#PissyArt: Elana Binysh

Wow guys, this is the hottest pee-related thing I've come across in ages.  It's by an artist named Elana Binysh, and I would seriously consider buying it when it comes out because it's that amazing.  It's an interactive piece called "I think it was a feeling".  In the clip featured on the website, Binysh describes the feeling of wetting herself in public as a disabled person and it's. So. Fucking.  HOT!  She recalls:

"The thing is, it actually feels quite nice...  The feeling of damp underwear like moss in a Scottish forest... the feeling of it coming out, the slow trickle that gets faster and faster like whispered fingers trailing down my thighs, my ankles, my feet, the floor.  It's warm.  It's free.  They're looking.  They're jealous.  They wish they were pissing too."  

Holy moly.

Elana has written other "unperformable" pieces about pee too, including one titled PISS MACHINE.  Here's an Instagram post detailing her audio wetting project.  The fact that it's an interactive piece with actual instructions for the listener only makes it better. 

Promo post by Free Range Canterbury

The project contains instructions for the listener such as lying in certain positions, closing their eyes and presumably pissing themselves. The purpose is to help you understand what it feels like to be disabled & totally at the mercy of your body.  But there's no denying the sexiness of it all, from her soft voice to the way she describes wetting so positively & in such great detail.  And there's no guilt or shame for finding it hot because she IS disabled/incontinent & openly admits it feels good.  Listen to the snippet here.  The finished project is slated to be ready in 2025/2026.

Common Fantasy, Rare Reality

Elana Binysh

The fantasy of someone being incontinent and THEN developing a piss/Omo kink from their actual experiences is quite common in the pee fetish community, but I've yet to find many people who fit this description IRL.  (I've written pieces on 'incontinent pride' here before but focused more on the disability aspect--Binysh gets deep into the physical sensation side of things).  You can tell she actually likes the sensation by the way she describes it, even if she'd rather it were a choice.  The idea that people stare because they wish they could piss themselves in public too and are "jealous" is beyond hot.  Such a bold and fearless statement. 🫠

I absolutely love when people who wet themselves, whether for sexual reasons or due to a medical condition, are loud and proud about it.  Not just because it's a fetish for me, but because it challenges tired beliefs about wetting/pee being a dirty or shameful thing that shouldn't be spoken about in polite company.  Others who've done work in this same vein include runners Lucja Leonard & Amy Hatch, author Rachel Michelle Wilson, OnlyFans star Candie Dixon, skydiving accident survivor(!!!) Emma Carey & Canadian playwright Helen C. Escott. It requires a great deal of courage to not only disclose such a thing about yourself but to be totally unapologetic about it.  Elana Binysh takes it a step further & openly discusses he "taboo" fact that it feels good.

If you're reading this Elana, I hope you don't find my brash views too offensive.  But this IS a wetting fetish blog, after all.  If you're not already a part of the Omorashi community we'd be more than happy to have you!  And if you enjoy discussing this topic with other women who do the same thing, well... let's just say my inbox is open wide.  I'd never tell a soul.  🤐  I have a few disabilities myself, though incontinence is not one of them.  

Here's more on Elana Binysh on a site called LEVEL:

"Elana Binysh is an artist working across theatre, live art and sound art. She mainly works as a dramaturg, live sound artist and performer. Her work is unified by a deep devotion to exploring different forms, and a desire to tell contemporary oral histories to people in uncomfortable and tender ways. Her work is raucous, silly and strange. She’s currently being mentored as an experimental writer by Sammy Metcalfe (Sleepwalk Collective), and in the process of writing her first solo project, PISS MACHINE, an unperformable show about invisible disability and waiting, which is posted to your house."

And here's a blog post she wrote about working with artist Jonny Leitch.


(Yeah, I'm currently a tad obsessed.  That 1-minute sound clip got me. Here's hoping she updates us when the full piece comes out because I don't want to miss it, assuming it'll be available online in some format).  

From her personal Insta page.  🫠

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New Blog for ABDL/Mommy Content!

Hey diaper lovers!  I now have a separate blog for my ABDL-specific content that can be found at the link below.  It contains no-holds barred diaper & wetting talk, with topics like "Permission to Wet", "Creating Your Ideal 'Little' Space" and "Mommy Finds Your Diaper Stash".  If you're into peeing in diapers, Pull-Ups, plastic pants, menstrual pads, incontinence briefs or other "padded" items, Mama Tara's ABDL PlayPlace was created just for you!  There, you'll also find everything you need to set up a virtual one-on-one chat session with a real ABDL Mommy (me), along with an even clearer Terms of Service agreement than the one I posted here.   

Absolutely no poop talk, minors or illegal content (real incest, exhibitionism, etc) allowed.  🚫 🙅🏼‍♂  Strictly diapers, desperation & wetting.  I know there's some crossover between my Omo peeps & the diaper wearing/wetting crowd, which is why I'm plugging this here.  Otherwise I intend to keep the two "worlds" separate, not because they're incompatible but because one is a paid service & the other (this blog) is not.  

