Elephant in the Room: Exhibitionism, Property Destruction & Non-Consent in the Piss Kink Community

 


Hey piss kinksters:  Give the extreme exhibitionism and sexual deviancy a rest.

No, I'm not referring to your kink or fetish.  I'm talking about the non-consensual exhibitionistic acts people keep showing up in the news for.  This gives us all a bad look and will eventually get you arrested.  And it's not just the content creators and "pissers" who are wrong here--it's everybody who likes, shares, leaves a comment of approval on, buys or otherwise cheers on their antisocial behavior online.  

Sex acts fall into only one of two categories:  consensual or rape.  Defiling products meant for human consumption is clearly in the latter category, and it's a special kind of vile.  A story is currently circulating about an OnlyFans creator who tampered with food in the supermarket, pissing directly into it for Livestream content.  "Kinki Kelli" she's called, but her real name is Kelli Tedford of New Hampshire.  And she didn't stop there, allegedly pissing up a hotel lobby after her initial arrest.  The deplorable photo above is from her porn creator account, where she makes money committing illegal acts.

Here's what a friend had to say in her "defense":

Having a kink does NOT justify defacing property or tampering with food products.

As you can see, the "logic" of the person making excuses for her seems to be:  if enough people demand a thing, it's not so bad to supply it even if said thing is illegal.  Oh really?  Does that extend to CSAM or snuff films?  I'm sure there's MORE than enough "demand" for someone to get rich making that filth... where's the line?   

Flight diverted after drunk man pisses in plane mid-flight

And Mizz Tedford isn't alone.  People are constantly showing up in the news for pissing on the floor/seat/other people on commercial flights, pissing on shelves in stores & pissing on food.  That's to say NOTHING of the abundance of public wetting/pee videos in which the creator ruins real clothes in a dressing room by peeing on them, has a huge wetting in the middle of a place that serves food or has kids present or otherwise involves others against their will.  What gives you the right to destroy property you don't own or worse, to contaminate food and drink products?  Nothing.  You don't have that right.  So knock it tf off.  

Then there's this creep.  A special kind of demented, he walks through malls & other highly public places, asking "cute girls" (age unknown) for directions to a bathroom while intentionally pissing his pants and recording it.  He's cheered on by his many followers on X.com.  

No friends, this has nothing to do with Omorashi or a pee kink and EVERYTHING to do with escalating deviant behavior we see in people with porn/sex addiction.  It's what happens when one gets so desensitized to extreme sexual content that they need increasingly risky, deviant or violent content/behavior to attain the same rush, and there's no bottom to where it can end up.  "Extreme" can include violence, sex acts with minors/animals, high-risk behaviors like pissing in the middle of Walmart... anything taboo or forbidden.  It's why taking periodic breaks from porn & going outside to touch grass is so important.  For everyone. 

Some things are forbidden or "naughty" due to outdated cultural, religious or social norms while others are considered taboo because they're demonstrably wrong or harmful.  Anything involving lack of consent--especially to this degree--is the bad kind of taboo.  More importantly, it's illegal.  




An Explanation, Not an Excuse

Peachypoppy's harrowing story.  I suspect this is the rule rather than the exception.

That's not to excuse the behavior of these grown-ass people.  You can't blame porn, alcohol or anything else for what they CHOOSE to do.  It's an explanation, not an excuse.  And I suspect that some of the women doing these humiliating/risky things are being forced or coerced by abusive boyfriends/wannabe porn producers or even pimps and Johns.  (Beloved Omo creator Peachypoppy recently detailed the Hell she went through with her abusive boyfriend/porn producer before breaking free only when he died, and I suspect this is a lot more common than anyone wants to talk about). 

In these super-public wetting vids, the camera is always trained on a woman while the man filming it remains unknown (it's always a man).  Otherwise these women have gotta be on hard drugs like meth that destroy dopamine receptors & desensitize the brain to deviant shit directly because no woman alive would willingly humiliate herself like that, risking her freedom and potentially ruining her reputation for LIFE by pulling these highly public stunts.  Is anyone looking into the people surrounding Kelli Tedford who stand to profit from her illegal acts?  I'd bet my left kidney there's a nameless, faceless boyfriend-slash-pimp putting her up to it.  

