fit before any wetting



After the 2nd wetting it's still dry on the outside--no leaks--though it's getting a tad heavy in the crotch.  I squatted for the first pee and stood for the 2nd to get a sense of how well they fit.  Third pee took place in bed lying on my back to fully soak it from all angles.  Wow, that was a big one.  Still no leaks!  4th piss happened in the kitchen standing up:  still dry!  (After pulling them down to take a photo, however, I started to feel the first hints of a leak around the sides/edges).  Yeah... after that 4th piss my shorts are starting to feel damp.  But it held SOOO much wee and is utterly soaked/heavy when I take it off.  I released a 5th half-bladder standing up and still no major leaks, though I wouldn't recommend peeing in them this much in public.

The fit is perfect and the sizing chart was easy to understand, none of that waist/hip-measuring crap.  It's just based on height and weight.  They feel pretty similar to a really thick Maxi pad (which mine usually are due to heavy periods) & are quite comfortable.  So far these are my favorite brand & type I've tried, and they're very affordable.  It could only be better if they were available for delivery from my local Walmart, as I was not pleased with their shipping service.  




Inside after 4 huge pees



These get a 4.5 of 5 stars from me.  Affordable, great fit, can be used multiple times without worry about leaks, easy sizing chart.  The only drawback was the shipping but that's a local/"me" issue that can easily be bypassed by simply buying them in person or having them delivered if possible.  The very fact that we're able to buy products like this so discreetly is amazing to me.  These would be great for sleeping overnight or use during low-activity days like road trips, sitting at the office or around-the-house wear.  They're extremely absorbant and comfy, they just get a tad wide/heavy in the crotch after 3-4 wettings.  I plan to sleep in them so I can comfortably relieve myself without getting up in the night and just for general "fun" to cut down on laundry loads.  They make no noise when you walk and don't start to smell of urine until the 3-4th pee, though I'm sure that varies with how much water you drink.  








Pros & Cons of Wearing Adult Diapers





So I see variations of this question a lot:  What are the benefits of wearing diapers as an adult?  Is it better to wet yourself or hold your bladder for a long time?  Unequivocally, the answer is that it's better for your health to GO when you need to go, which may mean wetting or using a diaper.  Why this isn't the obvious socially acceptable answer is beyond me.  Here are my reasons why wearing a diaper is beneficial:


PROS:

1.)  Public bathrooms are horribly lacking in the U.S.  NYC has 4 public restrooms for every 100,000 people, and it's not much better elsewhere.  A trip downtown or afternoon of sightseeing with friends can turn into a bathroom scavenger hunt, and if you have overactive bladder or another urinary condition this can be a true nightmare. The result is that many otherwise able-bodied people simply isolate & stay home or dehydrate themselves/hold their urine while out to avoid having to find a restroom, all of which are unhealthy.   

2.)  It's illegal to expose yourself to urinate in public in all 50 states.  Some of these laws are harsh & place a person on the sex offender registry.  In fact, 13 states at the time of this writing have these "sex offender pee" laws on the books.  The S/O registry does not distinguish a "public urination offender" from a pedophilic rapist btw.  You're all on the same list.  Consider this before whipping it out or dropping trou to answer nature's call.

3.)  Holding your pee is BAD for your health.  In a best case scenario, it can increase your risk of incontinence with age--worst case is a burst bladder, kidney stone/infection, well, just see for yourself:




Some of the health risks of urinary retention ("holding").



4.)  Going to the toilet is disruptive and a waste of time.  Yeah, this might sound trivial on the surface but ask someone who gets up to pee multiple times per night & is a light sleeper how much it affects their quality of life.  Just think of all the times your bladder forced you to interrupt a deep conversation or break your focus on something important or enjoyable.  Now lay all your bathroom time end to end from the time of potty training to now.  It's likely DAYS of your life wasted on or standing in front of the toilet/urinal.  Now add up the time it took to travel to or FIND a bathroom and we're talking weeks of your life flushed literally down the crapper.   🚽🌀 

5.)  Public bathrooms can be dirty or even dangerous.  This goes double for women & kids, especially while traveling & using restrooms in unfamiliar areas.  You never REALLY know who or what is lurking in a public restroom, from hidden cameras to peep holes to all manner of icky germs.  