See ya on the other side of the playpen!
  

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"Pissterest" & The Mainstreaming of Piss Kinks

 

For some demented reason (horniness) I decided to search "Piss" and "Pee" on Pinterest recently.  I wasn't expecting much because they tend to censor the hell out of random search results and this definitely seemed to cross that line.  Nope.  

What I found was a literal motherlode of pee quizzes, puns, confessions & even real pics of wet-pantsed subjects.  A lot of it was amateur & childish, but it proves just how popular this "hobby" has gotten in recent years.  Pinterest is a social media site where people save creative ideas, plan weddings & do other things their friends can see, so commenting on/saving these pins is not a low-key affair--it's essentially announcing your pee kink to the world.  And we're HERE for it.  

Screenshot #1

Screenshot #2

I like this one!

Real pics of guys pissing

Real pics of girls pissing

Dear Pinterest, please do NOT censor these keywords!  It's clear your users have an interest in this subject & as long as the photos are uploaded consensually & don't depict actual genitals or forbidden body parts, they should be allowed since they don't feature anything illegal.  Please stop playing God and trying to determine what users are allowed to see.  Thanks.

My All-Time Favorite Airplane Wetting Story

So I initially saw this story about a year ago on Quora and have been looking for it ever since.  The author is extremely well-written & goes into great detail about his most public wetting on a long flight.  He's seated in a window seat next to 2 sleeping neighbors, and there's turbulence.  What happens next is both every Omo lover's dream and nightmare (highlights mine):

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...and of course the follow-up questions:

This story highlights two things:  One, you should always pee before takeoff if possible.  And 2: consider wearing a diaper on long flights, especially if you've got a window seat or like to consume alcohol, caffeine or other fluids in the airport or plane.  This is one of those times where nobody should be ashamed to wear an adult diaper because the flight attendants & pilots can be VERY irrational/strict at times.  See: here. 

Huge shout-out to the author of this very embarrassing, very titilating story.  We hope he's recovered his dignity by now.  Wetting accidents happen, especially in special circumstances like this.  It wasn't your fault.

Wetting While Sick or Injured

There are few times in life we can truly "get away" with peeing our pants.  Sure, maybe during pregnancy or the rare, once-in-a-blue-moon "bathroom occupied" situation.  But overall, people tend to get judgy if we have accidents too often.  Or they laugh.  Hard. One general exception is while you're laid up in bed too sick or injured to go to the bathroom.  

These times are genuinely not fun and can be miserable due to, well, being sick or in serious pain.  But you can use them as a cover for 'accidents' too.  It may not be as exciting as when you're feeling your best, but it can be quite convenient & at times safer than getting up and stumbling around while unwell.  Just be prepared to clean up after yourself if you live with strict or unempathetic housemates.  ❤‍🩹

Many symptoms of illness/injury can be used to excuse or explain away wetting accidents, such as:

- Coughing + sneezing = leaking(!).  So common there's a word for it:  "Peezing".  

- Fatigue:  "I was too tired and weak to make it."  (Or just wet yourself while "asleep" & feign shock when you wake up).

- Pain:  "OMG the (affected area) hurts so bad when I stand up or walk!  But I need to pee!  Fuck I''m not gonna make it!"

- Nausea/diarrhea:  While lying on the bathroom floor or hugging the trash can, just say you lost control of your bladder.  Or some variation of "I can't get up or I'll puke/I lost control of my bladder."

- Apparently the inflammation from COVID can trigger incontinence in some people; this is especially true if you're coughing/sneezing a lot & your pelvic floor is under pressure.  Relevant right now as the nimbus & stratus variants wind their way through the population.

- Medication side effects.  Some drugs can affect bladder function, including older sedating antihistamines, sleep aids, the opioids in prescription cough syrup or some pain meds, decongestants & others you may use while sick or at other times.  While some meds have a diuretic effect, many of the ones listed above cause incontinence via the overflow mechanism, i.e. when urinary retention leads to an "overflow" of the bladder and thus, accidents.  




Real-World Examples

From fever dreams to fatigue, many illnesses can mess with bladder function.

If you have a UTI (urinary tract infection, that's perhaps the best excuse to wet because these infections directly affect urinary function.  Drink as much water as you comfortably can and pee as often as needed, both to prevent the infection from worsening AND just because you "can".  (And don't wait around to get medical treatment as bladder infection can spread to the kidneys & become deadly).

You may choose to simply wear a diaper while under the weather or in pain.  You wouldn't be the 1st.  This saves you both the hassle of getting up to pee AND cleaning up after yourself.  Some women wear them for heavy menstrual periods, which can save your clothing/furniture if you're a heavy bleeder AND allows you to avoid getting up to pee if you suffer severe menstrual cramps.  Or if you're male, a pee bottle/container on the nightstand can come in real handy in a pinch in times of pain or sickness.