Doing sexual shit without consent is bad by any measure and tantamount to rape in many aspects.  But to defile items meant for human consumption or KILL a beta fish in the name of selling niche porn content is a different kind of low.  It borders on bioterrorism because you've broken the safety seal on a consumable product and introduced a contaminant that could sicken or, in theory, kill someone with a weakened immune system.   And you DID kill the animal. 

I sincerely hope everyone struggling with porn/sex addiction (or whatever tf kind of addiction is propelling this behavior) gets the help they need BEFORE they end up behind bars.  To those who get off on the lack of consent, the exhibitionism & destruction of property:  you BELONG there.  Especially you cowards working the camera while all these women humiliate themselves publicly & risk their freedom/future to earn YOU money.  Here's hoping you get caught & prosecuted before you harm anyone else.  Ditto all the porno sites that literally pay creators to produce illegal material.  Whether intentional or not, you're incentivizing this behavior.    

YOUR KINK OR SEXUAL COMPULSION IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR BREAKING THE LAW & VIOLATING OTHERS, even if it's a popular kink.  You WILL be called out for this kind of sick, psychopathic shit by at least one person (me) even if you're surrounded by a million yes-men who cheer you on.  If I can identify your location or Metadata/IP address, I'll turn it over to the authorities.  None of this is acceptable and if you're not doing your part to stop it, you are the problem.  If your "content" depends on non-consent or other outright illegal behaviors, it needs to be shut down and permanently banned from all paying websites.  As long as the profit motive is there, the behavior will continue.  Hopefully we see the sites themselves held accountable in court for paying these perverts to produce illegal material.  

How To Have a (Real) Peegasm - Ladies' Edition

 

Ladies:  if you aren't having peegasms, you're missing out.  What is a peegasm?  Exactly what it sounds like--when you piss yourself at the moment of orgasm, often forcefully.  All you have to do is masturbate with a full bladder in a place where you feel totally comfortable & free, such as an empty bath tub or in the bed on a mattress protector.  It really helps to watch wetting porn or read dirty pee stories because, when you need to go and watch others peeing freely, it becomes hard NOT to do likewise.  I usually spurt in my pants a lot while rubbing myself before the big conclusion happens.  Once a finger or sex toy is inserted, that usually sends me over the edge very quickly, causing me to spray hot pee all over my hand and the inside of my panties.  🫠

That's a surefire way to have a peegasm--to masturbate with a very full bladder, inserting your finger(s) while rubbing your clit.  Your fingers will rub up against your swollen G-spot, putting pressure on your bladder & causing it to release.  This feels VERY good.... so good you'll likely never want to go back to doing it the other way.  You've been warned.  

The toilet is a great place for a peegasm

A lot of Omo enthusiasts & piss kinksters pee right before or after orgasm, but I see surprisingly few who time it to coincide with orgasm.  Not sure how male anatomy works but women can certainly achieve this.  It's sometimes referred to as "squirting," which is different than female ejaculation, mostly in volume.  Female ejaculation is "real," but what's shown in porn is almost 100% pee.  (Sometimes there isn't even an orgasm when they start to pee, which lets you know it's definitely urine.  Female ejaculation happens at the moment of orgasm and usually during a powerful one).  Either way, these "squirters" wouldn't do it if it didn't feel amazing.

Indeed, it feels heavenly to lose total control like that at the moment of climax.  The release of orgasm combined with the relief of emptying your bladder is hard to adequately describe.  The sound is often hissy & loud due to the sheer force with which it sprays out, and it adds so much additional warmth to the already steamy sensation of coming.  It's like all the pressure from masturbation or sex builds up and then comes shooting out in one (or more) hot, glorious streams. 

But in order to achieve something this taboo & naughty you must feel 100% comfortable in your surroundings.  Make sure you won't be interrupted or "caught," then get as comfy as possible.  I also find it easiest to achieve when lying on my back & hitting my G-spot with my fingers upturned.  But try many positions to find what works best for you.  If you're too full or desperate, let a little go while playing with yourself to relieve the discomfort.  (Assuming you can leak or spurt without losing total control).  Pee can make a great lubricant as long as it's not too concentrated & acidic.  Proper hydration is important with all pee/wetting games but it's especially vital here.  