A few of the crimes that may occur in public bathrooms.



6.)  Adult diapers have come a long way in recent years.  While there used to be a very limited number of options in adult protection (Depends, Attends), now there is an endless variety ranging from adult diapers for the truly incontinent (Tranquility, Tena, Always) to blatant ABDL products (Rearz, Crinklz, Bambino).  They range in protection level from dribble pads & pee panties to full-on "mega max" tab diapers, with pull-up style underwear in the middle range.  You don't have to use them 24/7 & can reserve them for overnights, road trips, long flights, special occasions or some other purpose.  And the number of fun designs is endless.  




So comfy & convenient!  No mess!


7.)  If you have incontinence of any kind, wearing a diaper gives you peace of mind that your clothes, furniture & other belongings will be protected in the event of an accident.  While a diaper can certainly be concealed by clothing, large wetting accidents often can't.  In this way they can spare you the embarrassment & stress of having to deal with the possibility of leaking pee in your clothes.  (Even people without incontinence have at times wet themselves due to jobs or school situations that don't allow bathroom breaks).

8.)  Peeing in a diaper just feels GOOD.  It's warm, wet & the diaper holds that warm wetness in for a long time compared to regular bottoms.  Once you start using diapers you'll likely feel like pissing in the toilet is a waste, both of time and urine.  In my not-so-humble-opinion, this is the way we were meant to pee:  whenever, wherever & however the urge strikes us.  Without a 2nd thought.  It's how we breathe, eat, drink & even blow our nose.  Why must urination be such a big to-do?

9.)  Nobody has to know you're wearing a diaper or pull-up.  Think about how often you find yourself looking at a person's pants or skirt to "check" for a diaper--almost never, right?  Likewise, nobody's gonna be thinking about what's under your clothes unless you choose to disclose it.  


CONS:

Perhaps the only downsides of diapers are the cost & the accessibility.  If you don't live on your own and have your own income source, you won't be able to buy them without help.  They can be kinda noisy when being changed in public bathrooms or other places where people might hear, but I suspect you get over that with time.  (In women's restrooms, babies and feminine hygiene products are routinely changed so nobody has to know you're changing YOUR diaper... or that it's even a diaper).  The bottom line is that these products are made for a reason & it shouldn't be shameful to use them for it provided you keep yourself clean/smelling good and don't involve unwitting people in your fetish.  (Assuming it is a fetish & not a necessity).

Also, it goes without saying but adult diapers are not socially accepted by the majority of people, which technically makes them "abnormal".  Wearing them when you're not fully incontinent is generally considered a kink/fetish and, while there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, you should be aware that you'll likely face social, personal or even professional consequences if caught.  This depends on how open-minded your circle is, of course, but it's something to be prepared for.

A little time spent playing dress-up in front of the mirror to see what clothes best conceal your diapers, what brand and size fit you best & how much golden nectar your chosen design can hold will solve a lot of these problems.   💛

Friday, January 10, 2025

Just Ordered my 1st PACK of Diapers!

So a lot has happened lately and I'm sick of doing laundry yet extremely, almost superhumanly horny.  What to do?  After getting a recommendation for a cheap/generic diaper from a friend on X, I decided to bite the bullet and purchase the smallest pack of 16 to see if they can help me wet myself in small spurts throughout the day/night while cutting back on laundry.  The package says they're max absorbency so we shall see.  Like this time last year when I reviewed my piss mat, the weather is threatening ice/sleet/snow so I'd love to be trapped in my apt with these bad boys between my legs.   





Updates forthcoming.  

Thursday, January 9, 2025

Stop Moralizing Urine





Morals and ethics have a vital place in the fetish/kink world.  Clear communication, respecting boundaries, insisting on enthusiastic consent... these things are an absolute non-negotiable requirement & come before anyone's pleasure.  But that's not what this article is about.  

