Q&A: How Do I Get My Parents to Buy Me Diapers?

Okay, I am loathe to answer questions by 🔞 but I see this one posted to Quora too often to ignore.  It's quite disturbing how common it is actually.  

QUESTION:

ANSWER:  You DON'T.  Not a very popular answer I'm sure, but the only ethical/rational one.  Here's why:

It's not your parents' place to finance your fetish, nor should they even be aware of it if you can help it.  You cannot expect your parents to pay for something like this.  Aside from the fact that diapers are expensive, it breaks a natural and important boundary that exists between parents and their offspring for a reason. 

I get that relationships between parents and kids vary in their closeness, but if you're at the point where you don't care if your parents know about something like this, you've gone too far into "Fetish/Porn World" & need to come back to reality.  That is to say, you're living in a fantasyland where stuff like this is normal.  It's not normal, which is why it's considered a paraphilia.  That doesn't mean there's anything morally or medically wrong with it, but it also isn't something you should be okay sharing with everybody & their gardener.  Some things are meant to be kept private or shared only with an intimate sexual partner & this is one of them.  (And you should approach it with caution even then).  In fact, your loved ones have a right NOT to know shit like this--exposing them to this info against their will is akin to intellectual/cognitive assault.  The very idea of your parents knowing you wear diapers or pee/poop yourself for pleasure should make you cringe so hard with embarrassment you'd do anything to keep them from finding out.

The idea that shame is always a negative or unacceptable emotion is very recent & highly debatable.  While it serves no purpose & can be harmful if an action is not a choice--say, bedwetting as a medical condition--a little shame about acts that aren't socially acceptable that you've chosen to do can potentially spare you even bigger humiliation, loss or exclusion down the line by discouraging continuation or escalation of said behaviors.  Feeling shame also shows that you have a good sense of empathy & other reciprocal emotions--a sign that your conscience is working and you're not psychopathic or focused only on your pleasure.

For those who argue that "diapers/wetting are harmless!  At least it's not drugs"  That's irrelevant to the fact that it should remain a private pastime.  As should anything sexual where your parents are concerned.  If you disagree then you're getting into exhibitionist/incest territory which has nothing to do with a pee/diaper fetish.  I promise they don't want to know about or be involved in your personal kinks, and they have every right not to be... especially while you're living under their roof.  Yes, parents should discuss safer sex with their kids--but taking them to the sex shoppes and buying them sex toys or, in this case, diapers (shudders) is several bridges too far.  Are there parents who do it?  Yes, I'm sure there are, but that doesn't change the fact that it's a boundary violation and wrong.

Which brings me to my next point:  Disclosing this puts you at risk of being lectured, shamed, punished or even expelled from the home depending on how strict your parents are.  Some parents take their AB/DL loved one straight to a doctor or therapist to figure out what's "wrong" with them when they find out; others expose the secret to friends, family or religious leaders while seeking advice.  Is that a price you're willing to risk paying just to maybe get your parents to buy you some Depends?  Think hard about this one because there's no taking it back once you've said it.  

TLDR:  If you don't have an allowance, after school job or other source of income, you'll have to wait until you're independent and out on your own to wear diapers for pleasure.  Sucks but them's the breaks.  There are adult diaper companies that send out free samples in the mail, but you run the risk of having them seized by the homeowner if your parents open your mail. 

Part of what makes fetishes/paraphilias so attractive is that they're taboo & we have to be discreet about our participation in them.  While you wait to to get your own place and/or income, you can plan all the details:  the naughty places you'll wet yourself, the diaper brands you want to try.  Then when the day actually comes, it'll be that much more exciting.  (Speaking from personal experience on this one--as a kid who got caught damn near every time I tried wetting my pants, I eventually gave up and just decided to wait until I was grown and on my own, a decision that was WELL worth it). 💛

(Please note:  this does not apply to actual bed-wetters or incontinent people who should feel no shame in discussing their need for incontinence products with their doctor and/or guardians.  It's not the wetting or the diapers that are "shameful" in this equation, it's the sexual arousal and the fact that it's deliberate for "pleasure wetters".  And even then, it's not truly immoral or shameful--just something private to be kept to oneself).    