To summarize:  Fill your bladder 3/4ths full or slightly fuller.  Choose a time and place where no one will bother you, get comfy, put on some naughty wetting videos or stories & masturbate as normal (but with a very full bladder).  Insert fingers or waterproof toys while rubbing your clit.  Don't focus on "trying" to squirt, just do what feels great.  As orgasm approaches, start relaxing your pelvic muscles slightly & see if you can leak a little and stop.  Don't force it, just try to pee around your toy or fingers.  As soon as you're actually cumming, release the brakes & let loose!

Someone made a comparison chart.  How quaint.  🙄

And I can't do a peegasm/squirting article without pointing out the sexism lurking behind this phenomenon.  Overwhelmingly male scientists have taken it upon themselves to "disprove" that women can ejaculate, measuring the quantity, composition & origin of our most intimate fluids and making the whole thing feel very cold & clinical, if not shameful.  Fuck that.  Regardless of whether it's female cum, piss or liquid gold coming up like a bubbling crude, the fact remains that it feels sublime.  Never feel bad about your body's functions or what comes out of you, especially when men expect women to swallow what comes out of them.  Just from a disease/germ standpoint, pure piss is far less hazardous than semen/sperm OR vaginal fluid so relax and go with the flow!    

Also:  What the media refers to while clutching its pearls as "peegasm" is nothing of the sort.  In the media's version, women hold their urine for hours and then get the "shivers" when going to the toilet, which can obviously cause bladder/kidney problems because it's not good to hold your pee that long.  While they've got it right that holding can feel great due to the proximity of the G-spot to the female bladder, they've got the "-gasm" part all wrong.  The shivers one gets from peeing after a long hold is NOT an orgasm.  It's like everyone wants to shame & scare women for experiencing raw, uninhibited pleasure.  Again, I say fuck that.  We see through your infantilizing nonsense & condescension.

Excellent peegasm position

Oh, and as a final word, women prone to UTI's can enjoy this pastime too as long as you remember to pee fully within an hour of playing. Taking a quick bath (sans soap!) afterward is also helpful to keep the area clean & bacteria-free.  As long as you don't insert the same item into your anus and vagina, the risk for infection is low with this activity.  It is quite messy though so make sure to put something underneath your bum if you're not in the bath tub or on the toilet when it happens.  I recommend the PharMeDoc incontinence mat, which I reviewed here.  

Here's something to watch while you play.  And a few screenshots to give you a visual:

Q&A: Do Adults Wear Diapers on Flights?

 

While such a thing is impossible to know for sure, it would make a lot of sense.  Long or international flights can create many hurdles to emptying the bladder in a timely manner, which I'll get into in a second.  Personally, I think this is one scenario where even non-peelovers and fully continent adults SHOULD consider padding up.

So you just boarded your flight after an hour and a half in the airport Starbucks, guzzling caffeinated drinks.  You have to pee but not too urgently.  As soon as you're in the air, the FASTEN SEATBELT sign starts glowing and the pilot announces there will be turbulence soon.  Great.  In addition, you're in a window seat and your neighbors aren't exactly slender--moving is hard for them.  But your nerves are shot (you hate flying!) so you order a mixed drink when the attendant comes around and asks for your order.  Surely the bathrooms will open up before long?  You gulp down your drink & immediately feel better.  And then worse, because your bladder is now screaming for relief.  You've been in the air 45 minutes and are only sure of 1 thing:  you can't make it until you reach your destination.  You start to stand up and have your neighbors move, but the flight attendant comes around & informs you that you can't get up right now even for an emergency.  After another 20 minutes the light dings off.  A line forms at both bathrooms.  Fuck it.  You're screwed.