In my reading/research for this blog, I come across so many frantic pee-related articles 'shoulding' on people, exaggerating the health or environmental risks of pee/wetting for reasons that are obviously personal & have nothing to do with actual risk.  I find this offensive, especially when the tripe is coming from otherwise credible sources like medical experts or media organizations like the BBC.  Here are just a few examples I've come across recently:


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Why?  And just how do you propose we enforce that, BBC?




All the ways you shouldn't pee. Because reasons. Note their furrowed brows & looks of panic.




Another Reddit community banned for bogus reasons.

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Scaring people about their pee color is not helpful, Mr. Dr. Man.  Health anxiety sucks.




You get the point.  While there may be grains of truth in some of these articles or videos, it's the overblown concern & heavy handed anti-pee actions like online bans & IRL legal action that are offensive and harmful.  Yeah, you shouldn't make it a point to always drink so much water that your pee is crystal clear, but if it happens occasionally it's not a huge deal.  Source:  my pee is almost always clear at my urine tests & the results are always great.  No infection, electrolyte imbalance or other concerns, and I've never had a seizure or died.  Ideally your urine should be a light yellow ("straw-colored") but you really shouldn't obsess or stress over it either. 

And the 'don't wee in the sea' ordinance is beyond ridiculous considering all the poison humans have dumped there in our short time on this planet--the plastics and pollution making large fish inedible due to mercury content.  Then there's the catastrophic effects of climate change on our waterways & oceans, causing mass bleaching and die-off of the Great Barrier Reef.  Never mind the stupid piss law is literally un-enforceable unless someone whips it out in a drunken stupor, which nobody does when they pee in the sea.  No, let's focus on controlling the every move of The People, quibbling over a few drops of watered down human waste in a literal sea of salt, brine, boiling H2O, animal waste, poisonous pollution & God knows what else.

All this moralizing & handwringing about urine habits tells me one thing:  we've still got a long way to go in the destigmatization department.  When our experts can't even discuss the subject without either cracking a smile, making 50 immature pee jokes or freaking out about things like pissing in the shower, which probably 90% of the people I've ever known, male or female, have openly admitted to doing with no ill effects, that's a sign that pee isn't the problem--their prudish attitudes are.  In fact men might piss in the shower slightly more often than women, yet we're the ones with insane rates of incontinence (75% of women over 65 are incontinent to some degree compared to only 8.3% of men in that age group).  Clearly something else is to blame, but what oh WHAT could it be? 

We'll get to that in a minute, but first take a look at Exhibit C...  Or D.  Or whatever we're on now:




5,000 gallons of water is no drop in the bucket, lady.


The language used in this article--"destroys your pelvic floor," "not very hygienic"--is fear-based propaganda, not scientifically sound unemotional information.  Just say you have a pee phobia and move on.  Urine is no less "hygienic" than tears or saliva, which I assume you've released on yourself in the bath or shower at some point while crying about your asshole boyfriend or evil boss.  As long as you don't consume urine orally or get it in open wounds or your eyes, there's no risk to health.  None, nada, zilch.  No disease transmission risk, no destruction of your body or bath tub when it touches either of those surfaces.  Not even a smell is left behind when peeing in the shower because it goes right down the drain and is washed off your body immediately by the running water and any soap/body wash you may use.  Hell, pissing in the shower is probably MORE hygienic than using a toilet that countless other asses have sat on and then pushing waste around on yourself with toilet paper.  

But I digress.

You wanna know what actually "destroys" your pelvic floor?  Pregnancy & childbirth.  Botched episiotomies and abdominal surgeries.  Terrible posture & constant sitting/sedentary lifestyles.  Obesity. Menopause takes it's toll as well.  Holding your urine is probably not great for it over time, nor is severe constipation.  But taking a leak in the shower is the absolute least of anyone's worries.  They're making a weird assumption that shower-pissers are forcing themselves to pee there when they don't really need to go which is NOT the case, at least not for me.  (I tend to shower a few hours after waking up and will often wait to do my 1st pee of the day in the shower.  I never push my urine out or force myself to go "just because"). 