How ABDL's should feel at the thought of their parents finding out.

Dream Wetting Locations

Just filling my bladder up while lying in bed for the umpteenth time this week, daydreaming about all the public places I'd love to wet myself if it were socially acceptable to do so.  (Unfortunately it's NOT & could get you in trouble IRL, so I don't advise trying this yourself for real.  It's just hot to think about).  🫦 💦

There's something indescribably sexy about the thought of entering a dressing room with an armful of clothes to try on, latching the door, hanging up the clothes, pulling down your pants, sitting on the little ledge & just emptying your bladder into your panties as if you were in a toilet stall.  I suppose you could do this in a diaper without making a mess/getting caught if you had to try it IRL.

Imagine the rush from drunkenly walking up to the bar for a refill while simultaneously draining the tank right under the ledge where the bartender couldn't see it!  Everyone behind you could, sure, but what do you care?  You're #pissy drunk!   #liquidcourage

 

So you're puttering along running errands, everything's going fine until... bumper-to-bumper traffic.  You're gridlocked and it's showing no sign of clearing.  Meanwhile your bladder's aching worse by the minute.  30 minutes, 45 minutes go by.  An hour.  Finally after frantically checking everywhere for containers & towels, you realize you're not gonna make it & surrender to nature's call, hot pee bubbling forth like a volcanic eruption in your undies & car seat.  The relief is orgasmic & it takes all your willpower not to Jill off right there in traffic.

It's your first time getting a full-body deep tissue massage & you weren't prepared for how badly it'd make you need to urinate.  Ah, just 10 more minutes according to the big clock on the wall.  You got this...  
Just then you exhale gently as the masseuse pushes on your abdomen and the unthinkable happens--No!  You're having an accident right on the table!  The massage therapist is very understanding, telling you she's seen it happen several times before.  You grab yourself & shoot upright, frantically scanning for a bathroom.  Shockingly she discourages it, warning that you'll "undo" the previous 30 minutes' work if you tense up and leave the table.  "I'm sorry but I still have to go" you protest.  "Don't sweat it.  I know it feels weird but we're almost done, promise.  Try to relax.  I've got extra scrubs in the back if you'd like to just wear them home.  No extra charge." 
Wow.  What a professional & mature attitude.  You begrudgingly lean back into a reclined position, wetting all the while.  She continues kneading & rubbing your muscles as you apologetically hiss & splash your panties until it's hitting the floor. 

While you've never tried public wetting beyond a swimming pool, that could change tonight. You have a date with an Omo sweetie you met on a fetish site & want to dress for the occasion "just in case," choosing a pair of black-grey yoga pants & a long flannel shirt that covers your rear. 
At the theater you order 2 large Cokes & a giant popcorn, settling in the back of the icy theater to watch the previews.  While making out, she tells you she's a '6 out of 10' on the desperation scale & briefly/discreetly rubs herself.  You try to focus on the movie & make it to the halfway point only to see her squirming wildly in her chair--you're secretly desperate too.  She whispers "I can't wait any longer; I'm about to wet" before raising up slightly & flooding her seat completely.  It's not long before you follow suit & are making out passionately with wet pants, unable to finish the movie.  You tie your jackets around your waists & jet past the clerks, giggling at your naughty deed as you leave a wet trail all the way to the car.

Hydration is vital for good health, especially during hot days or while working out.  Sometimes you get carried away though, like that time you drank too much Powerade & black tea before getting on the treadmill at the local gym.  You barely made it into the lounge area before saturating your gym shorts in front of your workout partner, who could only stare in awe at your growing wet spot & puddle.  Luckily you got it cleaned up before the attendant caught you, but you'd be lying if you said you didn't enjoy it.  You re-wet your shorts a 2nd time after being dropped off at home.  