Such a scenario is disturbingly common on commercial flights.  And the thing is, it's entirely predictable!  Between the alcohol and caffeine served at airports, the in-flight drinks, long bathroom lines & turbulence signs, even a bladder of steel could end up losing control.  The only logical, sane solution is to wear a diaper.  It doesn't even need to be a thick taped one either.  Pull Ups and medical diapers are great options.  Combine these with black polyester pants, a long trenchcoat-style jacket or another stealthy option and it won't matter if they do leak.  Sure beats flooding your pants and having to sit in a puddle the whole flight.

Don't end up like this lady...

The only issue is that diapers will show up in the TSA scanners, which could get you pulled aside for a pat-down and questioning.  But is that really worse than wetting yourself on a tightly-packed flight?  Of course not.  (It may be possible to skip the scanner and opt for just a pat down if you say you're concerned about radiation.  I know I've done this before and it was fine).  When you consider there are penalties like this for peeing in your seat, you might change your tune about this issue. 

And here's where I'll insert a little reminder that adult diapers are not just for the elderly, disabled or incontinent.  They're for whatever you need them for, whether that's night-time urination, a job that doesn't allow bathroom breaks or long flights/car rides.  They exist in a variety of sizes, thicknesses & styles and are made for EVERYONE.  It's not healthy to hold your bladder to the point of pain & losing control involuntarily, so it would behoove everyone to get over their diaper phobia and start viewing them like pads or tampons are viewed:  as HYGIENE products intended to keep your clothes & surroundings dry.  Not a punchline or something to be ashamed of.  In fact, it's nobody's business what kind of underwear you sport. 

....or this dude. 

So try on a couple brands while you're at home with nothing to do and pick the one that is most comfy/absorbent.  If you're uncomfortable buying them in person, stores like Wal-Mart & Amazon deliver and ship.  I promise the airlines would prefer everyone wore diapers instead of pissing in their seats & aisles.  In no universe is whipping it out and peeing in your seat preferable to wearing an adult diaper.  Sometimes those are the only 2 options you have.


Other in-flight tips to help prevent urinary accidents:

- Limit alcohol and caffeine in the hours leading up to the flight.  Both are diuretics that increase urinary frequency/urgency.  If you have flight anxiety, try Valerian root or a prescription anxiety medication.

- Use the airport bathroom before taking off!  High altitudes increase the amount of urine a person puts out, so avoid that right off the bat by emptying your bladder pre-flight.  

- Arrive early or on time so you have time to use the bathroom.

- Hydrate well before your flight.  While it seems counterintuitive, hydration is even more important at high altitudes to prevent dehydration, which increased urination can contribute to.  As long as you empty your bladder before boarding, this shouldn't cause any major issues.  

- Try a product like an oxybutynin patch, especially if you have any form of incontinence (OAB, urge, stress, etc).  These are safe for most people but can cause dizziness if left on too long, so remove as your flight is landing.  

- Stop drinking water or other fluids within 30 minutes of your flight.  As long as you're hydrated & make sure to drink plenty when you land, you should be fine and this will reduce urinary frequency.

So while I haven't answered your question about how many adults wear diapers on flights, hopefully this post explains why it's a good idea to consider it.  Even if you don't end up using it, you'll be a lot calmer and more relaxed knowing you're not gonna wet yourself & cause a scene.  I can almost guarantee some pilots & flight attendants wear them and you're none the wiser.

Quickie Porn Review: Woman Stuffs Panties & Wets

 

Let's get these hair ties out of the way...



Ahhh, much better!

Mph, gotta get 'em in there good.

Well that's ONE way to wet your panties!

So I'm usually not big on panty-stuffing vids but there's something incredibly hot about watching this lady empty her bladder around her panties while standing over a bowl.  In fact, there's something hot about wetting into bowls in general.  

The vid starts with what looks like a typical housewife doing chores but she's actually getting ready to pop a squat on the living room floor and wet her panties into a bowl.  And she does, beautifully.  But it's the 2nd half that had me hitting replay over & over.  In it she stands over a green bowl & proceeds to shove her panties up her pussy before standing w/ legs half bent & letting go into the bowl, soaking the panties in the process.  Just imagining what it must feel like to pee with a full pussy is a huge turn-on.