And the running water association is weak at best.  Everybody with continence issues has different triggers--should people with urge incontinence just not unlock their front doors because it makes them lose control?  Swear off toilets because the sight of them makes them start peeing?  As a lifelong shower/pool pee'er (yes, I piss in the pool and every other source of water when in a bathing suit--cope), I've never had problems holding it around the sound of water even when desperate.  In fact I've never had a single wetting accident IN MY LIFE for any reason.  I know this is all anecdotal but dammit, I'm tired of my lived experience not counting for shit while the emotionally-charged opinions of random people in scrubs are used to bully & scare people.

Nobody's forcing YOU to piss in the shower, the sea or anywhere else for that matter.  But that courtesy should be extended back to others who may prefer to do their business there.  If you want to direct that energy somewhere useful, try focusing on shower shitters, who comprise approximately 1 in 30 people... and that's just the ones willing to fess up to it.  Feces are full of dangerous bacteria, transmit viruses like norovirus, rotavirus & Hepatitis and--unlike urine--do NOT wash off the body and grout between tiles so thoroughly.  (To say nothing of the repugnant smell).  🤮

Sorry for the tangent.  There's just so much bias here I can hardly contain myself, and not in the usual fun way.  😋  I will say the pelvic floor therapist's advice not to "shove things" up your vajayjay to treat infections was sound--UTI cannot be treated at home and will progress to the kidneys if "home remedies" are used.  You must take the full course of antibiotics prescribed by a doctor to ensure the infection is gone & doesn't develop resistance. 

However there's a lot you can do to prevent UTI's from ever taking hold in the first place, even if you're a chronic sufferer like I am/once was.  Check out my upcoming article about this topic for more because it's another "pee thing" I'm passionate about.  In any case, I don't claim to be a professional but it's clear to anyone with eyes that even the professionals are not immune to personal bias when it comes to "icky" things like pissing in the shower or other things involving bodily wastes.  See:  Every "peegasm" article ever written and posted to the WWW.

🧘🏽‍♀
NAMASTAYHEREANDPEE

Monday, January 6, 2025

They Peed Their Pants in Public.... and AREN'T Ashamed!





Just a quick article on the current state of shame in the general non-Omo community where wetting is concerned.  It's always encouraging (okay, and hot) to see stories, discussions or videos in which people report public incidents where they peed themselves and just went about their day, unashamed.  That's the ultimate goal of this blog, remember?  To kill stigma and normalize pants wetting.  Not in a way that exposes unwilling participants to a fetish or destroys property, but by taking the shame out of a common everyday occurrence, making it just another inconvenient thing that happens... sort of like stepping in dog doo or getting a rumbly tummy in a quiet room due to hunger pangs when lunch is still an hour away.   🍱  🕴

Without further Ado, here are a few stories from around the 'web in which people publicly pissed their pants and just kept their heads up.  A few even propose normalizing pants wetting in public.  We salute you!   🙇🏻‍♀  🫡




Keep normalizing and one day this will be "the norm".  🫠






Sober woman wets herself at front desk with a smile!


Woman wears leather to convenience-wet in public


Fishermen discuss whether it's OK to pee your pants while fishing (answer: yes)


Seattle mom wets self due to lack of bathrooms; is not ashamed.


Blogger pees pants on plane; turns it into a testimony.


Incomplete paraplegic wets on 1st date; no shame - accidents happen!


Confident woman pees herself at trampoline park & laughs it off.


Music fan chooses wet pants over missing fave band (Tycho).


Man makes a case for why he should be able to piss in movie theater seat.


10 reasons this diver says you should PROUDLY piddle your wetsuit!


Desperate zoo trip leaves one mom pissing in a bottle while driving.



As you can see, there are a variety of stories and motives behind the pant-pissing and lack of shame here, with some of the authors deliberately wetting in public and others simply not caring about their accidents after the fact, making the best of a less-than-optimal situation.  Either way, we're definitely glad to see the progressive attitudes toward this 100% normal human bodily function.  There are no shortage of things to feel bad about in life--a little pee (or even a lot of pee) is not among them. 💦

I'll leave you with a few more examples from around the 'net:   



Enjoyed Tena pants so much she converted a friend! 



It's true:  shame should be reserved for deliberate evil acts.


Another incontinence patient unashamed to be wet in public.




Ever had a genuine wetting accident in public?  How did you handle it?  How did the people around you react?  






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