It's the 1st warm week of spring & you strike out on a solo bike ride through the woods.  You brought plenty of water, snacks, your compass & even wore your comfiest old pair of bleached denim jeans....a decision you'd soon regret. 
 You're a half-mile from home when suddenly the breeze picks up & the need to urinate hits HARD.  But you're inside city limits now--you can't just pull off somewhere and drop trou.  In fact you're in a fancy suburban development dotted with constuction workers... you'd be arrested!  Shit, shit.  What to do?  You pedal faster but it's no use.  You're leaking.  Maybe hopping off and pushing your bike would be easier on your bladder?  Press your thighs together a bit?  Ehh, no.  You're still leaking heavily.  It's noticeable big time now.  If only you'd worn your dark Spandex.  It's gonna be a long wet ride home at this rate...

The bathroom is out of order at your office and the closest open one is on the 1st floor across the lobby.  You're on the 14th floor and unfortunately you didn't find this out until too late... far, far too late.  Meanwhile that 3rd coffee has just slipped past your urethra and you've sprung a major leak. 
Thankfully it's just you and your coworker in the office today but you don't want her to see you like this.  You're wearing a skirt & hose sans panties w/ some very high heels.  No trash can or other receptacle in the vicinity... shit!  Pee droplets are streaming down your legs onto the floor.  What're you gonna do?!  You could piss in your chair but then you'd be stuck sitting in it all day. 
O fuck it.  You're already wet.  Just finish on the floor & pretend you spilled something.  Or let the janitor get it and play dumb.  If they wanted you pissing in the toilet they should've had one open. 

Anyone who uses public transit knows how tight things can get when your ride doesn't show up on time, then add the fact that many city buses don't have toilets and, well, it's not hard to see why some folks prefer to use the bus stop benches.  Those who manage to hold it often end up going in their bus seats.  Staying hydrated in the heat is more important than worrying about a little pee anyway.

Gyno/ultrasound wettings are one of my favorite fantasies.  Maybe the doc has you retain a full bladder for some medical test, then doesn't show up on time as doctors are wont to do.  Before you know it, you're spraying hot pee all over the exam table or some nurse's hands as she probes your insides with a cold wand.  Woopsie.

Finally we have the casual public wetter.  This girl truly doesn't GAF & just lets it rip in front of God and everybody.  What's that?  You got a problem with her publicly treating her pants like a toilet?  Wanna take it ou--inside? 

Halloween: The Wetter's Wet Dream!

 

What's the only holiday to be celebrated primarily after dark?  One in which you get to dress up as any crazy character that you desire--real, fictional, historical, modern or otherwise--and sometimes hide your entire face while traveling to far-flung neighborhoods?  That's right:  Halloween.  All of these make it the perfect opportunity for some super soppy pants fun... on the downlow of course.  The biggest stumbling block for would-be wetters this time of year are the icy temperatures, but not this time.  October 2024 has been warmer than any year in recent memory, which means you all had better get out there and participate in SOME FORM of covert holding/wetting activity! 

From haunted houses to corn maizes to themed house parties to good old fashioned trick-or-treating, Halloween is the perfect excuse to buy a cheap silly costume and utterly destroy it with your urine.  There are so many built-in excuses too.  "I was scared!  I got lost I the maze!  I couldn't make it to the bathroom in time!  I had too much Poison Apple Punch!"  And if you're in charge of taking the kids?  Slap on an adult diaper and have some hush-hush fun that only you and your adult partner(s) know about.  This works equally well while handing out candy at home.

It's still early but I've already had some interesting sightings, like this:

Adult babies!

And then there's the Halloween-themed Omo Porn:

Pissy pumpkin carving

Oopsie!

As you can see, people are already getting in the Halloween spirit, so I fully expect all my followers to do the same & share the results on X.com or other channels.  I look forward to seeing your photos, videos, stories & more!  


How do you plan to spend Halloween 2024?  Got any Omo-specific plans in mind?  Share in the comments!

Taking Back the "Peegasm"

1.8k likes?  Seems needing to pee makes a LOT of ppl horny!