Only way this vid could be any better is with vocalizations.  It kinda feels like she's doing this to please her man, but aside from that it doesn't get much hotter!

Bring Back REAL Omo Videos!

 

Omorashi (Japanese: おもらし / オモラシ / お漏らし; "to wet oneself"), sometimes abbreviated as omo, is a form of fetish subculture first categorized and predominately recognized in Japan, in which a person experiences arousal from the idea or feeling of having a full bladder and potentially wetting themselves, or from witnessing another person in that situation.

Notice the emphasis on both the "full bladder" and "wetting" parts.  This is crucial because so many of today's "Omorashi" or wetting videos are nothing of the sort, often featuring zero plot, no desperation and a non-public (or TOO public) wetting.  What do I mean by "too public?"  The sub-sub genre of wetting content consisting of a woman just brazenly pissing herself in the middle of a clothing store, supermarket aisle or busy outdoor area while her creepy boyfriend/pimp follows with the camera.  This has nothing to do with Omorashi, which centers around the NEED to pee and urgently trying to decide whether one wants to wet themselves or keep holding.  Not only does it not scratch that itch for me, it puts the stars at real risk of being arrested, thrown out of the business or humiliated.  Plus it's highly inconsiderate to those around them.  It's antisocial behavior, period.

In order to truly fit into the Omorashi category, a video must contain some sort of "motive" for the person pissing themselves.  It could be a long bathroom line, a stuck zipper, a sneeze that turned into a leak... your choice.  Get creative.  And you can do as little as including the reason for wetting in the title.  Secondly, it needs actual desperation to highlight the fullness of the bladder.  This may involve "pee dancing," crotch grabbing, foot-tapping, whining or other verbal clues.  Again, your choice.  Lastly, the wetting should happen somewhere semi-public or at least riskier than a bath tub or toilet but not so public it becomes exhibitionism.  It's also your choice whether to make it an "accidental" wetting or casual/pleasure pee but the former is more realistic in the context of public Omo vids.

Woman surrenders to nature's call in parking lot

It's all about that dance of "will I or won't I?"  Once the wetter resolves to piss themselves, it becomes "how do I minimize the damage?"  The wetting itself is hot, but it's the being stuck between a rock and a hard place... the fire & the frying pan that builds suspense & sets you up for a great finale.  The moment of surrendering to your body's will & how you react in the aftermath are all priceless.  Acting out realistic scenarios where someone is actually likely to wet themselves IRL like while stuck in traffic or sent to their room by parents = 🔥  Needing to pee while masturbating = also 🔥.  Again, GET CREATIVE.

I could link you to a hundred "Omorashi" vids that are disappointing & miscategorized, but I'm not going to do that.  It's rude to the creators who are kind enough to share them with us at all.  Instead, I'll share some of my all-time favorite desperation/wetting vids as examples of what an Omo vid can truly be.

Peeing During Art Class

Petite Teen Wets Her Shorts

Desperately Holding Piss until I Piss in my Panties under my desk

Closeup Pee Desperation on a Chair (Nude, but GREAT desperation & long pee)

Amazing car desperation video

Drinking until I Can't Hold Anymore

Stepmother Pees Her Pants in the Car

Chubby Screaming from Hardcore Piss Desperation, Jeans Wetting

On the gyn chair pissing me nicely in the pants (lol)

Sarah's Adventures - Pussy playing with Full Bladder Makes Her Pee in the Bed

.......and that's how it's done.  Notice how they all feature some degree of backstory and desperation?  The fight to avoid losing control which is ultimately lost must be shown in order for it to be true Omorashi content.  And if it's casual/intentional wetting, make it like "Stepmother Pees Her Pants in the Car" and pretend as if it's 100% normal to piss yourself.  "Is there traffic?  I think we're just gonna pee our pants" coming from Alyssa Reece is sooo hot!  