Nursing a hangover or being drunk to the point of getting "the spins" can provide an opportunity to pee in non-toilet places too.  You're clumsy, nauseated, dizzy & disoreinted--you probably wouldn't make it anyway!  If you have a trashcan handy, use it as a temporary toilet.  (Hey, if puking in a trash can is considered okay, peeing in one should be too.  Pee is not a disease vector like vomit.... smell is the only real downside).  Blackout drunkenness offers yet another cover for pissing yourself & then not even remembering the next day, though getting that drunk is definitely not safe or good for you.  ("Pretending" to be super intoxicated provides the same benefits where wetting is concerned.... just saying). 

I've def had times with influenza where I coughed & peed a little despite not having stress incontinence otherwise.  My body was just like "Nope" and gave up.  Also felt like I was gonna vomit, faint & DIE at the same time, but thankfully didn't.  And I've seen firsthand stories by people who've been given permission to wet while laid up with a broken bone.  Crutches, casts, slings & other things can be helpful but also cumbersome, making it easier to just GO where you sit/lie.  And of course more serious injuries causing severe back, neck or spine pain can make getting up impossible.  Been there too.  Rig up a makeshift bedpan and make it work.  

I like to keep a "First Aid Kit" of essential items by my bed in case of illness, of which my pee mat is definitely one.  And diapers if I can afford them.  I usually just end up using them all when I'm not sick though.  I can say they've helped me through some genuinely awful illnesses as well though.  The important thing is being kind to yourself & not pushing yourself too hard.  When sick or injured, our bodies devote all their extra "resources" (energy, immune function, metabolic processes) to getting better.  Trying to "push through" can turn a temporary setback into a more severe or chronic issue.  Rest, hydrate, don't hold your pee & put your healing first! So what if you tinkle in your pants or another "forbidden" location?  You weren't at your best because you were hurting or sick!    

Ever been so sick or injured you just said "fuck it" and wet yourself?  Love to hear about it! (I'm there now which prompted me to write this).  

Poll Results: Caught Wetting

With summer winding down, I decided it was time for another poll.  For this one I wanted to see how many of my piss-loving followers had actually been caught in the act of wetting or with undeniably pissy pants.  Here were the final results:  

Wow, 25% of y'all are bold!  

Tastes vary a LOT within this kink, but for most Omo lovers, the thought of actually being caught wetting causes a primal fear/sick feeling deep in the gut.  Sure, we may get off on porn featuring OTHERS getting busted or wetting in public, or fantasizing about ourselves doing the same.  But the reality is something else entirely.  Some are lucky enough to have a partner who knows & doesn't mind--I'm not talking about that.  I mean getting busted by a peer, co-worker or authority figure--maybe even a stranger--in undeniably pissy pants.

I have unfortunately had this happen quite a few times as a kid.  The worst was when my mom found my pissy clothes stash.  I was an older teen & she wan't kind.  But there were several other times before that in early childhood between, oh, I'd say ages 6-11, where I openly pissed myself & magically expected not to get caught.  Spoiler:  I got caught.  And even worse, it was clear it wasn't an accident but something I was doing very deliberately because I liked it.  These were not pleasant or "hot" experiences in the slightest--the getting caught part, anyway.  To this day the thought of public wetting is a turn off for me.  

But the thought of OTHERS getting busted or wetting in public?  Super hot.  So I wanted to see how many of my Twitter followers had experienced this seminal event and how they felt about it.  I was surprised to see that a full 25% of the 28 voters polled state that they get caught "on purpose" & less surprised to see that a full 53.6% feel they'd "die" of humiliation of they were caught.  This confirmed my intuition that most Omo lovers don't dig public wetting or getting caught when we're talking about THEMSELVES and a real-life scenario.  Another 14.3% said they were caught as kids while 7.1% have been caught and said it was "awful".  So a vast majority have either not been caught or found it awful when they were.  The rest of y'all are built different.  😛

It's interesting how wide the gulf can be between what we find arousing in porn or fantasy vs. what we want to actually experience ourselves.  Of course I didn't get any feedback on how many of those surveyed like the idea of getting caught or find public wetting hot when others do it, but the popularity of the subgenre tells me there's a market for this high-risk activity.  Personally, I'm not a fan of the deliberate super-public wettings in stores & such, though I do find desperate accidents in public super hot.  

...again, not when they happen to ME (which thankfully they never have).  If that makes me a hypocrite I guess I'll be that lol.  In all seriousness, I hope those of you who are a bit on the exhibitionistic side are being responsible & not exposing children or elderly people to this pastime, at least.  What one pisslover does reflects on the whole community, for better or worse.



How do you feel about the idea of getting caught wetting vs. ACTUALLY getting caught wetting?

Stealthy Wetting Tips, Pt. Deux

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