I have a theory that many, maybe even most, women would enjoy Omorashi and wet masturbation if they gave it the proper chance.  I know everyone's sexual tastes are wildly different and women make up half the human population so there's NO single thing we're all gonna like, but hear me out.

Reasoning:  It's based mostly on anatomy.  The female G-spot is located right under the bladder, and when full it presses down on said pleasure point & creates all kinds of naughty sensations.  In fact, many women literally can't tell whether they're horny or "just have to pee." 

Well, what if I told you that masturbating with a full bladder is even MORE amazing?  That slowly releasing warm pee into your panties as you watch whatever porn turns you on would make you hotter than the sun, setting you up for the best orgasm of your life?  That the "peegasm" the media has written about is no such thing, and that an ACTUAL peegasm (i.e. gushing piss at the moment of orgasm) is one of the greatest sensations you'll ever feel?  As someone who's had every kind of orgasm imaginable (clitoral, vaginal, G-spot, A-spot, etc), I find the peegasm to be the most euphoric & intense of them all.  💛

Of course there are some caveats here.


How to Unleash Your Inner Omo Dragon

Look at all these wet and wild women!

STEP 1:   You have to get REAL comfortable exploring your body alone.  Like touching yourself in all kinds of ways while thinking the dirtiest thoughts imaginable, watching naughty vids or reading smutty stories... whatever turns you on.  For women, horniness is half mental if not more.  Using lubrication (KY Jelly, Astroglide, etc) makes it more enjoyable for me even though I have no problem getting wet naturally.  See if you can find your G-spot, A-spot, U-spot and other pleasurable erogenous zones & do NOT feel guilty/dirty about it afterward.  Men masturbate on average 2-3x per week, with some doing the deed as much as 1 or more times daily.  The benefits for women include improved sleep, mood & focus.  For some, masturbating may help relieve menstrual cramps, and it carries 0% risk of STDs or pregnancy unlike hetero sex.  

STEP 2 is getting mentally comfy with the pee side of things.  You can start here if you're already comfortable with masturbation.  The belief that wetting yourself is "dirty" or weird is implanted in our psyches from a young age, but you can overcome it with some mental training.  On the contrary, peeing yourself for sexual pleasure in the privacy of your home is perfectly normal & healthy, neither morally positive nor negative.  It's just another way to enjoy sex/masturbation.  If you have a hard time accepting it as normal, simply try watching some pants wetting videos or reading stories about wetting for pleasure on Quora, Omorashi.org or Peefans.com.  You'll see this is a common practice among men & women alike and not the "gross/weird" thing it's made out to be.  Men get to ejaculate every time they orgasm, there's no reason we should be this paranoid about pee when it's less of a disease vector than semen.  That's right:  urine, while not "sterile," is no more unhygienic than tears or saliva, so don't be afraid to go for the gold!  

Over the toilet = a great 1st time wetting setting

Now for the real fun.  Step 3:  When you're ready to try wetting yourself for real, start by trying it over the toilet or in the empty bath tub with just some panties on.  These are natural places to pee and require no cleanup.  Also make sure you have the place to yourself so you don't have to worry about anyone intruding and "catching you".   You can turn a faucet on low or rub yourself to get started if you have a hard time letting go.  Remember, this isn't necessarily for pleasure but just to get over the mental hump of wetting being abnormal.  As you get more comfortable wetting in the bathroom, you can try other locations if you like.  In bed with a bunch of towels (or an incontinence mat) under you is a great place, as you can watch naughty vids there at the same time.  Once you're done, throw your wet things in the washer right away if possible to prevent the "pee smell" from setting in.  If you can't, toss 'em in the tub or sink & run some warm water through them & ring 'em out to help remove excess urine.