Real Quick while we're on the subject, here are some things that absolutely, under no circumstances fall under the heading of Omorashi:

- Pooping/"messing"
- Fauxcest 
- Adult babies/infantilism (diapers are fine)
- Pee drinking
- Violence, cruelty or degradation
- Hidden camera bullshit
- Non-consensual public exhibitionism
- Furries
- "Teen" anything that doesn't specify age

These things are either illegal or belong to other genres of porn/fetish communities.  There's nothing inherently wrong with having other fetishes, but they ARE other fetishes, not wetting or Omo.  Time to start reporting every misleading piece of content mislabeled as Omorashi.  Enough is enough.

Finally, here's a video by the legendary Wetlinda that shows just how vocalization, desperation & attributes like a big bladder capacity can really increase the hotness of a video.  Also notice she's not standing in a bath tub or another "safe" place--she just goes right on the bench in a public park.  (No one is around so she's not at imminent risk of being arrested though like those exhibitionist wetters):

When she whispers "oh that feels so good" I 🫠.

What advice or criticism do you have for modern Omo/wetting content creators?  Which elements do you consider "essential" for a quality wetting vid?

Little Omo Things I Love

Just a few of my favorite Omo things nobody really talks about.  And an excuse to offload some saved files.  Enjoy!


 

When she sits on a towel in the car because she leaks so often. 

When lying in Oyster Shell position & the pee snakes its way down the bottom leg.
Like thissssss. ^^^

When she gingerly scoots her butt forward to pee off the edge of a chair.

The deep, deep squat & the gushing stream that follows.

When they raise up and quietly start pissing themselves, clearly trying to minimize damage. 

Rewetting... and re-re-re-wetting.

When she's wearing a skirt but is so desperate she pisses right through it!

When they put their hand on their full bladder as they wet.

When they need to go so bad it sprays way above their pants.

When she pees so much her pussy is half submerged in it.

This angle.

When she pulls her pussy up like this to try & stop from leaking.

These are just a FEW of my personal favorite Omo things

The Infinite Hotness of Pee Math

When a person is in a truly desperate situation, their mind starts spinning a hundred miles per second.  Having a full bladder that threatens to release itself publicly in your pants or burst can leave you in a tight spot indeed.  This is where a person often starts doing "Pee Math," aka asking themselves hypothetical questions about various choices they could make.  Pee math generally starts with the least offensive option--making it home to pee or similar--before devolving into a series of mini-negotiations as they realize they're not making it home.  It can include calculating distance to the nearest bathroom, number of drinks consumed, minutes until your next stop or other non-numerical details related to your urgency.


Here's a fictional scenario full of examples:   

"Okay, I've got 5... MAYBE 10 minutes until I wet myself.  No, definitely five.  Max.  I drank 3 drinks and one water, that's, hmmm...."

(11 minutes later)

"Of course I could just slip into this alleyway and pull my pants down and pee like a sane person.  No, that's dangerous!  It's a dark alley.  Keep walking.  Just a block more to go, give or take."

(6 minutes later)

"So if I DID wet myself, I could just say I spilled a drink or got splashed by a car or something.  If anyone asks."  

(2 agonizing minutes later)

"How much can I unzip my fly without it being obvious?  Fuck it.  Beats the alternative."

(In real physical pain, no idea how many minutes later)

"So I think I'm definitely gonna pee.  But would it be better to try & hold it all, or let a little go to relieve pressure?  I think I could get away with a few spurts."

Get it?  "Pi-Pi?"

Thus begins the slippery slope (literally) of convincing yourself to go "just a little more".  You stop beside your car before entering, looking around to make sure the coast is clear.  After some serious concentration you're able to spurt for about 1 second and stop.  Whew!  See?  Not so bad.  You get strapped into the car, seatbelt cutting into your bulging bladder.  Uh-oh.  Well if it worked the first time, why not do it again?  Oh, that one was a tad longer and you barely had to pause and think first!  But DAMN it felt good.  Good thing you have leather seats. Okay, only 2 minutes to the first stoplight.  We'll reassess then....

By the time you arrive home your pants and car seat are flooded.  THAT'S the magic of pee math.  I've gotten so desperate it feels like my brain is failing altogether so I can definitely relate.  As a kid I'd tell myself "just a little more leaking won't hurt" until I'd emptied my entire bladder in my pants, which usually got me in huge trouble.  The mind does funny things when the bladder is desperate for release.