In the bathtub = another no-mess location to wet

Finally, put Steps 1 and 2 together & combine wetting with masturbation.  Put on some comfy lounge clothes you don't mind getting wet.  Let yourself get a little bit desperate so you can feel the pressure on your lady bits, then ease into it by either watching Omo porn or reading naughty stories.  Whatever turns you on. Setting up a playlist of your favorite vids ahead of time can be really helpful, and put it on auto play.  As you get more desperate, you can try letting a little bit of pee go into your pants as you touch yourself & continue watching/reading your smut.  (Watching or reading pee/wetting-themed material can really help relax and let go I've found, but choose whatever turns you on most).

Wet clitoral orgasm in piss puddle

When you're bursting or reach the peak of horniness, insert your fingers or toy into yourself and let the pee come spraying out into your undies/pants.  Try to hold it while fucking yourself as long as you can, but don't hurt yourself.  When you approach orgasm, let go totally & flood yourself.  The sensation is otherworldly--spraying yourself with hot wetness while your pussy contracts and goes wild at the moment of climax provides both the greatest feeling of relief and release imaginable.  You may even find yourself squirting for real (i.e. female ejaculate fluid, not pee).  THIS is the peegasm we Omo lovers speak of, not merely holding your pee all day and then getting "the shivers" when you pee in the toilet like the media has claimed.   🙄

Peegasm with dildo

If it doesn't happen the first, second or 3rd time, no sweat.  The fun is in the journey.  Some girls can't let little spurts go without fully flooding themselves and that's okay too.  In that case, don't start peeing until you're ready to orgasm.  You may find that simply cumming after wetting yourself feels amazing and is satisfactory... that a true peegasm isn't necessary.  Indeed, wetting is a pleasure all unto itself and can definitely heighten orgasm even when they don't occur together.  I find that using my vibrating sex toy (not inserted, just externally) for about 20 minutes before masturbating can strengthen my orgasm whether or not I have a peegasm.  

The point is to experiment and have FUN doing it.  Try different positions, locations, clothing & techniques.  With and without lube; with and without sex toys. While looking at different types of content.  This is all much easier if you live alone or have the house to yourself for a few hours once in a while.  But if your bedroom door locks and you have an incontinence mat/mattress protector, you can do it after everyone's asleep provided you sleep alone.  In the long run, the more comfortable you are with your own body, the more comfortable you'll be with a partner & the more satisfactory your sex life will be overall.  

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Are you a woman who's had a peegasm?  Still trying for one, or just curious?  Love to hear from you (anonymously) in the comments!

No Toilet Tuesday: Clarifications

 For those participating in #NTT, the rules are thus:

- No peeing in the toilet from 12 a.m. Tuesday to 12 a.m. Wednesday each week.

Strictly forbidden on No Toilet Tuesday

- For those 24 hours you can pee anywhere else with or without pants:  various containers, a diaper, the floor, in a towel, your bathtub/shower, a trashcan, your pants, the bed... just no using the toilet in the traditional way.

- This does not include sitting on the closed toilet lid to pee or wetting through your pants into the toilet, as those are non-traditional & thus 100% allowed.  

Totally "legal" during #NoToiletTuesday

It's highly encouraged that you document your creative peeing/wetting methods and share them to X.com under the #NoToiletTuesday tag.  I wanna see how y'all are living on days where you swear off the crapper.  And be sure to follow me @Floodgaytes there for lots of hot Omorashi content.  


This is obviously very serious business, so just thought I'd clarify the rules.  (With some smokin' hot pics for good measure).  😄😘  

Amateur Omorashi Legends: Pissqu33n

Wow, OK so as a giant lezzie Omo lover this is the kind of creator that really REALLY does it for me.  Pissqu33n (Lydia) & her super cute gf "Andy" make the hottest vids, most of which involve Ms. Lydia peeing/wetting all over the place.  She appears to pee herself wherever she wants, including the bed, the couch/chair, the car, floor, porch and even in public.  If their house doesn't smell like piss I'd love to know how their secret because this girl is a superpisser.  It's incredibly rare to see not one but TWO lesbians brave enough to show their faces in porn vids, let alone in fetish stuff like this.  Some of my fave vids involve them having sex--Pissqu33n being rubbed through shorts from behind and losing control all over the bed is legendary.  Most of you probably know what I'm referring to, but if not here's a screen cap:

Legend.

It gets a tad creepy at the end when her gf chokes her, but other than that, it's real A1 material.  What I wouldn't give to have an omo-friendly gf like this who was cool with me peeing myself all over the place and/or doing it herself.  These two have been together a long time and hopefully will keep putting out content, as they're a rarity in the Omo world.  Check out Pissqu33n's X.com account @pissqu33n now.

  

Never Have I Ever - Omo Style!

I borrowed the first part of this questionnaire from Omorashi.org so thank you guys for that.  Directions:  Give yourself 1 point for every "yes" and half a point if the answer is 'yes' for part of the question (and 0 for 'no').  Tally up your score at the end to see just how much of a pants-peeing master you really are!   💦

Me + my wet patch.





NEVER HAVE I EVER...

1. Wet your pants accidentally -  Never!

2. Wet your pants on purpose  - Almost every single day now that I have the freedom/privacy.    

3. Peed in bed - It's one of my fave places to wet myself.   

4. Peed outside - Long ago, yes, but not in the last 10 years.   

5. Wet yourself in public.  -  Unless you count all the swimming pools, water parks, lakes, beaches & other bodies of water, no.  I always piss myself near water when in a swimsuit.  My mother told us to when we were kids.   

6. Peed in the bathroom, but not in the toilet - lol Yes I did this the other day!   

7. Measured how much You were holding - Nah.

8. Peed in the pool - See:  Questiom #5.   

9. Had a holding contest with someone.  Sort of, virtually.  I let someone tell me when to pee, anyway.  (Half a point here). 

10. Peed in an ally/park to avoid an accident - No.

11. Peed in the car - Once as a stupid kid I got the urge and wet the same pair of shorts I'd successfully wet earlier, but I got caught.  We were driving down the highway when I peed & I got busted with wet pants at the grocery store.  Huge trouble.  

12. Peed in a diaper/pull-up - Yep!  Reviewed a couple right here on this blog.  

13. Held it for 10+ hours - For sure while sleeping but not for fun.  That wouldn't be very "fun" for me due to the pain.  (Half a point).

14. Peed in a towel/pillow/cushion - Towel yes.  

15. Been tickled/startled into a pee accident - Nope!

16. Been denied the bathroom when you were desperate - No but I did this to a friend and felt terrible after she had an accident.  

17. Let some out to take the pressure off - Not IRL but often at home.   

18. Tried to see how far your stream could go.  Who among us hasn't?  

19. Wet yourself in someone’s lap - Naw.  

20. Had to make up a story on the spot to avoid embarrassment - With my recreational wetting, probably as a kid.  But I've never had accidents.  



Bonus:

Have you ever been given permission to go ahead and wet yourself in a tight situation?  - No.

Ever had an Omo buddy who was NOT a sexual or romantic partner? - Yes!  And it was amazing.  The story can be found here.

Have you ever been FORCED to pee your pants by a cruel authority figure (parent, teacher, bully, etc).  Nope.

Been caught by family members or other roomates resulting in an incredibly embarrassing/otherwise traumatic experience?  Yes, once with very wet pants before school and once when my stash of wet clothes was found.

Had a true peegasm?  (Not the one where you hold your pee and then get "the shivers" from simply peeing, lol ugh).   Many times and lemme tell ya, regular orgasms just don't compare after you've been to the mountaintop!  (And pissed off it).

MY SCORE:  12 + 3 Bonus = 15 total.  

SCORE INTERPRETATION:

0-5:  Dry as a bone

6-10:  Getting Warmer... and Wetter...
11-15:  Pissy-Panted Pro

15-20:  Flooded, soaked, positively DRENCHED!  Sopping Sensei.



If you scored 11-20, congrats!  That means you're above average in terms of wetting experiences.  If you're low on the pee-pee totem pole score-wise, that just means you've got a lot of fun adventures ahead of you.  Go forth & explore, young master.  A wet & wonderful world awaits.  💦 🌏